Someone on the side

topic posted Sun, February 18, 2007 - 2:02 PM by  Unsubscribed
I have always had at least 1 guy on the side, preferrably 2 in addition to my "main S.O.". Sex only, nothing emotional with the guys on the side. My S.O. more or less knows about it, although we've never formally discussed it. He knows that I have a very high sex drive and sometimes I just need a little extra something, and that I also enjoy the variety.
Tell me about your situation....
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  • Re: Someone on the side

    Sun, April 1, 2007 - 8:42 AM
    You are lucky you are a lady and a really hot one. Otherwise you would be like the rest of us poor average folk who are lucky if we can find 1. :)
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    Re: Someone on the side

    Tue, May 1, 2007 - 12:04 PM
    I think for men, it's different than for women. I stay single, but each time I have sex with a woman, she wants more than sex. For me, sex is a temporary feeling. That's why I like to have a lot of that temporary feeling. This means one woman wouldn't suffice because I'de want to do her each temperary moment.

    I tend to be a little shallow when it comes to choosing my partner too, because I couldn't sex someone who I didn't feel attracted too. I'm not saying she has to be the hottest girl on earth because i've been with her a few times and yet felt better chemistry between me and a "normal woman".

    So bottom line, men who have high libidos should have many carefully picked out women. Those who can hang with you at an emotional level.
  • Re: Someone on the side

    Tue, June 5, 2007 - 12:01 PM
    I don't have a significant other - I'm at a point in my life that I want freedom. I've been very lucky in that the serious relationships I HAVE had in the past were very good and healthy and I grew so much with each of them. I did not have anyone on the side during those relationships, but I would now, I think. I SO enjoy having many different partners, I have a close network of people who I experiment with and would never be able to choose just one. I'd miss the fun and games, the exploration, the adventure. Since I enjoy role play so much, having lots of relationships gives me many different characters to enjoy, and many different people to please, which I really get off doing.
    • Re: Someone on the side

      Wed, June 6, 2007 - 3:38 PM
      Oh yes...
      I have a high sex drive too!
      and variety is the spice of life. I am currently in a (what i thought was supposed to be..) a Fwb situation. The girl turs me on and we love to please the shit out of eachother. But it's getting too close I think...
      Variety, has stopped
      whooo hummm.... well, thats my current deal. I'm getting good advise on another thread so far (FB2)
      But I do applaud with you for enjoying life and sex the way you describe. Lets face it. ..
      It's HOt !! lol

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