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I've been with my husband for 2 years. He was wonderful when we met, couldn't keep his hands off of me, couldn't get away from each other. After a while we decided to move in together, (note: i had a home and he promised to get a job when he moved to this town to live with me). I found out he played Warcraft, his favorite game.. no biggie right? After a few months (i was also pregnant at the time) i noticed that it wasn't just something he enjoyed but loved.. up all night playing . played all day. Months went by and he had yet to get a job, hell i even think he lied about applying to jobs. I finally had enough and my daughter and i were out of his life .. we started talking again.. he promised me he had got his stuff straight, no more wow.. a job. We got back together and actually got married after some time. We've been married now for almost 6 months and things are like they never have been before. (im now pregnant with his child as well 7 months pregnant) He stays up all night playing or comes to bed at 4 am. When he wakes up he's right back on all day long. He huffs when I ask to just watch a movie in bed or go out together and all he can do is get mad and say i guess.. He still isnt working, i pay all the bills. Its getting to the point that we fight every day because of that game. i have sat down with him and told him how i feel, i've left because of it.. things will be great for a few days then right back to the same thing. i don't feel him kiss me anymore, we barely converse, cause he's on that damn thing 24/7. i love him so much but all i do is cry.. and seem to grow bitter.. what the hell do i do to save my marriage? im at the end of the rope here please advice!!!!!
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Re: At my end.
Sat, April 4, 2009 - 10:39 PMMarty i dont know i am in the same boat except without the children!!!! I need to find a way to lead my bf to the light as well.
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Re: At my end.
Sun, April 19, 2009 - 11:15 PMAfter a while you will get tired enough of it, that you will not find yourself begging him to leave the game. Your young and gorgeous, and other men will want to show you the attention your lacking. Then the end will come. While he's playing his game, you will be playing a few games of your own. Fuck him, he deserves everything that's coming to him. I hate my husbands gutts now! Wait, you will hate yours too.
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Re: At my end.
Sat, April 25, 2009 - 6:19 PMTo be honest with you both, things have seemed to change. The last real blow up we had I broke his lap top, (note: he still has his other computer which he played WoW on), that day i told him i wanted a divorce because i couldn't compete with a game. I let him know that he wouldn't be seeing his daughters, because they deserved more than what he was offering. I believe reality hit him that day.. that we wouldn't be around forever to put up with his shit. I wont lie, i was beginning to hate him, but at the same time i was still in love with him and i did take a vow to make it work. Seems that we have. He will get on his ps3 every so often and play call of duty but he hasn't played wow in a long ass time. There are still things we have to work on such as the job thing, but as far as us falling apart because of wow.. that isnt an issue anymore. It's gotten to the point that he wants to cuddle in bed, shower together, go out and spend time together and he's excited for our baby who will be here in two weeks. I have promised him one thing though, NEVER AGAIN will i put up with the shit i did before, i will take our kids and leave no matter how much i love him .. i love my kids more. So if this issue ever rises again i'm gone for sure, no ifs ands or buts. -
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Re: At my end.
Sun, April 26, 2009 - 1:35 PMThank god!!! I would do that too, but to be honest Im alittle scared. I've been tempted to delete that game, but Im scared. I can't break the PC cause it's the only way we can do business. I'm glad u found an end to your situation though. I would threaten to divorce him, but at this point I want to divorce him anyway cause he makes me sick. Im just waiting for the right opportunity. Even if he stopped, I can't promise I will feel the same way about him now, so there's no use, I will let him play away.
Let me know how things are going though, Im happy for you!!! You deserve it!!
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