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There is a Sagittarius man that is so into me its not even funny. I like him, but Sadges have a really bad reputation for being womanizers, etc. I'm a really outgoing and adventurous--thats not a big worry but I have this HUUUUGE WALL UP; I can't help it. I've been hurt so badly before--by a Cancer, a Pisces, a Cancer....and the Sadge is incredibly fun and nice and detail oriented. On our first date, he bought me a pound of Starbucks coffee...and it just went to show that he paid attention. Being the coffee addict that I am, this is a big deal.
We've had longemail exchanges because he keeps telling me he wants this to go somewhere. And he pays soo much attention to all my quirks, it scares the daylights out of me when he knows what I don't think he knows. I am wary. Any advice?
We've had longemail exchanges because he keeps telling me he wants this to go somewhere. And he pays soo much attention to all my quirks, it scares the daylights out of me when he knows what I don't think he knows. I am wary. Any advice?
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Thu, April 23, 2009 - 8:29 PMi dated a sag woman and it was terrible. we were not even remotely emotionally compatible. we drove each other crazy. they are wayyyy too freedom-loving and, to be frank, irresponsible. well, fire signs in general seem to be irresponsible, especially when it comes to money.
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Thu, April 23, 2009 - 11:50 PMlike most people, just because he has a sun sign somewhere, doesn't mean it will all end up badly. I have a moon that boarders on the cusp of Scorpio/Sag so Ive had my fair share of Sag boyfriends. They seem great and they totally are -on the surface. But I have yet to meet one who has the depth I require like my Scorpio. From what Ive experienced, all the sag's I have dated have shared the same 'problem' traits - irresponsible womanizing liars. I say liars because they never followed through on what they said. You see, they meant what they said WHEN they said it. Just not necessarily after. Their words are writ on water. Its like they're always on the hunt and they want all women to view them as gods gift or something. On the up side, they were very positive and eager to please. Definitely good time guys. Keep that wall up though. He might just be a great guy but if he really is into you, let him work a little for it. -
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Thu, April 30, 2009 - 6:50 AMI agree, let him go through hoops for you . If not, maybe it's one of those relationships where it's just great sexually , and I geuss it could still be fun, you have to figure out what you want with this guy. I've slowly started to accept that not all relationships will have that "connection" and some will be the strictly for fun, others as friendly benefit relationships, etc (which , as a pisces is tough to do not to have a meaningful relationship ). At least I try to keep this outlook for myself to stay realistic and reduce the hurt.
As far as Sag's be womanizers, really ?????? I've never heard that . I've always gone with the *where is his venus sign ? *what is his ascendant & moon signs ? Sometimes these can be just as important if not as telling over a sun sign. -
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Thu, April 30, 2009 - 10:38 AMthe womanizing comes from the sign of the archer. Theyre always on the hunt and they like the chase. But yeah, not all sag's will be. His other planets and houses have a lot to do with it too -
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Fri, May 1, 2009 - 10:05 AMah makes sense -
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Mon, May 4, 2009 - 10:49 PMmy sag was cancer rising...he was faithful for 4 1/2 years....i could have trusted him in a room full of naked women.
the key in my relationship was not trying to own him....
what my sag wanted, more than anything, was someone who was his friend AND lover...
he took it super seriously and would not commit to anyone....but was lonely more than he was patient
...so yes he did have a few 'friends'...
when we met, we never spent another night apart for 4 1/2 years...
also, we didn't become lovers until much later after our first night together...very attracted to each other,
but were too busy having great conversations....
for what it is worth, my sag was very true blue.....one of the best friends and lovers I ever had....
i would say sun sign alone cannot determine for sure and suggest that you consider your sag's other placments as well before you decide anything.
he sounds like he is worth the effort to find out....I'd love to get a bag of starbucks!
good luck!! (: -
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Mon, May 4, 2009 - 10:56 PMPS- sag are not know for being good lairs and put their foot in their mouths....other detest lying.....
but either way, i have appreicated the honesty....
my sag told me this: if you ever want to know anything about me, just ask, BUT be prepared for the truth.
I apprecaite that. I always knew where I stood with him. Our relationships was sold as a rock.
The reasons we parted were beyond our control.... a story I can't share here.
But as for your sag, I would give him the benefit....
......just my 2 cents....
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Tue, May 5, 2009 - 9:18 AMoh god, this guy just keeps getting better and better. we spent a night together and he stuck to his word that he would not try anything fun. we kissed all night and he held me the entire time without trying to take off my clothes
i'm still wary. but he's winning me over. -
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Tue, May 5, 2009 - 12:30 PMThe best I can tell you is to be honest with him. (Which it sounds like you are.)
And take him at his word unless he gives you reason to believe otherwise.
Last, dont be quick too define the relationship, as you get to know each other and spend time together the relationship will define itself.
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Re: Cancer and SADGE: I'm way too scared
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 7:27 AMi agree with "Oneinmotion" you can never try to figure someone out just from their sun sign,
im a sagg with cancer rising dating a cancer man, and i would never cheat on him, but i guess my rising sign makes me less sagg in some ways, lol, prob a "typical" sagg wouldn't like all the emotion of a cancer?
and we do tend to have that habitual "foot in mouth" disease which ends up hurting people from our carelessness, i know i have to work on that, haha
good luck to you ! : )
i hope you guys work out
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