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What I hate about Gemini's....

topic posted Fri, November 25, 2005 - 6:53 PM by  sonny
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What I hate about geminis is almost everything. I hate how they always have to have the last word, or how they always think there way is the right way,or how they are two totally different people,or when they ignore us leo's and don't show any affection,or pay attention to us. OOH !!! THAT JUST PISSES ME OFF !!
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  • I don't hate gemini's persay, they just freak me out. My dad is a Gemini, and i have dated a few gemini's....Their mood swings always get to me.

    Pretending i am a cat and i am getting petted by a nice person and then the person starts to act all creepy and strange..then I am very prone to running and hiding.

    My roommate is a Gemini, and I believe he is a strong candidate for something called Narcisitic Personality Disorder...Sometimes he is on the surface normal and friendly and helpful...then he can turn into this monster who can't stop talking about how cooler he is than everybody else.
    His braying voice can be heard for miles around...back when i dated him, he was nice enuff to me when we were alone, but could not stand to be around me in public because there were so many other more interesting people and things than me to stimulate him..so i was quite lonely and frequently cuckholded..

    In many cases that I have experienced with super-obnoxious personaliity change, drink has been involved..including with my dad and the guys I have dated...
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      oh my. coming from a gemini with leo on the rise... i must say, it is true that we can be a bit mood-swingy... but umm... the rising sign is an important factor to consider. also, many of us gemini don't mix well with large amounts of alcohol unless we are in a fabulous mood to begin with and no one says the wrong thing/insults us after the alcohol has taken effect.

      those of us who are good people- we don't mean to be "mood swingy" and often regret it/wish we weren't. it just seems to well... happen. the bright side- we easily snap out of a bad mood- especially around good peeps and vibes.

      hey you're a leo, you're the star of the part anyway, don't let someone else's inconsistencies ruin your fun. though it may be tough to brush off your shoulders, in the end it's their issue, you know?
    • lol, some gemini's drive me completely up the wall.... but I have a gemini rising and so im understanding and we have similarities...

