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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sat, August 18, 2007 - 9:38 PMBeing ineptly (s)mothered is mine.
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sat, August 18, 2007 - 11:40 PMwhen people pretend to care for me.
when people do things intentionally to hurt me. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, August 19, 2007 - 5:44 AMgive me a break.. thats the most generic tick-offs around.. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, August 19, 2007 - 9:46 AMwhat its is true that is what really pisses me off. give me a break!
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, August 19, 2007 - 6:57 AMbeing poked and prodded when we're in "leave us alone" mood. when we're like that, just leave us alone... it probably is something minor that annoys us and we're just processing it... if you try to get something out of us, we get soooo pissed.
don't put our business out there. we are pretty secretive by nature.
don't talk down to us.
don't be inconsiderate. we're very reliable people once we've settled in, and we expect the same.
don't take us for granted. if you try to manipulate us or force us to do something, we'll just become stubborn and make everything pretty shitty. -
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Sun, August 19, 2007 - 7:11 AM"being poked and prodded when we're in "leave us alone" mood. when we're like that, just leave us alone... it probably is something minor that annoys us and we're just processing it... if you try to get something out of us, we get soooo pissed."
lol.. tell me about it.. (cancer moon)
im not trying to push anyone or try to "open-up" anyone so i think i deserve the same respect.. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, August 19, 2007 - 7:14 PMBeing smothered. Funny, I thought you guys liked to be smothered.
and I have to say some of you guys are pretty scary when angry.
All of my cancer boyfriends scared the living shit out of me and so does the current one.
They resort to punching walls, crying excessively, and talking down to themselves. Well I can't speak for all of them.
I'm a cancer rising myself but I dnt do any of that. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, August 19, 2007 - 8:08 PMlol ya we have tantrums
STOP PISSING US OFF THOUGH
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 11:11 PMYeah my Cancer boyfriend sure likes to punch holes in the walls when he gets pissed. I mean he probably has about 10 right now because i almost left him - YEEEAAAAH - definitely scary.
Cancers are sensitive creatures. They seem to get mad pretty easily. NOT A GOOD THING! But on the brightside, if you can deal with their sensitivity and learn to tread water correctly, they are the best lovers to have. They are the only signs that make my heart melt!
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, August 19, 2007 - 8:43 PMI think Dee says it for me. But I'll add this, BEING SCRUTINIZED. That's similar to the poking and prodding but can be more subtle and invasive. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, August 19, 2007 - 9:13 PMIm not too fond of sneaky ppl.... I am not sneaky the slighest bit....
I just do things by meself... If it is being sneaky.... that is because the other person didn't bother to take a second out of their time to pay any attention to me....
I don't like the .... what are you thinking line... half the time... .EVEN I DON'T KNOW WHAT IM THINKING!!!! That goes with the poking kind of.... But more-so when it is to form into someones pre-conceptialized view.... Im a Victor... not Victim.... Scapegoating gets me also...
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, August 20, 2007 - 8:11 AMinsensitivity & arrogance tick me off...and people who feel entitled, like the world owes them something -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, August 20, 2007 - 2:50 PMI have to agree with Chloe on this one.
Id like to add this though:
Attack my loved ones in some way and find out how really pissed off I can get. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, August 20, 2007 - 7:55 PMhm. most cancer men I've met are "players" How can someone so sensitive be so insensitive to a woman's feelings...
Not speaking for every one of you guys so please do not feel offended. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, June 2, 2008 - 8:23 PMgood question. You would think such a sensitve creature is such an player.
i think the cancer men who cheat
rationalize it in an emotional-type of way.
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sun, September 16, 2007 - 5:38 AMi have a cancer best friend and i know what ticks him off would probably be someone trying to put down his ego... (though he doesnt admit it hahahaah!!)
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Sun, September 16, 2007 - 5:42 AMBtw...Most Cancer ppl r EXTREMELY protective..
