What Cancer wants most is a partner who can take things slow and easy, secure in the knowledge that the ultimate victory will be sweet for both.
Cancer men...what sayeth you??
Cancer men...what sayeth you??
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 5:01 PMIn bed? Maybe...
My cancer is the one who moves things to different levels, and he's not all that slow and easy...
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Sat, December 22, 2007 - 9:00 PMit depends on the person
but usually i take a long time but would be much more grateful to kind of "hurry it up" if i've made up my mind about a woman cuz i don't have very high self esteem and get nervous about making that move. once that's broken down, i'm very much in a high speed mode. so if she makes the move first and i have feelings for her then it happens very fast.
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 10:49 AMI’ve always had this picture in my head of being married to someone special and having a loving family of my own. So growing up I looked at it like being a man and how a man should treat his wife and family. I did not know that Cancer males have that family oriented trait until I looked at astrology about a year and a half ago. Nonetheless that trait has always been inside of me. When I found my love technically she found me. She inspired and brought out that man I was preparing myself to be my whole life. When I met her I could not believe how sweat and beautiful she was. She is absolutely the cutest little thing on the planet. We share an undeniable and powerful connection that for me I did not know existed until I met her. She made me feel so special because of the attention she gave me. Since meeting her I have matured greatly becoming stronger and finding myself in the process. You can say it was love at first sight for us. Even though we both played and are hard to get. It took me over a year before I came out and told her that I was in love with her and that I was going to hold onto her forever. Before that I only told her that I adored her which is kind of like saying I love you without actually saying it. It’s been tough for both of us that natural in love so easily feeling and the fear from the intensity and how easily we can hurt each other. The last thing I want to do is hurt her in anyway. And this goes back to me preparing myself as a man. So I have to be the strongest I can be for her putting my emotions and sensitivity aside so she can have hers and not feel hurt because of them or me. She's my love and I try my best to give her the love I have for her and that she ultimately deserves. -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 11:05 AMWow, Cardinal! I think that you just made me understand my bf and his reactions to my emotions better than a lot of people could.
He says that in most of his relationships, there is a 4-month mark, I take this to mean that most of his relationships (except 2) have ended by that time. So, he's sort of waiting till then to give in. To me, this sounds like a commitment issue, but it's really the opposite. Like you said, he's preparing to be the best man he can be for me. I guess I need to take a step back (mentally), and just make sure that I am the stable and dependable woman I have always been? And, just support him as much as I can? He does the same for me, after all... and, as with any healthy relationship, I don't need him, I want him.
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 11:17 AMThank you Kaylie...
For me its my pleasure to be in love with her.. She filled my heart with love so i give all my love to her. And sure being stable, dependable and supporting is good thing it helps us feel secure. -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 11:20 AMThat's awesome! We need more love in this world! -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 11:25 AMI agree. She's helped me become a soldier of love , thats hard to beat.. -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 11:27 AMWe don't use the word love yet, but there's definitely a connection and an "energy" there, We say we adore each other all the time, because we do! -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 11:33 AMAdore is a great word. When I said it to her I was trying to hint to her that I was in love with her. I think she knew I loved her anyway. -
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Sun, December 23, 2007 - 8:08 PMhey, thats how me and my bf are! He has always had that need inside of him to have a family of his own and to be a husband. I also just recently started looking into astrology.. and the describtion of a cancer is him exactly!! We both read about it and find it so bizaree that everything it says of a cancer man, he is. But anyways- he also says that I have helped him grow and mature into the man hes always wanted to be. and how with his exs he cared for them, thought he loved them, but now that he sees what love really is he knows he didnt. He says with his exs he could never invision himself marrying any of them, but with me hes always been able to picture himself marrying me and growing old with me... he says because im a good person, im sweet, and because ive showed him wut true love is. And we also have that connection.... i dunno if this is how it is for u..but with me and my bf we will say, and think things at the same time and we are always on the same level. Theres deep chemistry and understanding between us.
