lol. thats certainly how i feel sans sex for 4 months. i end up monogamist for a while, but i always revert, thought with full consent and often the joing of my partners. what can i say, the more the merrier!

this is interesting about celibacy. i've heard that it's typical of Scorpios to go through periods of wanting to be celibate, then periods of intense sexual urges.

Something that can happen to Sags (I say this since you're a Sag Sun, though it seems it might not apply)... is that if they're burnt in love, they can become cynically promiscuous. I went through a 2-3 year stage of this, myself. Then I heard my Venus in Scorp calling for something a little more fulfilling and "deep." :)

I remember going a year without sex during a very dark time in my life where my job and lifestyle kept me from finding good women. I think I used to get into alot of fights and physical altercations. That was when I was misguided youth and my whole social circle was one big cock party. glad thats over

And Kevin,
YES, using our minds is definitely better than the real thing - especially when "the real thing" is empty and careless and a tragic cry for affection. At least when I'm on my own, I'm with someone I like and who knows what to do ;)
~ Lol, sorry that was lame but I couldn't help myself. Sag bluntness... ~

haha, hardly, equality has a long way to go, it seems,
i feel like this too, back n forth, i'll decide to be celibate cuz i'm just tired of all the bullshit, and constantly being lied to, but then i see a hot guy, damn, lol

Mona i aint no saint...but i truely respect that people are different. Its about knowing yourself and how you tick and that is a constant discovery. And the better you know yourself the more you will be in control in tune of the choices you make and the signals you send out. You only attract what you want at a subconscious level. Fear of commitment will only attract men who are not "available" or will leave you...

In my mind I ask myself the question, "why would I waste my time with something frivolous".

DO I even want to bother putting all of my energy into a relationship again that would just be frivolous, flighty, detatched. I'm not stupid. I'm pretty psychic when it comes to summing people up. I want an individual who can see me (or try to) for what I am and aren't , not analyze me, but come with me. When I want something I will always get it in the end. So the problem for me is deciding what I want to do, and if it's worthwhile. I like to dedicate a lot of time and energy on my mate, and if they are not willing to reciprocate, then there really is no point in giving myself.

One night stands do not do it for me. It's like slapping a band-aid on a stab victim. What's it gunna do?

Sun Virgo 7H
Asc Pisces
Moon Scorpio 8H conjunct pluto scorp 8H, sextile Mars
venus Leo 6H
Mars Virgo 6th sextile pluto