So yeah I gotta agree with the person who said," Attack my loved ones in some way and find out how really pissed off I can get. " If you hurt someone loved dearly by a cancer, you're pretty much "dead" -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Wed, September 19, 2007 - 3:31 AMid have to agree with this.. i have ganid quit a few really good female friends because they see me as protective..
thats actually one of the first little confessions i make, the first offering i make to a serious relationship, romantic or platonic, I tell them, look, because of who i am.. if you have gotten past my shell, if i have let you inside, then it pretty much means you are a part of me, and i will be very protective of you. I will nurture, and protect when needed, but need the same in return, and if they break that trust, its damn near impossible for them to be let back inside.
#1 deal breaker with me... Lies. I dont lie to people, and i expect not to be lied to.
I was once talking to/seeing this girl for 2 years, over in one night because i found out she lied... wasnt even a big thing.
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Wed, September 19, 2007 - 3:32 AMthat was supposed to be gained... serves me right for typing in the dark -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Wed, September 19, 2007 - 3:39 AMArrogant, self sentered, obnoxious, crude people
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Wed, September 19, 2007 - 4:24 AMcruelty , liars, megalomaniacs, people who don't turn up when they say they will, flaky friends.
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Thu, September 20, 2007 - 2:44 AM1. People abusing our niceness. (But what they don't realise is that the minute we see you are taking it for granted..bang...it's gone)
2. People thinking that because we don't yell and scream we are weak...but our defense is to withdraw and shut people out when they piss us off...which we know pisses them off even more than yelling...(yeah...we are great manipulators)
3. Being mothered.
4. I don't know if this is just me or Cancer...but I hate it when people I am not close to go on about their emotions and are overly affectionate. When I am upset, I like to go off on my own to deal with it so I have trouble understanding people like this. I have noticed that Geminis do this a lot...really irritates me. Maybe it's because when I am hearing their stories, it doesn't tug at my heart in anyway and I am not convinced. However, witih my closest friends, which happen to be water signs, I have endless amounts of time to listen to all of their problems and will give them all the time in the world. Maybe this is because 1. They are close to me and 2. They are other water signs that I can totally relate to.
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Fri, September 21, 2007 - 12:26 PM1. Betrayal of trust / hurting the soft goodness underneath the shell.
It can take a lot to get past the shell, but once you're in, it's a gift. It's hard to find someone more nurturing, loving, and protective. But if you stab me in my soft, juicy bits, it will be hard for me to ever forgive you.
2. Not leaving me be.
Yes, I'm a Cancer. Yes, I love affection and attention and loving people in my life. But when I'm in one of those "moods" - leave me the hell alone. Odds are very, very likely that it's not about you, and further, that I'll be fine if you leave me to my own devices. Don't push.
3. Being taken advantage of.
4. Disrespecting the domicile.
5. Dismissing my emotions/intuition.
Oh, holy hell, that's a big one. Even if you think I'm being crazy - even if no matter what way you look at the situation, you just can't seem to "get" why I'm acting/feeling the way I am - do NOT dismiss me, or baby jebus forbid, -say- that I'm being crazy. That's a great big "fuck you" in my book. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, November 12, 2007 - 9:41 AMLack of communication within the relationship. Don't have to tell me every freakin detail but if I am with someone I find it maddening when they don't talk to me. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Thu, November 29, 2007 - 6:58 AMthis cancer gets totally pissed with...
---> flakes... I am a great friend to have around and love to help the people I care about... so don't waste my time!!
--->broken trust... I will have a really hard time being able to trust you if the bond has been broken once... a cancer learns fast and we don't like getting hurt more than necassary...
--->emotional hounding... has anyone ever had an ex or partner NOT STOP hounding you for the way that you feel...?! or insisting that you will change if you just give it a try... NO I will NOT change at this moment... give me some time to myself and you never know what may happen but the more you push me the farther I will retreat, and if I retreat too far I will not return... see ya later!!
