I dont even know where to begin. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and when we first started dating i didnt have a problem with his gameing because i had gotten out of a 3 and 1/2 year relationship where my boyfriend had played video games and computer games. We would play together when it came to video games, but when he played his computer games i started to get upset after some time talking to him i realized that a guy playing a computer game every once in awhile isnt a bad thing, its their "sports". So when i got involved with my current boyfriend i told him that i didnt care that he played, but he never played that much. it was the beginning of our relationship and he wanted to spend all his time with me, we were learning about each other, he played the game about 3 times a week.
Well, about 8 months into our relationship i started noticing that he was playing almost everyday, stayin up till the wee hours of the morning, when i would "hang out" with him it was me sitting on his bed watching him play. i kept my mouth shut for so long and then ths semester it was getting way out of hand, he would spend all day on the computer, sometimes mising class, his roommate would tell me that hed spent the whole weekend on his computer, never showered, ordered food so he would have to leave. things were just gettin gout of hand and i couldnt take it anymore. finally i told him (feeling very guilty) its either me or the game. it took him close to two days for him to give me an answer! and when we talked about it he made me feel so bad for taking away his "hobby" so i asked him to not play as much. well it was good for awhile but then the same crap started up again. he is addicted and when he would play he would curse and yell but not at the computer, he would take it out on me. i could speak to him while he played. sometimes he would fianlly get off and a couple hours later he would go right back on, most of the nights i fall asleep with him still playing. he doesnt even hang out with me anymore. i ask him to do something and he says hes too busy with some crap on his game. our conversations are ONLY about WoW. WE DONT EVEN HAVE SEX ANYMORE! i wanted to marry him, but hes 21 years old and is playing a computer game, he cant manage his money and he has anger problems, all steming from this stupid stupid game.
sometimes i get on his little head set and start yelling at the guys that play while hes in the bathroom. i tell them to get a life and maybe find a girlfriend to consume their time with. i get so frusterated, i get sooo lonely. i cant believe i cant even get my boyfriend to get off a computer, i cant believe i cry because i have to compete with a game! i just want to throw his f-ing computer out the window or uninstall the game....he would break up with me though if i took away his precious world of warcraft