As for cancers taking things slow-- we took things pretty slow in the physical sense.. maybe cos we're both so shy tho, i dunno lol. but from what he tells me, he loses respect for a girl if she wants to move too fast and he says he would never feel comfortable being with a girl like that. -
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Tue, January 1, 2008 - 12:45 PMThat’s cool it sounds like you have a real special relationship. We took things real slow no matter how fast it felt in the beginning. Because it felt real fast I kind of denied her in the beginning and she denied me also. Like I said before feeling that connection, the intensity and the ability to hurt each other. We both hurt each other so many times making the relationship painful when there is a deep love there. It’s been an emotional rollercoaster but no matter how painful it was is and could be I can’t ever stop loving her. It an unconditional true love I have inside for her that I cannot deny for a second. I’ve been really strong for her as strong as I feel I can be but everyday I still need to be strong. I in know way fear the obstacles we have to endure in order to be together. Because she is the only one I can picture myself with and she is the only one I will give my all for. And it scares the crap out of me thinking about not being with her forever. I have all the love inside me to do it and with my Capricorn Rising I have the ambition and endurance too climb the most difficult mountain. Not matter how many times the goat falls to the bottom or how long it takes it reaches the top.
As for our connection I feel her with me all the time. She is inside me like no other and that’s how I like it. She’s a part of me my home my soul being. She has this uncanny psychic connection with me. I don’t how to explain it but I understand it. It’s like she knows it me sometimes through her intuition. Even when we first looked at each other I felt like she knew something that I didn’t. I like that, I like how she knew she felt it and believed it. Made me feel at ease with her trust her and endeared me to her. I said to myself I can trust her. This also in a way makes her very vulnerable to me the undeniable attraction and the intense psychic connection. So I nurture her.
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Thu, January 3, 2008 - 5:11 PMWhat's your girlfriend, Cardinal? Astrology-wise.... -
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Thu, January 3, 2008 - 8:03 PMShe has a Scorpio Stellium and right now we are not together. I just recently lost her again. It’s a challenge thing because I challenge her like know one else. So when she feels challenged by me she then challenges me. I challenge her because of the equal partnership I need from her a unification. She can’t control me the way she can control others even though I trust her with control. She can seduce the hell out of me that’s for sure. Its very complicated right now. And I refuse to break her heart so I will remain loyal to her. I always have been. I may even see her this weekend if she hasn’t ran too far. Its not easy building a universe that is the Cancer Scorpio thing. -
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Thu, January 3, 2008 - 8:08 PM:-( I understand the Scorpio-thing.... from a Virgo's perspective. The water that burns.... -
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Sat, January 5, 2008 - 10:26 AMThe water that burns huh. Thats funny. I could tell you some stories but I don't think you would believe them. She's been doing this since I met her. I don't mind because I understand her care about her and love her so much. She's like a little kitten you know. You see that cute little kitten you want to just pick it up give it a big kiss and bring it home with you. But when you go to get close to the little kitten it runs. Its cute but a challenge. I sometimes worry that she will be too afraid of her emotions and feelings for me that I will lose her for good. I'm not trying to be such a challenge for her. But when we are together all the intensity, passion, desire, attraction and psychic connection is a lot to handle. I decided a while ago not to be afraid of all of that because it was killing me inside. So I took all the risks necessary in order to rise above those fears so i could be with her. I believe in her and believe she has the strength inside of her to be able to rise above her fears so we can be together. She has done so much for me that it would be tragic for us to invest some many emotions and to grow so much for her to just give up. I have not seen her yet. I stayed in last night i was shot emotionally and physically no phone calls and went to sleep early. Tonight i'll watch some football with my friends and hope to see her later. -
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Sat, January 5, 2008 - 4:15 PMI was with one scorpio in my life, we had a connection like the one you're speaking of. He ran too... such is life!
Meanwhile, my Cancer is stable and dependable, like you, we tire of each other, spend a night or two apart, and then are back to normal again soon. It's nice, very nice... -
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Sun, January 6, 2008 - 3:07 AMKaylie the thing is. i don't want her to run from me.. I'm in love with her.. She is my equal... My soul mate.. -
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Sun, January 6, 2008 - 10:34 AMWell, you can't make her stop trusting you, you know? You aren't doing anything to break any trust. Just continue to be stable, but also, stand up for yourself. I have a past too, and a painful one at that, if I let it make me scared and "hard" I would be alone for the rest of my life. She has to let it go, and let you in.... -
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Sun, January 6, 2008 - 5:32 PMKaylie thank you so much.. I will remain loyal and stable for her. I have to she is too important to me. I appreciate you understanding my passion for her and for not telling me to give up on her....
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