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WoW ruined my marriage. My son doesn't have a father because of this game. I won't go into my story because its pretty much the same as everyone elses. Just know that before the game my ex was an active member of society. Anyway.
Before you read on say this after me "There is a problem. It is real. I have to do something. I CAN do something. I WILL do something and not be a victim."
Good, moving on.
Solutions:
1. Get him away from the house. If you have the means, and can convince him, go on a vacation. Get him away from his comfort zone. If you have to, say that where your going has computer access, then make sure it doesn't. Yes he will be mad, but WoW addiction is like a smoking habit, you'll never really stop craving but the longer your away from it the easier it gets. He might thank you. While your away have a friend take everything WoW related off your computor.
2. Talk to his friends or family. They may know, they may not. If talking to him hasn't worked, he might listen to family. You should seriously think of an intervention, research interventions to find out how its done. You never know, he may not fully realize what he's doing. Being confronted by a large group of people saying the same thing can work wonders. That might actually be a good diet plan too.
3. The first two were nice, and they do have their merits, but this is my favorite. Take a baseball bat and take out all your frustration on the computer, think "Office Space". Depending on the temperment of your loved one you might or might not want to be there when he gets home. I wish i had done this, but i believed his lies. I know what your thinking "this is not necessary", but it is. Some posters have said that the problem is your not interesting or fun, but you shouldn't have to babysit your bf or husband. Why should all the work be on you to sustain the relationship while he gets to escape into a game.
I hope my solutions will help. They are serious, this is serious, nothing about this is a joke. And "Its Not Your Fault"
Before you read on say this after me "There is a problem. It is real. I have to do something. I CAN do something. I WILL do something and not be a victim."
Good, moving on.
Solutions:
1. Get him away from the house. If you have the means, and can convince him, go on a vacation. Get him away from his comfort zone. If you have to, say that where your going has computer access, then make sure it doesn't. Yes he will be mad, but WoW addiction is like a smoking habit, you'll never really stop craving but the longer your away from it the easier it gets. He might thank you. While your away have a friend take everything WoW related off your computor.
2. Talk to his friends or family. They may know, they may not. If talking to him hasn't worked, he might listen to family. You should seriously think of an intervention, research interventions to find out how its done. You never know, he may not fully realize what he's doing. Being confronted by a large group of people saying the same thing can work wonders. That might actually be a good diet plan too.
3. The first two were nice, and they do have their merits, but this is my favorite. Take a baseball bat and take out all your frustration on the computer, think "Office Space". Depending on the temperment of your loved one you might or might not want to be there when he gets home. I wish i had done this, but i believed his lies. I know what your thinking "this is not necessary", but it is. Some posters have said that the problem is your not interesting or fun, but you shouldn't have to babysit your bf or husband. Why should all the work be on you to sustain the relationship while he gets to escape into a game.
I hope my solutions will help. They are serious, this is serious, nothing about this is a joke. And "Its Not Your Fault"
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Sat, January 5, 2008 - 4:54 AMI wish I could pull an office space. -
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Sun, January 27, 2008 - 9:23 PMMy boyfriend is sitting, playing his game as I type. He stays up until 6am playing the game everyday. In between raids, he is leaning over and reading my posts. He finds this all very amusing. I've always wondered if other people have suffered from this same problem. It is a relief to discover that I am not the only person who seems to be losing a very important person in their life because of this game. I like your advice. If I thought pulling an office space was legally possible, I probably would. However, his love of world of warcraft and his new XPS bought specifically for the game would probably result in a civil lawsuit. -
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Mon, January 28, 2008 - 12:20 PMHi Everybody,
My advice: Leave the relationship.
Good luck!
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Wed, April 16, 2008 - 3:30 PMI am going to do it .....I am.... dont know when I will have the nerve or means of escape but when I do the computer is going down!!!
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Wed, May 28, 2008 - 10:26 AMAmen. It is serious. It is not my fault. I shouldn't have to babysit. And I've wanted to chuck his computer down our concrete steps for some time now... or bash it with his very own louisville slugger. I restrained myself, but I got him to quit. It's all are nothing game and I want him to have nothing to do with it. Period. I was slowly dying inside and feeling guilty at the same time, but don't let your men make you feel guilty, there is NOTHING to feel guilty about. Make them stop. Or leave them cold. -
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Sun, July 20, 2008 - 6:41 PMI agree completely except for the part about leaving him. I would LOVE to be able to just throw my hands up and leave him to sit in his own pile of empty chinese food boxes. In fact, it would probably take a few days for him to even notice me gone. But I promised to love him, and be there for him, trough thick and thin, til death do us part. We have 4 kids together and when he is not playing he is awesome.(But that is becoming vary rare.) I need a hardcore cure for this addiction.
All of us WOW Widows need to get together and put Blizzard out of business. Anyway, keep the suggestions coming.
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Thu, January 29, 2009 - 3:14 PMThose are very foolish methods. I'm addicted to WoW, and if someone had done that to me (not the intervention, I find those hilarious), you would get smacked in the face so hard you wouldn't see straight for a week.
You compare WoW addiction to Smoking addiction, but you fail to see that whenever you detox on something, willingly or unwillingly(far more dangerous), violence is a big possibilty.
Especially if you take your husband on wacation, tricking him into thinking theres internet, only to show him there isn't. He MIGHT be ok for a couple of weeks without the game, because he will believe he will get it back soon
But when he finds out you deleted all the WoW stuff off the computer, find a Hotel to stay for a couple of nights, because your husband will be out for blood.