Relationships

topic posted Thu, December 23, 2004 - 2:10 PM by  offlineteufelin
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Hi, I am just trying to decipher if it is just me or if all Gemini's get bored easily in a relationship. Also what signs do you tend to have the best chemistry with? I love Libras, but they always run away from me. Most other signs I generally run away from them. I think the guy on the just say no to Geminis tribe has my number.
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    Wed, December 29, 2004 - 12:52 PM
    In my youth, I went through men like toilet paper. I am 37 now and have been in a relationship for 10 years now.

    I think having a very "active" Gemini personality really is a magnet for relationships and love. That is my two cents...

    P.S. I am in the relationship with another Gemini! LOL!
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      Thu, December 30, 2004 - 1:08 PM
      I dated a Taurus for 5 years and had a great relationship...no fighting, a lot in common type thing...but I did get bored and we both moved on (we're still great friends) but I have been with a lot of other guys since then, not finding the right one yet...one of my best guy friends is another Gemini though we have a lot in common, for obvious reasons haha but as far as a "relationship" goes not sure if we'd mesh
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        Mon, January 10, 2005 - 12:53 PM
        Okay so I lied...our relationship was NOT boring...absolutely wonderful and beautiful...probably a little bitter that were not still together haha
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    Mon, May 2, 2005 - 1:34 PM
    hi, a libra is running away from me right now. after 5 plus years together, she decided she's had enough after i came around and decided to settle and have a family with her....never really connected with others as much. but it's all good and there is someone there all of us geminis..as for the guy that's anti-gemini, i feel compassion towards the lost brother and let the fiyaa burn under his finernails and toes..hehe;)
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      Mon, August 8, 2005 - 10:06 AM
      Funny libras always run away from me....sometimes I think I want one of my very own....but it always ends in some never really began sort of way...
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        Thu, March 23, 2006 - 9:45 PM
        I am a libra and I had to run away from a gemini for my own safety, He was getting abusive. I am now with a new Gemini and we are very much together. He is so steadfast and stable it scares me. I am definitly going to be the flighty one. Even in bed, he sleeps all night through, I get up several times during the night to pee or deal with the cat. He can sit at a computer for 10 hours in a row, maybe getting up to pee once, I will have to get up to stretch, walk around, do someting every 30 minutes at the most.
        Us libras can't sit still to save our lives. or maybe it's just me.
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          Wed, September 27, 2006 - 10:08 PM
          i'd say i had to run away from the libra. it was the best sex i ever had and she probably did the most for me relationship wise but she was to clingy and we spent way to much time together.

          i've dated 2 capricorns and i'd say they deffinatly have their "own" routines as well as their "way" of doing things. there's no changing their minds. but they're sweethearts.

          leo's just scare me. i don't think i could ever date one. i dated one when i was 14 and we had the most silly fun but the leos i know now i would never date. they seem to have their own territory and when u piss them off the world is over.

          the most i've ever gotten along with someone was this gurl who was also a gemini. it was weird because she acted like she liked me alot and we totally got along and everything but she mind fucked me. we never really got together cuz she always had an excuse, it was really weird so i just gave up after a couple years. i've never had that problem with anyone! i would love to date a gemini but i'm scared. lol
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    Fri, March 24, 2006 - 6:48 AM
    I am not only a Gemini, but have Mercury and Mars in Gemini as well. And I have rarely been bored in a relationship. I suspect it is because my relationships have all been with ladies who were quite unique, and who had many different levels to them.....so that it was like dating several people at a time.

    I've been involved with more Aquarians than any other sign, seven, to be exact. And there was NEVER a dull moment with any of them, and there has always been chemistry. There has often been chemistry with Aquarius ladies I was not involved with, as well.
    I've been involved with four Pisces ladies, including one who was my wife for fourteen years. I love them, there is chemistry too, but I have vowed 'never again' because there have always been communication problems...moreso than with any other sign I've dated.
    Sagittarians..... I'm kind of biased, my Moon is in Sag. I've been involved with three, and each one has changed my life, each one has given me some of the highest highs, but also some of the lowest lows. When there has been chemistry, it has been the most fiery, passionate type.

    I have had a relationship with one lady of every other sign except Cancer. I'm not sure why there have been no Moon Goddesses in my life, other than as wonderful friends.