      older gemini males tend to be a lot easier for me to get on with... in my personal experience
    • I'm a Cancer on the cusp of Leo. Cancer is definitely the most sensitive sign, and having grown up with a TYRANNICAL Gemini father, I have PROOF that Gemini’s are IN FACT the most EVIL, SELFISH, THREATENING, VOLATILE, MEAN-SPIRITED people on earth and should all be put on a fucking island somewhere! My dad has fucked me up in so many ways I'm lucky I can even function. He takes his mood swings, and his personal problems, out on everybody else, and if you're unlucky enough to be within yelling range, well then, you're fucked. He only cares about himself. Doesn't give a shit about anything I've ever done or have accomplished in my life. He takes his "Lions Share" of everything. He doesn't care about people's feelings. You'll hear him make fun of someone behind their back, and when he sees them, goes straight up to them and says it all right to their face, and laughs. He never notices the hurt look on people's faces, probably because he doesn't care in the first place. He blames everyone else around him for all his problems. He has a screaming fit if one thing is out of place, even if it's HIS fault he lost it. He just doesn't think, he reacts. He won't listen to you when you talk. Often I've tried to bring up something important, finally get the guts to say it him, and because he thinks I have his attention, changes the subject immediately to something HE wants to talk about. I always wonder if he heard me or not. He does this to everyone else as well, so at least I've learned he's just not like shit to his family, but everyone. Actually, I've learned not to speak around him anyway, because I just get talked over and interrupted, and then you're left sitting there embarrassed, as everyone focuses their attention on him, THE LOUDEST. Led me to have all kind of social disorders. He’s always right, you're always wrong, even if you can prove it. Asking him for his help with anything is a nightmare, I mean, if you want to get screamed at the whole time about how fucking stupid you are and can't do anything right. You could have a PHD in something and still be wrong. He's rarely in a good mood, and when he is, I feel it might be safe to talk to him, but he usually turns on you in a split second for absolutely no reason. Even though he's a millionaire, he wouldn't give me a dollar to save my life. (I mean, LITERALLY - $1 DOLLAR) But that never stopped him from busting into my room, taking my beer, food, or anything else he wanted. He’s also given people my stuff before just because they’ll mention some THING and he knows he saw it somewhere. And this is the worst - I made the mistake of parking in the driveway one time after a long drive, and just needed to sleep. You can't park in the driveway, because it takes him maybe 10 extra seconds to get his car out (it's not really in the way, the driveway held like 30 cars.) So he grabbed me by the shirt, threw me down on the concrete and punched me in the face as hard as he could. He never apologized and still acts like it never happened. Also, anything he ever does to you never happened. Don't bring anything up, because you're fucking wrong about it. He's so verbally abusive to me and my mother that it would've hurt less to be killed a long time ago. One of my first memories is being terrified of him, and trying to find places in the house to hide. He used to make me sob and cry, but now, (I'm in my 30s now), when he does shit to me I just want to fucking kill him. So does everyone else. I'm really into astrology, and have read everything. My dad is a Gemini I. Maybe that's the worst week of Gemini, I don't know. I've never read about 2 or 3. My sister is born on the Gemini-Cancer cusp though and she's fucking nuts as well, and can just as hurtful, selfish, and uncaring. And man, that sweet side can really reel you in, but DON’T BE FOOLED! Jeffrey Dahmer was a Gemini. Every other Gemini male I have ever met has been nothing but a liar, with an ultimate mean-streak. And Cancerians CANNOT be lied to. If you know your child is going to be born anywhere between May 20th and June 21st, then you should seriously consider an abortion. It's the same thing as going back in time and killing Hitler. And like I said, there should be an island reserved for these people. Maybe then they can fight it out amongst themselves who is boss. And about Cancer/Leos - we are some of the most caring, giving, and sensitive people in the world. I'm witty, entertaining, and fun to be with. I make people laugh. I’m generous to a fault. And I love listening to people. These are all GOOD THINGS, and a Gemini will turn all of that against you somehow. And a Cancer/Leo - that's the Cusp of Oscillation, it's full of the most constantly changing and strongest energy of the whole zodiac. Mood swings yes, but nothing like a Gemini. With Gemini it's so black and white/good and evil. A Cancer/Leo experiences the full spectrum of feelings and emotions. We understand what people are feeling because we’ve been there. We're just pretty hyperactive, but I do feel good most of the time and am in a great mood and tend to affect people in a very positive way. I would never say anything or do anything to hurt anyone. I’ve never yelled at a person before. I care about people. I understand how Gemini's react without thinking, and are astonished when you don't want to give them your love. This also makes them the stupidest and most unaware sign - it's like, after all that hurtful, venomous shit you just said to me I'm really supposed to look at you the same way ever again? REALLY? Huh, REALLY? C'mon! Fuck Gemini’s and whatever planet they’re from.
      • Dude~ It ain't just about the Sun sign. Do a synastry and a composite chart on this one.

        I have know boatloads of Geminis. My son is a Gemini with a Pisces Moon and 0 degrees Aries rising. A sweeter person you won't find on the planet. Smart, sweet, silly, unbelievably tender.

        It is not the Sun sign. You say you are into astrology, well, start studying the charts.

        This thread is mostly bullshit. You can tell by the title of the topic.
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          "Dude~ It ain't just about the Sun sign. Do a synastry and a composite chart on this one.

          I have know boatloads of Geminis. My son is a Gemini with a Pisces Moon and 0 degrees Aries rising. A sweeter person you won't find on the planet. Smart, sweet, silly, unbelievably tender.

          It is not the Sun sign. You say you are into astrology, well, start studying the charts.

          This thread is mostly bullshit. You can tell by the title of the topic. "


          Or maybe for him personally, it's just true that he and Geminis don't mesh.

