gay but not GAY? Maybe we're g0y! see www.g0ys.org

topic posted Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:11 AM by  Nick
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You're basically a regular guy who behaves like any other regular guy. You may even date women or be married. But, deep inside, you deal with strong feelings of real warmth + genuine affection for other guys too. You've seen the media's take on the "gay" community; & not only do you N0T relate to that image, but you find many of the practices repulsive to your basic value system. The truth is, you're a guy who really loves masculinity & appreciates those traits in other men, while simultaneously finding actions that effeminize masculine men to be grossly distasteful. You probably look forward to holidays with your buds -- especially those times when you can horse around, wrestle & even be a little tender -- like when you've had a few beers (or maybe just got done pinning the guy down wrestling) & you find your arm around him, resting a hand on his upper or lower back in a casual, reaffirming hug. You're the definition of "respectful", but you want to be closer, too.

The mind-blowing truth is simply this: Odds are greatly in your favor that the majority of your buds feel the same feelings in various degrees! Resolution comes by understanding what's truly good & natural behavior, -as opposed to "shameful disrespect" masquerading as "progressive gay-culture". Are you ready to live a more abundant life by learning to apply wisdom to your thought process -while rejecting the fool's errands society's educated fools task the vulnerable with?

So, once a guy discovers that other guys are also receptive to M2M intimacy - without the 'RAUNCH' -- he often enters a gray area, where he feels deep compassion for his peers, -but none relate to what they see the mass-media portray as: "gAy". Such men are 'G0Y (spelled with a ZER0)'; -- & the mind blowing truth is: We represent the majority of men!
And because that's the truth - you won't need switch off your higher brain functions nor abandon (not even compromise) your ethics or relationship with God (as some men have been falsely led to believe). www.g0ys.org for more ...
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Nick
Sydney
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  • Whatever, this is retarded. A large majority of men are straight and thats just a fact. A minority of men are exclusively homo, with an even smaller amount of men going both ways and another minority who have only experimented one way or the other at some point in their lives.

    I never have understood the chasing after straight guys thing. I've felt that an ongoing attraction to a guy you know is fully straight seems like a power/boundary issue. Also why would a gay guy pursue someone who is not fully available to them?
    • hey 'whatever' i suggest you take the time to read both g0ys.org and maybe this link too en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale because the majority of men are actually not exclusively stright at all, and this topic is not about "chasing stright guys" , its about men in general coming to terms with the diversity of theirs and others sexuality. One of the points is that we prejudge most people we see and assume a lot about them based on looks. If we opened out minds and eyes beyond the outside and delved a bit deeper we would realise people are very diverse in their attractions. Its just convenient to use boxes to create acceptance.
      May I suggest you be more specific with your opinions on topics such as this in future. Fact is better than assumption.
      "Also why would a gay guy pursue someone who is not fully available to them?"... well this is a loaded question. fully? What are your expectations??? Of course it depends on their situation. If a man is attracted to both sexes, hes going to choose one at a time if he were going to have something longterm. So what if someones attracted to both sexes? What does that matter? Its no threat to me. He going to either love me or her. simple as that. no different to me or him.
      So theres nothing more to understand . men are men. its only our perception of men that needs to change.
      • Yes, I am familiar with the Kinsey scale and a majority of males do not fall anywhere near sexual thoughts or actions with another male. No, I am not going to read your g0y site. You claim that a majority of men area this g0y label you made up and that's just not true. Your premise failed to convince me to read any further.
      • 63% exclusively str8 is not a majority?

        Tue, April 7, 2009 - 8:31 AM
        You must have read a different Kinsey than I did, because his and subsequent figures show onlyabout 37% of adult males
        had engaged in sex with other men at all since adolescence. Kinsey 6 (exclusively homo) is about 4% and Kinsey 5 mostly homo is about 6%, which is where the 10% that activists like to bandy about, comes from.
  • Bullshit. You want to get mad about something to get mad about it. I'm not gay because of what I do with my equipment. I'm gay because the cosmic entity told me when I was about 3 that my other half is the same gender as me. If you are worried about what's masculine and what's feminine and putting either in boxes, I daresay you don't have issues, you've got the lifetime subscription.
    • this is an interesting thread. obviously it has triggerred some strong emotion.

      the 'gOy' thing strikes me as pointless, sorry. men have always been the same. ancient warriors lsept together, and doubtless there was some sex, but i think that the majority felt secure, comfortable and intimate with their comrades. this doesn't fix them as straight, gay, or gOY, it just shows them to be male.

      i have never felt comfortable in the gay community, but, i'm definitely queer. i hate disco/techno/dance shit, feell neither revulsion ofr attraction to feminine males, but i prefer the company of active young men. i'm a retired teacher and i've never been really comfortable with 'adults'. i was most comfortable in my high school classroom, with young minds. please don't think for a moment that i never wanted to give the odd blow job, but it has never happenned. the thought of any anal play is a majot turn off for me. i guess i'm an oral bottom, if labels are necessary.

      so, i lead a celibate, kinda hermit lifestyle. i welcome visits from former students, and those happen as few times a year.
      i would enjoy someone to share life with, but am not interested in a 'relationship'.

      so, although queer, i certainly feel that i am gay, gOy, whatever.

      and you think you might be confused?? fuck, i can't figure out what the hell i am.

      (strangely enough, i don't really care, because i know that i lead a fairly happy life)
  • you know its very interesting that noone in this thread claims to hav eeven bothered to read the site. It really reinforces the laziness and closedmindedness of some gay men. really if you seek men with a similar mindset at least read stuff first before shooting your mouth off. Noones claiming the perfection of a Bible staus here. we are all just sharing stuff we've heard!
    Anyhow how about you all check out this site. www.monkeybrothersplaying.org. Thatl get you all challenged about your little boxes!! LOL
    • I just read a few of g0y pages.

      Basically, I know what I am and what I like. I don't need 20+ web pages to tell me what's right or wrong with my likes and dislikes.

      I do applaud the opening statements about m2m affection and attraction and its difference between stereotype "Nellie" behaviors.
  • Well, this can be answered with a yes and no. I fucking hate a lot of the things that people associate homosexuality with, especially the feminine traits. Being a stylish, sissy, highly emotional bitch is not down my alley. But at the same time, I hate the whole straight-guy respectability thing. I mean, do I really want to relate to guys that, however masculine, throw around the faggoty words and the no homo excuses, being a severe closet case even through the tiniest wisps of the Kinsey scale. That shit makes me angry. If I want to touch a guy intimately, I'll touch a guy intimately, and I'll feel fucking comfortable doing it.