    With all of the other signs not mentioned above, there has not been a general chemistry. Just something special with the one lady I've connected with. And none of those relationships lasted very long at all, although I am still friends with many of the ladies. It's only been with Sag, Aquarius and Pisces that I've had long lasting relationships.
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      Wed, April 26, 2006 - 7:16 AM
      I get on with a lot of Leos, Sagitarrius, and Aquarius although I have played with Scorpios. With Leos there is a lot of passion due to each of us knowing we are right :) Sagis are awesome, but I always feel like I have to prove something to them. Aquarians drive me insane, they always seem to know something I don't, something in their eyes. Scorpios are pretty fun and creative.

      Worst for me is Cancers, I always feel like I am being suffocated and surrounded with no escape.
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    Sun, April 2, 2006 - 12:32 AM
    Hi, I'm a double Gem with moon in Aires - Mercury and Mars in Gemini as well. Boredom in relationships has never been an issue. I've been way too involved in multiple interests to achieve boredom in my life, with a partner or without.

    The best partners I've known are Taurus and Leo. The more difficult are Virgo,


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    Tue, April 4, 2006 - 12:27 PM
    Hi, I'm a Gem and I general don't get bored in relationships. Signs that seem to be attracted to me - Gemini, Libra, Aquarius, Virgo, Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio, Sagittarius.

    But relationships that have lasted the longest (4 years or more) were with another Gem and a Scorpio. Signs I try to avoid like the plague are Picses and Cancer.
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      Tue, April 18, 2006 - 5:29 PM
      Funny points with Picses. I have been friends with some, but never dated them. I also think picses when in other aspects (rising/moon) for people might be a no go.....I seem to be very ambitious, and I don't find this trait in such people. As the stereo type for Gem's I seem to do well with other Gem's, Airies, and lately some Libra's have been floating in and out. However, I am starting to wonder if maybe I should just see how things go. Anyway thanks for your posts, and I am still interested in these dynamics for others. Oh the other strange one for me is Scorpio(Sun and sometimes rising), while I seem to be very attracted to them I have a hard time dealing with their secretive side...Is it maybe over done? And Virgo is fun for a short stint (probably just sexual), but I have never had anything lasting unless it was a friendship with them.
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        Fri, April 21, 2006 - 12:45 PM
        The funny thing I have notice about Scorpios and thier so call sercetive side, is it really is an act (intentional and/or unintentional). I guess what I am saying is sometimes when one trys to figure out what a Scorpio is thinking - alot of the time they are just spacing out. LOL

        Also, the varies looks they make, give them away. I usually, know in a heartbeat when I'm trouble, when he' s planning a "boys only" outing, when he's planning a quiet evening at home, and so forth. LOL Sounds like I'm observing an animal. *giggle*

        This also works for family members and friends. ^_^
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          Tue, April 3, 2007 - 7:47 PM
          Normally it's the oppisite of what they tell you.They lie a lot and are highley manipulative.I've known a few scorps and i've gotten along fine with them cause i dont get emotionally attatched but i tend to get annoyed with them when they use people.I find them to be selfish and inconsiderate.I think they are missunderstood and are just very good at hiding who they really are.They also pride themselves in this.When you find out their evil work, they laugh and walk away..They just don't care.Crying is just mask they wear.It's like a child taking a temper tantrum cause they can't get what they want.

          I don't hate them but don't really appreciate their ways...
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    Sun, April 23, 2006 - 10:51 PM
    I don't get bored due to my multiple personalities -- lol --

    Seriously, as a Gemini, I usually find myself loving more than one person at a time. It's not that I get bored with #1 -- just that #2 has additional facets to explore.
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      Wed, November 15, 2006 - 3:29 PM
      I definitely need my friends who pick up where my taurus leaves off. He's wonderful, but he can be so grounded, I need to have my peeps that have their heads in the clouds like me.
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    Mon, March 5, 2007 - 4:03 PM
    By Mercedes:

    "Re: Relationships
    In my youth, I went through men like toilet paper. I am 37 now and have been in a relationship for 10 years now.

    I think having a very "active" Gemini personality really is a magnet for relationships and love. That is my two cents...

    P.S. I am in the relationship with another Gemini! LOL! In my youth, I went through men like toilet paper. I am 37 now and have been in a relationship for 10 years now."

