Hi all,

The BDSM/poly discussion group will hold its next meeting this coming Monday, 02/11. (We meet on the second Monday of each month.) As usual, it will be at SF Citadel (www.sfcitadel.org). Doors open at seven and discussion begins at 7:30, running till about 9:30 to 10:00. Requested donation is $5.00 to $15.00 per person. Newcomers welcome.

This month's topic: "I learned about poly from that."

All of us who have journeyed into polyamory have had our "learning experiences" -- ranging from nasty to poignant to inspirational to hilarious. Come listen to what other people have learned from experience and, if you like, share some of your own experiences. (If you like, you can also email them to me at the address below to be read aloud at the meeting. Anonymity will be scrupulously respected upon request.) What have you learned from experience about negotiating agreements, communicating effectively, dealing with upsets, managing logistical matters, and just plain coping with it all?

RSVP appreciated but not required to jaywiseman@yahoo.com.

Next meeting scheduled for Monday, 03/10.

This may be forwarded as you feel appropriate.

Best,

Jay