single Cancers?

topic posted Sat, March 11, 2006 - 1:31 PM by  J.
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I've been in a dating dry spell for quite some time. I keep busy but I have stereotypical mood swings when I want to curl up on the couch with a sad movie and some crunchy snacks. any tips on controlling those lovelorn loony Moon Child moments?
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  • Re: single Cancers?

    Sat, March 11, 2006 - 4:18 PM
    Ya its funny I can do w/ the excitement, sex, ect for a long time but.. I really miss some closeness, cuddling. Watch a movie, quiet relaxing peace shared.
    Your not alone.
    As to what to do about it well if you figure it out let me know..
    Trick is not to settle for someone just to fill that need.
    A loving friend can help, I've heard of cuddle clubs. But sound new age-y to me.
    Good luck
    Dragon.
  • Re: single Cancers?

    Fri, March 31, 2006 - 2:46 PM
    sadly no.... i dont know about you but when im stuck in a mood im just there... if you can force yourself into doing something else semi social i would reccomend it... like getting together with a friend and watching a movie and eating snacks.. that way it is still comfortable but not gloomy.. cheery and fun... also.. maybe try to make the things that you surround yourself with more plesent and happy as to pick your spirits up a notch.. like the movie should be funny or cute or fun.... thats what i could suggest.. oh yes... and finding a fun activity that sparks your intrest but speaks to your cancieran nature...
  • Re: single Cancers?

    Tue, April 4, 2006 - 3:35 PM
    you can always hang out with a platonic friend or get a cat or dog...
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      Re: single Cancers?

      Sat, June 17, 2006 - 8:37 PM
      Thanks everyone. It's now 3 months since I posted that and things couldn't be better. I joined a club, started watching what I eat and exercising almost every day. I'm still single but I've lost 6 pounds. :) This summer, I'll be doing a women's exercise boot camp so I'm sure all those endorphins will help.
  • Re: single Cancers?

    Mon, October 12, 2009 - 12:45 PM
    I have moments where I would like to be with one person, then when I am with someone I get bored easily especially if she is not deep or has not enough depthness. I was dating a few females but they just did not interest me past the physical. Or they were self absorbed so I didnt give a damn about them. Best way to deal with it is just dealing with it. Sometimes I feel like I am on an island and sometimes I just need to be by myself, I have my moments. I can be so romantic and then sometimes I am just an asshole and need my alone time.

    I am a Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon, Sag rising...oh and my Venus is in Gemini so that just complicates my ass even more LOL!
  • Re: single Cancers?

    Wed, October 28, 2009 - 8:20 PM
    I'm not bothering with Love no mores. I've spent so much energy looking for someone that I feel very, very burned out and I just don't care to look any more.

    So I'm re-focusing on me, myself and I, working out more, loving my hobbies, planning next years garden and 2011 is count down time for goats! Have friends, already have love!

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