    Lol. I can relate to this. I'd like someone a lot, go out with them, and then once I went out with them I wasn't interested in them anymore. I was very fickle until my progressed Sun went into H7 Cancer in my early 20's. From that point on I didn't have any problem sticking with a relationship.
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      Fri, March 16, 2007 - 9:42 PM
      I get bored quickly as well...Im dating an Aries and he has kept my interest ...and i know an Aries at work and hes very exciting to be around ...Im hooked on aries right now ...cant get enough of them the have a very strong presence and are so confident and funny ..lets not forget Hot and spontaneous. .. The down side is they can leave the same way they came when they get bored. or find another more interesting...if they like you they are loyal and you can tell...... Any one else have an experience with aries? The sign that is attracted to me is Leo and Cancer...the lions are ok the Crabs..good at first but they drive me crazy after that .. too possesive and emotional for me ..bad match.
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        Sat, March 17, 2007 - 5:12 AM
        I love the sparkling Aries energy too. My last b/f was an Aries/Pisces. He had a H1 Sun and Mercury, so was a super Aries, an adrenalin junkie. He was very cardinal and confident, a doctor, a lecturer, a standup comedian and a big gambler. The cardinal energy is so alive, so energetic, oh, yeah! He loved the chase, so you had to keep him guessing. Is your guy selfish? Mine was the most selfish person I've ever met. Astrologically, that was amusing to watch.
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          Sat, March 17, 2007 - 11:27 AM
          Hello Moon ....Well kind of yes...... hes sweet but it always seems that things go his way more than mine ..hes just so good at it and dont even realize it until I find myself doing it. Hes also nicer when he has a problem and needs support but when its my turn it can go either way sometimes he shows interest in being supportive sometimes he shows none. The other Aries that Im attracted to is a Surgeon where I work and hes even more dynamic...I have fun with him because we are always blurting out little comments to eachother . If ignore him he will do anything to get my attention and I also like to see how that strong masculine man looks when i say something sweet to him out of the blue...his boyish smile lights up the room. They both have that childlike way to them and are very funny. Both born in April ..16 and 6 .Do you know if March or April Aries go better with Gemini or if they have distinct personalities. Im reading up on it .
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            Sat, March 17, 2007 - 12:34 PM
            I find it a little hard to limit this subject to a sign, and what I mean by that is because for instance even if i'm a Gemini sun I have lots of important planets in Cancer, Moon and Venus + Mars actually, therefore my romantic side is not as much the one of a Gemini although I can get bored by people...but I tend to want and need security for the most part from a relationship, as Cancers do...
            I am very sensitive and so on...
            So I would say from my perspective that Cancer are most likely to appeal to me though I've rarely dated any...hmm maybe I am wrong and maybe the Gemini is a big factor anyway...;))))
            I like the romantic side of Cancers but maybe I like the fun and fougue of Saggs...
            Hm, now you have me confused which is a good thing, i'll think that through...
            :)
            Story Time.
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              Sat, March 17, 2007 - 9:33 PM
              Story Time, I like Cancers and Saggs. My current b/f is a Cancer Sun with Sagg rising. That doesn't sound like it would work well together, but when you think about it Jupiter is exalted in Cancer. I can give it a good spin :)
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                Sun, March 18, 2007 - 11:06 AM
                Actually that does sound like an interesting mix to me.
                Saggs are very generous and give themselves easily and Cancer is very sweet but introvert, so that might be a good balance, am I wrong?
                Well, I shoulnd't speculate too much cause I know so little...
                Please forgive my ignorance but as a Gemini I like to ask questions and learn more ;)))))
                S.
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            Sat, March 17, 2007 - 9:27 PM
            Jess said: "If I ignore him he will do anything to get my attention."
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            He likes the chase lol.

            As for a March or April Aries with Gemini, I think it would depend on the synastry between the two of you like Story Time was talking about.

            Since we've been talking about a couple of Aries doctors, Mars rules sharp instruments, surgery and surgeons. I found that when Pluto or Mars went retrograde that my Aries guy calmed down a lot during those times. Pluto goes retrograde March 31 for about 6 months.

