Been there, done that...

My personal experience is that most women use that card to get out of Anal sex, but if the man is like.. "OK, lets go for it..." or anything like that, then it usually turns into a "Your gay" conversation. When in reality, anyone who really understands the male sexual hot spots knows that the prostate (which is in the ass) is like the male G-Spot. You can cum without someone touching your penis (Done that, and WOW...). How powerful is that!?!!!

I know LOTS of men that like a finger or butt plug in their ass when having sex. So a woman with a strap on isn't that big a deal (As long as it's compareable to my size, no 12" long 3"diamater monsters).
In fact I would have liked my ex wife's*, or my ex girlfriend's to do it.

I know I recently got to do a girl I am seeing in the ass, and she LOVED it... I took my time, used ample amounts of lube (Not too much around the anus, otherwise, it's just wierd feeling), and that was all only after I got her off, but I had not gotten off. I got off great after that.

I think most men harbor feelings for that, but they will never say anything as it is considered "GAY", by both men and women alike.

ALSO... I think most men try and just "Lube and slide in" this doesn't work at all... You have to take time, warm her up... Use one finger for as long as you like... Then try two... Make sure she is OK with that... Then if you dare, go on to three... Then try and go in, slowly. It makes it MUCH more fun, and then they can take more longer (At least that has been my experiance).

* I did have my first ex do it once, but it was angry sex, so it hurt, not loving sex.

i agree! it will give them a new appreciation for how important it is to develop skills at being good at it because it's way too easy for them to hurt their woman. xx BiteMeSquared