          If someone has really been through hell with someone (or more than one someone) of a particular sign, you can't blame them for going on an "So and so's suck" rant. Sure, it's inaccurate, but they have a right to feel what they want, and personally, it' s accurate for *them*.
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        Dude ur fucking crazy..and ur not a fuckin Gemini..ur dad has issue and u do too.I think it runs in ur blood and has nothing to do with being a fucking GEMINI..I admit Gemini are crazy at time but the way u describe ur dad selfish,greedy,and don't care shit about u or no one is Bullshit..Dude both my parents are Gemini's Think about that!!My Mom is the sweetest person..everything she fucking did was for me and my brother and not once she put her hands on me!! And your right they yell a lot !But The way my parents think mentally they were strong person.My dad was more strict then my mom but not once that man put his hand on me too!!So what I'm trying to say is it aint the sign it just your dad who is mentally ill..
      • You need to relax. My father is almost exactly like yours, not to mention he has substance abuse problems and he's an alcoholic. He's a Sagittarius. I have had to deal with going to crack houses, being abused mentally and physically, and dealing with my Capricorn mother falling victim to his control. I won't get to detailed on these escapades, but believe me, it has nothing to do with being a Gemini. Geminis has tendencies to be flighty, have split personalities, and can be very temper-mental. I am a Gemini. It all depends on how the Gemini uses their attributes and how they handle who they are. I am a very well-rounded, peaceful Gemini. I have a great understanding of how the mind works and how outside influences affect people. What you are saying is practically saying that all black guys have killed someone. Of course, we know that has no logic and isn't true. You are a cancer male, and that does make you extremely sensitive. Gemini and Cancer are also the least compatible of signs. Since this occurred in your childhood, it is evermore going to be a prevalent psychological problem in your adult life. Your father is just a crazy prick. People are just crazy pricks. That's why I don't hang out with people. You can't come to a conclusion based off of someone's astrological sign. Past this, I hope you overcome obstacles in your life and I hope your father realizes that he is a crazy, mean-spirited person, and he fixes it. Have a blessed day.
      • I agree with you 100%!!!!!! You are spot on with most Gemini men...and yes, it IS only the Sun sign and not a complete chart but most Geminis I've dealt with have been very, very similar to what Vince described!

        I had an abusive husband for a few years just like your father, vince. the worst excuse for a human being--ever!

        Back stabbing girlfriends that were Gemini's too...

        last Gem.boyfriend "reeled' me in...fooled me into thinking he was different...Surprise surprise....Self absorbed, mean spirited...unaware, verbally abusive pig.
      • OMG Vince I totally agree with you! I'm a cancer girl and totally know where your coming from!
        My boss is a Gemini. She is a two faced air-head!
        Has a ton of split personalities, and you can read right through her. She has no clue who she is.....
        She is whoever she needs to be in the moment.

        You are so right!
      • My mother is a Gemini. she beat me and berated me my whole life. She screamed constantly, made me work along side of her from saturday morning until late Sunday night scrubbing walls and the whole house.I took care of her bi-poalr ass for years and gave her huge presents on every holiday to try to buy her love... forgetting about the bitch-slaps out the door and times she threw me through walls , not to mention the razor strap beatings until her arms grew too tired to whip me anymore. She decided to move in with my mean- spirited drunken brother and told me... " I never want to see you or hear from you again"
        now I am 500 miles from all my friends... struggling with a personality ... yep. A gemini who I can not please .
        i have moved out twice .. lost every thing I owned and stuck here .
        Somebody kill me.
    • haha, Although I don't think your trouble with these persons is funny persay, I do think that the cat would be more represented with a gemini in the fact that one minute its loving you and the next minute its clawing your face. I do note how they discarded you for more interesting things and that is something I will keep in mind. It is after all my duty to please those around me. After all it is an HONOR to be around me!!!! P.S. my moon is in cancer so i'm actually a pretty chill Gemini. Id say i'm more snuggley then the rest.
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    oh shit, here we go.
    i would say that i agree with the both of you ladies. my best girlfriends (both of them) happen to be geminis. i have several friends who are geminis and i love them to death. they can be some of the smartest, coolest, most fun and spontaneous people on the planet.
    -and then-
    you get to see the other side which is usually something along the lines of them being extremely selfish, fickle, bossy, bitchy, dumb-as-fuck (ESPECIALLY while intoxicated), can't say no to anything (except you), one minute you know who they are, the next minute you want to throw them out on their asses because you feel like saying: "who the fuck are you?"
    it seems to me that in whatever way they are cool, they have the capacity to be just the opposite and frequently experience both of these things at the same time.
    example:
    my girlfriend is an overachiever and really delegates a lot. ok, not too bad a thing. little bossy at times, but can deal with it. but she cannot do anything on her own. i do not mean that she is incapable. she JUST can't do anything just by herself.