            Moon
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    Mon, April 2, 2007 - 7:56 AM
    i don't seem to fit with this sign well..i am on a cusp..

    i can stay with one person my whole life and i am more interested in just that.people seem to like me fine but i feel i cant connect with anyone so i just drift away.i do this with friends too.i want more meaningful things in my life.

    i wonder if this is cause of my cusp sign.idk
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      Tue, April 3, 2007 - 5:09 PM
      well perhaps thats it ...In the beginning its intense then i find its not as meaningful as i thought ..then i drift and yes it happens with friends as well. I ts just hard to find for me...... if the relationship doesnt quench that thirst ,it seems there is always something missing in the end. I try to get into my hobbies and then I get pulled into that and drift away from the person im with. I have to have a deep connection or nothing at all..so I guess I havent found one that has lasted in that sense ....the guy Im dating now seems to be working for me in all aspects...mentally emotonally and sexually(hard to do because Im so much in my mind). My first Boyfriend was a Libra and hes the only other person besides the current that I hold dear to my heart even after 15 years + . The ones in between are not significant enough. I dont know if its a Gem thing or what. Im not unfaithful when Im in love and I communicate plenty when something feels wrong . In the end if its not working..yes I do move on. Whats your cusp?
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        Tue, April 3, 2007 - 7:39 PM
        Taurus/Gemini
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          Wed, April 4, 2007 - 4:29 PM
          I have a lot of taurus in my chart ....I can relate to them too ..have you looked at your chrt to see what else you have . the site listed on this thread is really good ..te first one takes you writ to te home page.
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    Sun, October 7, 2007 - 8:59 PM
    I'm Gemini, rising cancer, moon in aquarius. I'm sucked in by leos passion but it always ends dramatically because they get pissed off so easily. I'm befriended by libras and have very harmonious and peaceful unions with them, but they always get a fucking awakening by the balancing of their scales and just drop the relationship or cheat. The Sag has been my most fun and sexual relationship without red tape, but not very committed.

    I'm with a leo now, my 4th one, 2 libras, 1 sag, and one Gem.
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      Mon, October 8, 2007 - 5:23 AM
      So true about leos; I've been "sucked in" by only one. OMG did he get pissed easily; by far the biggest drama king and crybaby I've dated....ever.
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        Fri, October 12, 2007 - 11:27 AM
        I'm libra sun, taurus moon, gemini asc, venus in scorpio, sag mars...
        I get bored easy tho some one told me its the sag with me, and its funny cause my main work is also with horses..

        I'm attracted mostly to gemini women, its their quick mind, and appetite for living, and I rarely get bored with them...also regarding some of the other posts, as a libra I've never cheated or lied, I always offer an open relationship at the start, and then it depends on the nature of the relationship and the chemistry...also I'm not clingy or possessive, I give plenty of room to people, and animals...
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        Mon, February 4, 2008 - 4:50 PM
        yeh, leos make me nervy and depress me.they are too angry and twitchy for the most...i dont know why everything has to be an arguement or an attack on their pride. blah
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          Mon, February 4, 2008 - 7:15 PM
          I like Leo men...i'm not crazy about leo females as the ones i've interracted with were a bit insecure and overcompensate by competing constantly....

          Leos can be very gentle and generous...i guess it depends on the leo...you're right about their pride...
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            Fri, February 8, 2008 - 9:57 PM
            Leo men are ok when they arn't in a position of authority.Like my father and older brother.Then it just dampers the good side to them.
            I have noticed, the ones i'm not related to are pretty decent to be around.

            Leo girls have always been pushy with me and almost violent.
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    Sat, February 9, 2008 - 4:43 AM
    I do best with Scorpio's in relationships, the passion and intensity is amazing and I absolutely love it. I do good with Libras too and have amazing, natural, friendships with Aquarius but I don’t think I could ever have a relationship with an Aquarius. Where Gemini is usually interested in everything, Aquarius tends to know everything and is only interested in the strange and bizarre. Aquarius me scare me. But yes, Scorpios are so filled with passion, if I’m too shy to say something because of my Virgo rising and my Scorpio in Saturn, I wont have to worry about it with Scorpio. My ex-boyfriend was a Scorpio and it was intense from the word go, in a good way! About Libras, There always seems to be a mutual understanding. My mother is a Libra and so is my sister and there just seems to be a mutual understanding. Cancer's tend to annoy me with their sensitivity to everything, I guess that depends on the persons ascending as well.

