<<i am an easterner... and have found that, 8 times out of 10... someone smiling at me
and appearing to want to help, just wanted to screw me over. is it different in the west coast? >>

Wow, I was blown away from your post. First I thought you were bitter and jaded, maybe you are, but then I got to the bottom and read this... Holly crap! If that is how it is in the East then I would have to say that the west is definitively, absolutely and incredibly different. But having been to the east I would say that I am either seriously naive, blind, both or life is all a matter of perspective and point of view. My advice is if you don't like how things are around you then look at yourself and change something within. You will be amazed at how the world around you will then change accordingly... Be well my friend.

what is this community of which you speak of? I believe the term here is being used in the abstract, There are many different types, with many different focuses, and aspects. If I am interpreting correctly, as a newbee here, I would think the definition would be a joint effort toward a common goal. As for the rest of your questions, I will answer as an individual with my own "community" goals and see if any of the information is something YOU find useful.

who started it? GOD, Then many others throughout history, until it trickled down to me. In reality all forms of society other than sometimes anarchy, are different types of communities. I'll let the anarchists argue for their views later.

how is it formed? When more than one person focuses on achieving the same goal together.

who's in it? Those who get off their Okole and do it.

A) is anyone allowed in? within reason. Rapists, murders, pedifiles and chronically lazy or disturbing people may be excepted.... B) or can be a part of? Sure, why not? you get what you give!

A) why is the word 'community' so important? I'm not certain the word is important, other than being a means to express a thought. But perhaps in your case, being misinterpreted, it is completely useless.

B) why is it used? See the first part of the answer to part (A)

is the word a replacement for the 80s and 90s 'networking'? I would think not. In general, networking was a way of making connections with people, but the goal was individually self serving. Community is more about making connections that serve everyone involved and perhaps future generations as well.

what is it for? Survival, making hard tasks easier, friendship, entertainment, access to a greater variety of skills and resources, and ONE LOVE Bradda. Get used to it.

doing things good things for the "greater good", or for society in general...is well, good!
but what's it's in for you? The same things that are in it for you, so why not do it?

A) has anyone benefited here? Do you mean on Earth, Yes! B) and how? look at history, every society is also a community. The benefits are why each and every society was formed. Again, there are many different types, with many different focuses, and aspects

why does it on one level.. appear a bit, semi-cult like to me? Because that's what your cult brainwashed you into believing. If you don't explore and research for yourself, then your only cerebral resource is the tainted information you have been given. That is not to say that there are not cults that form communities as well. Just that not all communities are cults, or have cultish requirements.

and even... having the affect of sealing out part of the general world we live in? Some MAY do as you say, but not all of them. Mine is an example of working with and along side the greater society. members.fortunecity.com/fbush2...de.html Just with a code that is less selfish than the, me, me, me philosophy.
also... why do you need a "reason" to party? Huh, I guess I missed the comment you are referring to.
why not just party for the fun, and the hell of it? Works for me, As long as the important stuff gets done.
why? You tell me.

i am an easterner... and have found that, 8 times out of 10... someone smiling at me
and appearing to want to help, just wanted to screw me over. is it different in the west coast? Well, It is on Hawaii. But I'll frown at you , or make a goofy face if it makes you feel better.

why don't i think so? you have had trouble dealing with life disappointments, and you need some psychological help. "Community" is a great way to find people to relate to, who can grow to love you in return, because you get what you give! And they don't charge you $60 to $200 an hour for YOU to figure out what YOU think your problem is.