    kind of weird. i think geminis can be so much fun to be around, but when they do something stupid, it usually leaves a rather bad taste in the mouths of those around them.
    impulse seems to rule the roost
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      Leah! You just described my best friend who's a Gemini. LOL
      • She also managed to describe all the best friends I had throughout my childhood who spookily enough were all (3) born on the 6th of June. As an adult the wave turned and my good gemmy pal has her b'day on the 7th of June. I wish I knew what the hell it meant... Due to their sometimes unexplained extreme bitchiness and over competitive minds I've learned to keep an emotional distance so I don't get as hurt as much by their mercurian cookyness. One thing that needs to be said about geminis is their warm heartedness it can't be matched their generosity knows no bounds...
  • Okay, guys I would have to say that in general I agree with you. My first love was a Gemini and was every single thing that you describe. Those mood swings can really be ridiculous.
    But, on the other side I have to say that you have to think about their entire personality. These negative Gemini traits can be maximized or minimized depending on the position of their moon and their ascending sign.
    My spouse is a Gemini - and I must say that although we have our moments, I am very much so in love. We have been together for 4 years and married for 1 year.
    And, I guess I will go out on a tangent and say that a lot of people think that we Leos are pompous and bull headed.....
    although I think we are quite fabulous!
    • My Gemini roommate mentioned above is a Leo moon and an Aquarius rising (while I am an Aquarius moon and a Gemini rising)...this might explain why we have managed to stay a part of each-other's lives for so long..albiet now on completely platonic terms...when we are getting along the best we are like close siblings who can finish each others sentences...but lately he has sorta been a self-centered ass...mostly because he has been drinking alot.
      • My other Gemini ex has managed to become a pretty decent friend who only annoys me when he shows up piss face drunk...then he becomes creepy dark abstract neurotic guy...completely intolerable when I was dating him.

        I literally ran screaming from the relationship.
        • Gemini and their mood swings are simply a Air sign mirror of our leo fire.

          We also have mood swings. We also are more than one person.

          The Air of Geminni's crazy mind adventures feed our flames.
          It is up to us if we let that make us angry or exasperated or any of the HOT behaviors that lots of air can create inside of us.

          Rather than blame it all on gemini look to ourselves and how we might be even more compassionate. An elder sibling to youthful gemini soul. Afterall they are as children, exploring without the burdens of responsibliity.. even long into adulthood.

          Their spiritual path is no lesser or greater than that of leos.

          Find the part ofyourself that makes geminis behavior ALWAYS valuable and ALWAYS a process of growth and you will find an amazing vector for your own personal expansion of your self awareness.

          Namaste Lions
          • but...like when your are literally clinging to your drug-addled Gemini friend to keep him from rushing deleriously head-long into moving traffic so as to say goodbye to some member of some band who is long-gone..the same guy who likes to uh..masturbate on busses..or at other rediculously inappropriate times
            or uh....when in a moving car with your piss-drunk dad who has reverted to a 5-year-old having a temper tantrum after bein told to please stop drunkenly singing at the top of his lungs with the windows down..and he is driving...and noone else in the car can take over..

            I appreciate their whimsy but it can be rather harrowing at times. I just don't have the head for it. I am left feeling drained. There are people more qualified to put up with their shit than I am...It has nothing to do with their spiritual path being any greater or less than ours.

            I agree that we are all more than one person and we all have our mood swings..I can be a jealous-insecure grouchy primadonna with the best of them.

            It could just be a coincidence that all the Geminis I have been close to have been prone to drinking...which in effect causes uncomfortable mood-swing episodes.
          • Thank you for your post. My point exactly when people meet me and they find out Im a Gemini I hear so many negative things. First off we only treat people as they treat us. So if someone wants to be rude you get a double dose of that from us Gemini's. But if you choose to show respect then you get respect.