    For Me
    Scorpio = YUMM
    Aquarius = BFF's Aquarius men scare me
    Libras = I got your number
    Cancer's = Run like hell
    Gemini = good conversation, no attraction
    Virgo = lets get drunk and forget about the world
    Taurus = why is this person so uptight
    Capricorn = eh
    Sagittarius = sweet as pie
    I'm sure there’s more but its early and I cant think, peace out yawl!
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      Tue, February 12, 2008 - 9:08 PM
      Edward, what about your relationships with Aries?
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        Tue, February 12, 2008 - 9:12 PM
        Really? You think Aquarius are too bizarre and weird? My problem with the Aquarius people I've known is that they are very cold and detached, and they don't ever talk about anything personal. I've also found Aquarius people to be surprisingly conservative.

        With Taurus, I've found them to be very easy-going and laid back, and surprisingly funny. Every Taurus I've met so far, I find has this really kinda off-beat sense of humor and way of making everything seem funny.
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          Tue, February 12, 2008 - 11:55 PM
          To be honest, I couldn't think of any Aries to compare to, I don't think there’s that many around me. With Aquarius, its usually the men I find bizarre and detached, the women are bizarre but I always have good conversation with the women but I agree about them not talking about anything personal. I think I see Taurus in that light because my dad is about the only Taurus I could think of but he still has the off beat sense of humor.
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    Mon, February 11, 2008 - 10:24 AM
    My best partners have been both Aries and Leo (the current partner). Somewhat similar but yet so different. Similar things were that with both Aries and Leo we were a "good team", in terms of ideas, values, thoughts.... It felt with both since the beginning that we just clicked and it was more or less like "wow"-experience. I felt so home with both of them.

    We had /have both deep conversations about anything and also child-like fun doing crazy stuff. For Gemini these kind of variations are important. With my Leo I can wake up in the middle of the night and have an idea to go for a road trip next thing in the morning. I just love that. Impulsive and spontaneous.

    With Aries was more peaceful even though he knew when to raise his voice but he was more patient than my Leo. Leos get pissed off incredibly easily and it is not just to get pissed off, it is to get stuck with that situation, not letting it go. Oh no, my Leo will make it ALL big, he will make sure I cannot just get away by saying "sorry, i didnt mean it" when I sometimes dont really think what I say... ;) Sometimes I wonder where on earth they get their "over dramatic" theatre scene and keep on doing it for ages... (as gemini it feels like ages... i've moved on long ago already...). I never really understood my Leo's way of being so possessive and demanding but I have learnt to live with it. If he can stand my mood swings, I can compromise in this ;)

    With both signs I also had/have an amazing sex life; full of passion and affection. Nothing can beat Leo's affection and that attention that you feel like a princess and a queen at the same time ;)
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    Mon, February 11, 2008 - 4:02 PM
    I am a libra woman, I have just started dating a Gemini man with Scorpio moon. On our first meeting we ended up in bed. I have never done that before, the chemistry was so there. It has been almost 3 months, all we do is have sex . I go to his place once or twice a week and have sex. Hot sex but sex and conversation only. I am ready to run. I need romance as well as sex.
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      Tue, February 12, 2008 - 8:38 PM
      Did you tell him you want romance?

      Look at it from his point of view. Maybe he thinks you come over just to have sex and leave.

      Play to his moon side. You might be surprised
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      Tue, February 12, 2008 - 9:18 PM
      Mona,

      There's always that risk of having a purely sexual relationship with a guy when you've had sex on the first date. It's like a 50/50 chance that the relationship will or won't evolve to more than that. I know most guys will say that they don't discriminate against a girl if she has sex on the first date, and there are relationships that have become more and where that wasn't a problem, but then I think it's sometimes a subconscious thing with men how they perceive a woman and the relationship after that.

      I agree though that you should say something to him about that and try to appeal to him on an emotional and also intellectual level. Try to do some things outside of the house and outside of sex, so that you show each other there's more to you both than just sexual chemistry. This way you also know if there IS something more than that, but one of you has to say something and initiate it. Also, before he becomes too comfortable with the idea of this just a being a sexual relationship, you need to shake things up.

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