Jairy - so, if I may ask, why didn't it work out?

So what are your rising and moon signs?

i would love to find out!

where are you single fishy gals?

I have myself a Picean that I just can't seem to quit. I tried, but I am drawn back to him. It's odd, that emotional conection that is going on. Can't say that I've had it with anyone else in a really long time. He's pretty cool.

all of my past relationships have been with pisces
when i meet a pisces..that's usually the first question i ask myself
hmm..i bet we'd get along great
most of my lovers or x-lovers are scorpio's or have their moon or ascendant in scorpio..

OK- I had to join this tribe to get some answers. I am a pisces and after reading that match of pisces and cancer posted earlier in this thread I HAD to share this story and I have to get some advice. I am hoping you all are willing to help a fishy out as I have NEVER had this happen to me before!

I met someone at a party this past weekend. Of course I peg him as a total player off the bat and would not believe a word he said to me because he would go on and on from the minute he saw me about how hot and sexy I was, but I still went home with him. I couldn't say no to him.

So after a lot of making out and heavy petting and some sleeping and now being sober we go onto some more making out and some talking and all of the sudden it got REALLY weird...

All of the sudden he could read me as if he was reading my mind, and I could do the same with him, all of the sudden there was this weird connection building up so intensely on us we both started totally trembling.

We get to talking and he is the female version of me!
Same jokes, same sense of humor that gets him into the same trouble I get into, same random quotes and in talking and through the making out and heavy petting we also know and figure out quickly that we are absolutely compatible in every way physically as well.

We both mention it and talk about it without sayin the exact words we were thinking but acknowledge that whatever is happening to us is very intense and VERY scary!!! He says, but in a good way and it is fun. He says he is scared because it is not everyday you meet someone that you know within 24 hours is going to turn your world completely on it's head! I say this is impossible, we are both intelligent adults there is no way this is real or this could happen. He says "it has been known to happen and I am not going to count myself out as not being one that this can happen to."

So I asked if he has not yet gone to BM (he's going this year) and he was at the party by himself how did he find out about it? And that is where now the story is interesting, he says...

I called a friend I had not talk to in a REALLY REALLY long time for some reason he popped into my head that day and felt I needed to call him. Asked him what he was doing that night and we should hang out. He said he was part of this camp having this party and told him about it, my guy says, “huh, that sounds like just the random thing I should do tonight, I'll meet you there.”

We are at my house talking about it again after the very long intense in a good way day and I am putting on my make up in the bathroom he is looking at the movies in my bookshelf right next to the door as I say, that is weird what are the odds really that you are going to randomly call someone, they tell you about a party and you randomly go blah blah blah, I mean what are the odds? He says “what are the odds that right as you are saying those exact words I am looking at this one movie out of the hundreds here?” and it was serendipity.

WTF is that? What is going on??? This is why we are both a little freaked out. It is the little stuff like that oh and by the way by mid day we were already finishing each other sentences, who does that after knowing someone at that point 12 hours????

I all of the sudden find myself going to a going away party for a co-worker/employee of his.

The ending though did not really turn out the way we had planned or the way I had hoped because the partying kind of stepped in and took over for him and well I had to work so instead of going home together I had to go home alone, and well because of the partying I think he felt bad and thought I would hold it against him or I was, so it was a strange goodbye but also still hot, and then I got lost trying to get to the bridge and I called him we couldn't hear each other very well because of the noise and eventually he hung up. I was frustrated wasn't sure if he thought we were done or if his battery died or if he got mad and frustrated himself so I tried calling back a few times because well I was lost but he wouldn't answer so instead of thinking that the battery could've died I leave a message saying, “I am lost I really hope you didn't get mad and hang up on me and if you did I can't believe you are not answering your phone now especially because you know I got lost”, ugh, I of course now regret leaving that message and not sure how he will respond to it at all. I called the next morning left a message saying “I hope you got home ok and that you had fun, sorry about the message last night I was just drunk and high and frustrated because I was lost and didn't want to be on the road that long and hope we are still on for tonight and I can't wait to see you.” I hope that smoothes it over.

But I do have the voicemail he left me last night while I was with him and it was so nice, he says “I am standing here looking at you right now and you are so fucking dead sexy (gives me his number) and then says, yeah dead fucking sexy.”

Did he really mean what he said he was starting to feel or was he just being one of those in the heat of the moment guys? I don't know cancer men this is my forst encounter.

So, I am thinking now I probably blew it though with this guy and he must think I am crazy!

Mostly because when we got disconnected when I was lost I probably called back a gazillion times well like 4 and then left that desperate crazy message.