            I am a Gemini and yes I have my faults. But I believe in giving everyone the benefit of the doubt so when I meet someone new I dont judge them by their sign. I usually get to know them and once I get to know them then that's when I make my judgement.

            Yes we have dual personalities but it is up to every individual we meet to choose which side you want to meet. I dont go psychotic on anyone unless I am pushed. Im normally friendly, giving, intelligent, and I do love to make a point when necessary. But trust me us Gemini's are harmless until provoked. Lol.
            • "we only treat people as they treat us. So if someone wants to be rude you get a double dose of that from us Gemini's. But if you choose to show respect then you get respect." ~Theresa~

              Well I disagree with that!!!! You may be this way, BUT NO Gemini I know IS. You might wanna check other aspects of your personality to see why you choose to "show respect when you get respect." The Geminis I know will "bite your head off" just because you happen to be present when "the other side" comes out. I have Mars in Gemini. So, "show respect then you get respect" applies to me BECAUSE Taurus/Libra are two of my MAIN signs. My harsh words only surface when I am pushed toooooo much!!!
          • I'm a Gemini and totally agree with you. I gladly have no drug problems, but alcohol does not mix well with me. I go from happy to sooo depressed in no time at all..specially if I'm left to my thoughts, which usually become very dark and bitter. It's so wierd I become my total opposite and no longet the life of the party (because regardless of what Leos might say - we're the life of the party also and when Fire and Air mix then the party is just getting started about to Blow up).

            It's true we are like children, I'm still trying to mature at 30- but it'll be a bit still (i'm sure of it) I basically came in here to get insight into Leos, but never dreamed that we would be getting bashed. I think Leos are great and always remember to give them what they need so that we can get along great togehter. I'm sorry that you are all so unhappy with Geminis.
    • It is refreshing to hear something nice about the gemini. My best friend is a gemini and my spouse is a gemini. I love my gemini man, and yes, they can be distant b/c they need their space sometimes....i think if anything, that space is what keeps the lion interested. As a lion, if we want something , we get it. And I want my man-always.
  • I love Geminis! I get along very well with them. But I also have Gemini Moon. And I find it very hard to be around people who are too clingy or demanding of me. It's a nice thought to be adored but a completely different reality when it's actually happening. Geminis are unpredictable and wildly entertaining. Funny, spontaneous and great conversationalists. Their topics change every five minutes and it's so much fun to follow the conversation. Gemini's most get me and of course other Leo's. But I've also yet to have them neglect me. I think the key with a Gemini is to give them space and make them feel like they can come and go as they please...even if that is not the actual case ;)
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    I don't hate Geminis per se, but I completely get the last word thing. Many of the geminis I have met (and loved) enjoy hearing the sound of their own voices so much that a conversation with them becomes an exercise in patience at times. Often passionately destructive individuals - yet, I often find myself attracted to them! To be fair, there is always more to a person than their natal sun sign though.
    • My Gemini roommate has a Leo moon for what it's worth.
      and Aquarius rising...

      He is currently going through a good phase where he is a pleasure to be around and our experience in the recording studio (he is also in my band) is in stark contrast to our last session where he was completely messed up and out of control..and was complaining about everything..making up stuff just to go along with his arguements..like saying that the Beatles didn't do multi-tracking and stuff...

      Last night he was funny and helpful...his face even looks different when he is being "good"...
      • my boss is a male gemini and VERY unorganized but generally nice guy until i start organizing and making things right....he cannot drive to save his life. he has had tons of fender benders...he drives me nuts but at the same time i have much respect for him.

        my good friend of 8 years female gemini also can never say no to anyone but me. we constantly fight about the most petty things and she is so arrogant about it even if she is wrong (which is most of the time). she def. has 2 personalities one of which i cannot stand but i still love her. she also has had numerous car accidents.

        i have found that i cannot date a gemini or pisces because they just annoy the hell out of me.
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      A dear friend who is a Gemini urged me to amend my post. :) He pointed out to me that perhaps why I find these traits so annoying is that they are traits that many Leos, have as well (including me). Completely fair feedback. He also pointed out that more than half of the people I love in my life who have contributed greatly to the person I am are Geminis. LOL. As I said in my previous post, there is always much more to a person than their sun sign. Observations can be fun but can also lead down the slippery slope to stereotyping, which is dangerous territory. <Stepping off of my soap box for now>
  • Then what do think of Leos with Gemini rising like me??????
    • I am Gemini rising too...