---> and of course~ don't you lay a hand on the ones close to me cuz you won't have that hand in another minute... I am VERY protective of my family and close friends... as I have told my few married g/f's..."fried green tomatoes girlie... all you have to do is call me and I'm there"
I'm not an intimidating girl when looking at me to be sure... (I'm only 5'4"!!!hahaha!) but hit any of these key points and it changes very fast... my weapons are my words and actions... I'm not violent, but know how to push when it comes to a shove... -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Fri, November 30, 2007 - 2:21 AMoh and the worst thing of all...
is when your being talked down by sum1!
i hate that1
like when people wont take you seriously or dont even want to agknowledge that they might be wrong and ur right but they wont tell you cus they want to win the fight....and i just rhymed!!
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sat, February 23, 2008 - 11:25 PMFor me: lying, cheating, mothered as mentioned, being unappreciated ticks the crap out of me. Makes the claws come out and not in a good way. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, February 25, 2008 - 9:58 AMIf I'm in a dark mood.... everything. I don't like nuthin.
But generally,
Don't talk down to me
Don't ignore what I'm saying in a conversation because you're just waiting to get your point across- I'm not talking for my health!
Don't deceive me or insult my intelligence
Don't take my words of wisdom lightly
I go through great lengths to sift out rats, so once you pass all the necessary tests and I've grown to trust you, don't let me find out that you are indeed, a rat.
Last but not least...
DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT TAKE MY KINDNESS FOR A WEAKNESS, AND MAKE THE MISTAKE OF UNDERESTIMATING ME!!!!
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, February 25, 2008 - 5:27 PMIf you deliberately and consistently make them feel insecure about something that is very important and dear to them
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, March 17, 2008 - 7:41 AMDon't try and manipulate me.
Don't break my trust. It might appear that I've forgiven, but I haven't forgotten.
Don't push teasing to much. I will come back and bite much harder, thinking that's the way the game is played.
Someone mentioned the scariness of a Cancer temper. Sadly I think it's true in most cases. I scare the shit out of people with my temper and I think, "lil ol me?" ;-) -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Wed, March 19, 2008 - 1:32 PMCancer needs somone with a keen sence that is good on pushing buttons. THE RIGHT ONES. See.. cancers emotions is like a lump of quick silver on a plate.. that needs to be constantly observed. That constantly tries to move towards one of the edges.. and poor over into tears and sourness.
So you have to know what direction they are heading, and then counter their move. It,s all a quiet war sometimes. But if they try to coaporate the whole thing falls in naturally. It,s about emotional maturity and security in oneself. When i was younger i was easily hurt by everything. But i was honest enought to find - that i was taking myself too serious. It,s all fucking silly. I found myself to be a lught, weeping about everything. So i said - fuck myself.
Im a cancer sun - scorpio moon.. trine uranus moon.. bla bla bla I keep most of my emotions on an grudge level. Then i suddently explode.
Beeing - normally - rather quiet .. it scares people when i lash out. It is deadly serious when i do.
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Thu, March 20, 2008 - 7:35 PMI have to agree about temper. Little known secret about cancers is the absolutely ferocious temper. Once I get angry it is frightens people. I try to reign it in, but if you take me for granted, say something insulting, acuse me of lying, or try treat me unfairly--the anger bursts forth--its really unstoppable.
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Sat, April 12, 2008 - 9:29 AMCritism...or being told what to do. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Mon, June 2, 2008 - 8:34 PMGood one.
Criticism feels like such an assault.
Another thing I don't like is someone who will be in my presence (like at a party or something), and they will be observing me. And they may roll their eyes or make a snide remark. (Because I am slightly hyper). That gets me, but actually saddens me more than anger.
Oh, the predatory types who can smell a cancer from a mile away. Take, take, take.
Tired of inconsistent people who say one thing and do another.
And also people with alterior motives. That is messed up too. -
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Re: What ticks a cancer off?
Fri, June 6, 2008 - 2:52 PMToday a friend of mine made a comment along the lines of "what am I protecting"? lol, didn't know what to say so I changed the subject!
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