Then I called and apologized to his voicemail Monday sent 2 flirty text messages one of which was also asking and trying to confirm plans I thought we had made for that night, of course he never responded. Then of course I left a message monday night trying to kind of again confirm plans if not for last night then for at least friday.

So on top of calling incessantly when I was panicked and lost I tried to then contact him about 4 times monday 2 messages and 2 texts, ugh, he probably now thinks I am a psycho and wants nothing to do with me! =(

Well of course being the pisces I am and wanting to make sure I fix any misunderstandings and really thinking if this is what we think it is he won't think I am that crazy for calling, I don't know, so I do he hanswers and sounds actually happy to hear from me, explains to me how sick and hung over he actually was on Moday that he could not even move at all until 10 pm and that he had just heard my messages and he was really sorry about all of the confusion and such. We both had to go so he tells me to contact him later or he will me but we should definitely get in touch.

I call later we talk briefly he asks me what I am doing the next coule of days I say they are open for once, we say we miss each other, but then he has to go because he is now in his car and gets nervous about being on cell and driving in the city, tells me to please call him today. I say he shuold probably call me. I tell him this because I am afraid if I call him again what the outcome is, what if he doesn't answer again then I have to wait and wonder if he's going to call back, I also don't want to be "that girl" who is always calling him eventhough he told me to.

Look I know that rant sounds a little crazy, but I have had this happen to me from other signs mostly capi's and taurus' and I know not much about the cancer males. And like I said before this connection was so insane and it has never happened to me before that I don't want to lose it, not just yet, I want to have the chance to explore it some.

PLEASE help me with some insight?

How do I keep him interested in the same thing and not scare him off? Are cancers all about the chase too? My mom who is a cancer say yu all are just as sensitive and obsessive as us when the connection is right, is that true???

Yes I do know what you are talking about I am a Pisces/Aries cusp woman and the love of my life was a Cancer man we met when I was 16 and we always came back to each other throughout high school even when we had boyfriends and flings (we went to rival schools ). For me I maintained my freedom and him as well knowing it wasnt the right time, then one day he came and told me he was moving to Texas for college and so me being the pisces I am I let him go never telling him how sad I was to see him leave. A couple weeks before he left we hung out with his friends and played poker and it turns out his bff we went to elementary school together and he was there too, that night he drove me back to my car and we held hands and just silently communicated how we felt and that night we got together for what seemed like for good, and we did all this without ever saying a word. So he moved to Texas for school we lasted about a year and then one day I called his phone and another woman answered that was all it took and I ended it right there. Anyways long story short he moved back to my hometown after college came back into my life and we drank our way in and out of each others bed needless to say hurting each other more and more. I am married now and so is he and he is pushing for me to have an affair, My husband moved from our hometown to Texas so now I have constant reminders of my ex everywhere because we live in Texas now. All I can say is its not coincidence it is fate what you feel , and you KNOW what you feel when you feel it, a Cancer man can make you feel like you are the most loved person in the world and the most hated if he wants to so dont let him go, whatever you do be good to him because hes not one you ever want to lose. Ever. And hes attracted trust me if your a Pisces he's attracted.

cancer sun here.. pisces girls have always let me reach my full expression and then silently swam away and left me with a stomach ache....but really, if youre love lets them be free, the chances are about as good as any.. cancer is the beginning of integrating emotions into the ego(sun)...pisces has the zodiac integrated..they have even integrated dying!! creepy! but totally incredible too.. so yeah, WOAH I JUST DIED IN YOUR ARMS TONIGHT!! hopefully they stay!! good luck and claws down when swimmin with the fishies!!

My Mum is cancer and my Dad is Pisces. My Dad is an unusual character to say the least. Me and my Mum are the only ones that understand him properly. I'm cancer with a scorpio moon, my dad has moon in scorpio also. Rubia I understand what you mean about the over-bearing, possessive and obsessive part. I hold my hands up and admit I can be like that. It's very hard to find a partner who understands that or will accept it. I know some cancers can't bear to be alone, but I would find that stifling as well. Most cancers I know really need their own space and to have time completely alone to recharge. I have called in sick to work before just to get a day in the house by myself. I wouldn't say that I needed constant reassurance, but I do like to feel appreciated. ;)

Shadow, I would bet that your Cancer is a player like you first thought, there is no excuse for ditching you, he might be seeing other people and because yous started to get serious too fast he had to back up a litte, that's the only thing to me that would explain his lack of commitment, i.e. not even calling to say he couldn't make it , not returning calls, etc. Yes, it's been a good connection for you, but I don't trust that he's not playing the field, and I'm gonna step out a limb, but Cancer men can be players, the good kind that makes each girl feel real special

Pisces thrashing ? nah they just dont understand us we are an enigma :P