I was in the same boat with my now husband. It seriously took me telling him I wanted a divorce (plus i just found out he read my journal) for him to get off of WOW. I wont lie and say he doesn't game at all, cause he play Call of Duty when there is nothing else to do. Sounds like you need to just be flat out honest with her about how you feel, see if she is willing to set up certain times a week that she plays that way you two can spend more time together. You need to explain to her that this game is ruining your relationship. If that doesn't work, give her an ultimatum .. the game or you. I know that sounds like a cheap shot to give someone an ultimatum.. but you need to know whether or not move on to bigger things with your life or to stick around with the girl you love. If she keeps making up excuses as to why she can't stop playing so much.. i hate to say this but you have your answer. And that's that the game is more important.. but knowing that gives you the chance to start over and to find someone who can love you as much as you them. Sometimes it takes walking away from our loved ones for them to see that the game is never going to love them back like we did.. and sounds like to me.. she needs to see that.