There's something about turning 40 for a lot of people, and there's definitely something about being queer for a lot of people. Being both queer and middle-aged creates a unique set of needs, affinities, and desires that aren't entirely shared by either younger queers or the 40-something world at large.

This is a tribe for queers over 40 to seek a cohort likely to share their needs, affinities, and desires.

(And the moderator of this one pays attention to his spelling.)

http://tribes.tribe.net/40somethingplusqueers