when you trully love someone with your real heart, that love never dies. sometimes outside interfearance spelled wrong gets between you and the one you trully have your heart with. in my situation no, the one i love is somewhere else.. lost contact with her almost 2 year ago.

its been a hard road since, especially when you know there is no one on earth you could ever give your love to like that one you trully love..

sometimes you think it would be better just to let go, then you remember why you loved that one, and its hard to just let go when you know there is no one quite like that one....
stuck between a rock and a hard place.
having faith in love keeps me knowing that regaudless if it was meant to be it will happen as it should.
you accept the now and wish for the future.. you never lose hope in what you love cause love if its real always comes home when its time, and ready to..

why did i lose that one...... only the one could answer that i could only guess, but never assume i know the truth till that one told me out of her mouth. enjoy the beautiful night people..... lv-s

i WISH i could get over her. it freaks me out how obsessive i am.

I am definitely with the one I truly love. Ive never loved anyone else as much as I love this man. The second I met him, something happened and I was smitten ever since. I was 16 then. Im 30 now. It took him a while to come around but i have patience to last a life time. We've been together for 3 years now and I dont ever think we will part because I sure as hell wont ever let him go.

I agree that Cancers, at least for me, continue loving someone they have loved. I think it is because we understand a person at their core, and those I have loved were mean to me, but I understood their beauty and their frailty. They worked on the surface of things and I admired them for having the capacity to act so superficially. In this world, superficiality can be an asset. I guess I thought it was my job to teach them to be kind. But, all the while they were showing me how superficial I was being. As an artist, I look to the outside. Of those I loved, they were physical works of art. Perhaps, they were the image I wanted to see when I looked in the mirror. Of those I loved, we are so very far away from each other, that resurrection is not worth the effort, nor is it capable of curing the flaws.

Love like war it is easy to start but it is very difficult to end.

Sums it up for me.......

Well death seems to like to walk with me, I have had a couple best buds dying on me. Still talk to myself and remember them as they were living. Whats wrong with using a bit of imagination, and some character play. Sometimes I shock myself lol

I Have a hard time separating death/life. Though the love is just as strong as it was before and after. I'm here for the journey and sight seeing after all.

Cancers are known to have the memory of an elephant. The mind remembers the emotional atmosphere around everything, so we got LOTS of film to go through. I'm always seeming to end relationships quite harsh.........It makes good burning material mentally. It stings, and bites hard... but damn does it teach me not to make that mistake again LOL

chiming in on the "cant unlove someone" thing

right now i'm with a guy who well... i can't even describe how great i feel with/about him
but i also still have this soft spot for my ex. not only did i LOVE love him, but he was my first everything which makes it even more complicated.
and unfortunately we never talk anymore =p it's sad
oh well
it's not that i don't love the guy i have now, i just still have lingering feelings

and yeah, i dont think love ever dies. once it's there, once it's REALLY there, not like lust masquerading as love, but ACTUAL LOVE, i dont' think you can unlove someone.

I thought I was in love many times. Cancer can be very caring
which can be confused with thinking you found the one. I never forgot
past relationships and remembered each experience. :)

ok. this thread is starting to depress me lol i'm not entirely sure exactly why

No, I thought I was but he found something in a Libra, that I don't have.. so I'm still looking. Refer to my topic for more info.