My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and I knew about him playing WOW but i never knew what WOW was until a few months of dating him. I slowly began hating that stupid game. I tried playing it, but it's stupid. I couldn't make myself sit infront of the computer for hours on end. Just recently he started his own late night raiding group because he works 10 hour days. So now he comes home, eats the meal i cooked for him, and sits on the computer until like 3 am. I ask every day "are you raiding tonight?" and he gets pissed at me..i hate this game with a passion. It is not just a game, its a life sucking force that ruins relationships and lives. I am a great GF, i will admit that with confidence.. is it too much to ask for to grow the F*** up and do something normal with your free time???? He is 29 years old and I feel like i already have a 12 year old son. I have to ask him numerous amount of times to get off the game and come and eat or get off the game so we can go run errands, it is so frustrating. He says he will quit because it has already ruined relationships in his past but I can't ask him to because his work is so stressful he says WOW is the only thing that relaxes him, how can i take that away?? And as we all know, there is no compromising with game play and real life because the game runs in real life time, how lame is that.. I know I dont even need to explain this to you but i feel that our relationship is suffering. I am new to our town that he grew up in, am on summer break, and my job consists of taking care our house and errands...all i want is to hang out with him but sometimes i think my life would be better if i just left him...i am stuck in a rut and dont know what to do.. i feel as if i havent given it enough time, but wont it only get worse??