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I have been married for 5 months, and when ever we are home she plays this stupid game. It is nothing for her to spend a whole weekend playing the game. She doesn't communicate to me when she plays, at least I can pause the football games on sunday to talk to her if I need to. When she isnt playing she is texting other players. She talks with ex boyfriends and mostly her brother. I thought his playing would go down once he had a kid, but even with a 2 month old baby he is still online. I guess I should be happy I cna golf and play my video games when I want. I feel like she only wants me to sleep next to her at night. Notice just next to her, not actually sleep with, that has to be scheduled. Oh well she better not complain when my new job keeps me on the road.
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Re: Wife can not stop playing
Wed, December 3, 2008 - 4:38 PMI understand what you are going through. It's crazy!!!!! and it's a game of all things.
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Re: Wife can not stop playing
Mon, December 15, 2008 - 10:16 PMI'm going through pretty much the same thing. My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We've got 2 beautiful boys together. I knew he was a gamer when I met him and I just learned to deal with it. Then he discovered WoW. I dealt with it, kept my mouth shut, and just moved on. Now, since the new expansion is out, all he does is play WoW. Before work, and as soon as he gets home from work. He stays up till all hours of the night playing it. As I'm typing this, he's still playing and doesn't even notice I'm here. What drives me nuts is the fact that he would rather make plans with his WoW buddies to do a run on the weekends instead of doing something with his family. The highlight of the past week had to have been going with him to get his tire fixed. Oh the joy! Last time I checked, I am his wife, not his damn roommate! I've tried talking to him about it but it of course goes in one ear and out the other.
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Re: Wife can not stop playing
Wed, December 31, 2008 - 7:22 PMLeave her. Do it now. It gets NO BETTER.
I've lived this life for 2 years, no emotion, conversation, sex ended well over a year ago and before that I had to wait whilst she got to a safe place (passion killer or what?)
Leave now before you waste more time. Give her an ultimatum, you or the game. You are worth more than a game and there are people out there who will respect you as a person.