I have read many of the topics on spice of life. And if I knew what I know today. I think I would rather have lived a single life with many friends and loves who understands spice of life living. I live in a marriage that is one sided, hers. when I want to talk about it she tells me I'm attacking her sexually. I give her pleasure both orally and vaginally. but when it comes to me why do I have to ask? It should be mutual don't you think? anyway, now that she has had her parts removed it seems even the casual sex is gone and once maybe twice a month is all I get. Is it wrong for me to seek pleasure else where? I've got 26 years with her and I made sure I took care of my kids. And now I paying for her to go to school fulltime. I just want a little pussy once in a while with a good friendly mature woman that doen't want strings. Does that make me an ass?