The first thing you need to do is take that beeswax and throw it directly in the trash. As long as you put that crap in your hair... you WILL have this problem. I dont generally recommend any products other than residue free shampoos, but at the early stages that you are in, the "Loc Peppa" from dreadheadhq works amazing. It isnt like mose locking accelerators where you spray some kind of liquidy mess into your hair, it is a very fine powder that you sprinkle on your hands and palm roll in, or put it directly on the locks themselves (and again, palmroll or if yours are not extreemly tight, apply it and the carefully backcomb in)... trust me homie, you will be amazed. Loc Peppa is available at some salons, i would check the website to see if anyone in your area is carrying it. But even if you dont pick any up, please dispose of the wax. as long as there is wax in your locks, the wax holds the hair in one certain spot... therefore your locks cannot mature and tighten (i know i am going to get crap for this, so let me say that if you have time to waste, after a LONG time of using wax, they will tighten a bit, but not evenly and it slows the process litterally like 100x). I know if you go to sites like dreadheadhq and knottyboy, they will tell you that you need wax to hold your fragile baby locks together, but keep in mind that they SELL the wax, and they are americans, so they are slaves to the almighty dollar. Plus, no matter how much they may make you feel like they have your best interests in mind, honeslty, just accept it... they dont give two squirts of piss about you or your locks, they just want your money. I tell you all this from personal experience... this is my 4th time having locks over the past 12 years... all other times i have used wax... this time i chose to abstain from all products like that, and my hair has locked better, faster and tighter then ever before... i am telling you, noticible difference. also, before, my locks gained length very slowly, much much slower than normal unlocked hair. But this time, i started them at 2 inches... only 3 years later i am at roughly 22 inches. Clean, unwaxed dreads grow like wildfire. I cant stress it enough, beeswax was not made for making dreadlocks, it is a hair straightener or to keep braids held in shape, and you do not want the hair in your dreads to stay in the same shape, you want them to tangle easly. Good luck man... keep growin that knatty shit!!!!!