      I also think that whenever people start casually chit-chatting astrology, a certain amount of stereotyping is inevitably bound to come into play.
      • Leo with Gemini rising also and I walk between the 2 worlds, the physical and spirit worlds . It all matter of how you use the sign you are given or you choose before you take the next life. There is always positive and negative sides to every sign.......
        Peace-
        • I can't believe I found this thread. I happen
          to be a Sag Sun/Leo Moon. I am currently
          working with 3 Geminis, and I am about
          to lose my mind. One, my boss is cool, now.
          We grew on each other. My boss is female.
          But there is a male and female Gemini that
          exhibits all of the above behaviour. It's so
          hard trying to be nice to them, when the evil
          twins come out. I think I need a chunk of kryptonite.
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        >>also think that whenever people start casually chit-chatting astrology, a certain amount of stereotyping is inevitably bound to come into play.
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        i hear this. us leos are arrogant, stuck up and proud.

        any leos out there have issues with worthiness? At times I've entertained the thought that it's because we've been told the above our whole lives. lol
      • yep!!
        • My family have been known to call me stuck up and proud oh yeah lets not forget the arrogant. I never saw it myself but it's feedback of a kind.
          With astrololgy after a while it is inevitable that stereotypes get bandied around; that however does not mean that there is not an element of truth in what is being said. Frankly I find the annotated stereotypes allow you to say a lot with few words, experience tends to allow you to keep the slander to its minimum.
          • You know, so many people look to astrology
            to help both themselves and others understand
            them, and then get upset when people use their
            astro chart to pinpoint on some of their behaviour.
            From my personal understanding, the chart lays
            out the behaviour you are capable of-it is up to you
            if you choose to hold on to certain behaviour. Everyone
            has a choice. I personally try to use my chart to make
            personal improvements. I can't get angry just because
            my chart usually has me dead to rights.
            • ...is that they break my heart. Or maybe that I fall in love with them in the first place.

              My best friend is Pisces/Gemini/Leo (I think; or maybe Pisces/Leo/Gemini), and what a wonderful mix; she's one of the most amazing women to walk the earth. CaptainE can attest to this; he knows her, too. All of these qualities in her are evident. She's elusive, grand, difficult to understand. She zigs, she zags, she nurtures and is in your face, then withdraws and disappears. But most importantly, she counts on me to always be there for her, and I am.

              The love of my life was a full blown gemini. I loved here with everything I had, but it wasn't enough, because I realized too late that I wasn't loving both of her. When she left, I was emotionally destroyed, felt betrayed, and questioned whether she ever really loved me at all, or even had the capacity to dp so. I changed my entire life for her, moved across country with her, grew to love her family as my own, changed my appearance, told her I loved her every day, lost every argument (when I bothered to argue back), and did all I could to make her happy, but she didn't know what that was, so I couldn't provide it. It took a very long time to heal that wound, and the scar is still there.

              I'm not a hater, but I understand being frustrated with Gemini.
              • When I was in one of my relationships with a Gemini (the Gemini/Leo moon/Aquarius rising
                I soon realised that I was only dating one of his personalities. One of his personalities was totally into me, while there were several others who totally wanted their freedom and had to put up with this one other personalitiy of theirs who had managed to get caught up in this dumb relationship thingy.

                As I said earlier..it was very lonely dating only a facet of a persons personality. The other ones simply wanted nothing to do with me and would quietly slip off in pursuit of their old debaucherous ways whenever I was not around.
                After we broke up, the facet of his personality that was actually dating me wrestled up some control and he was all devastated and stuff by my leaving him..but uh...those other personalities were never very far away.
            • When I first read my chart I was having a difficult time accepting it (albeit knowing it all to be so true). It's only been a "blessing" to me, though. No other could show what it is a natal chart paints -at least in the logical manner that it does.

              I've been thinking about the Gemini dual-personality thing & as to why we seem to be the least enjoyed of the Zodiac. The case is that we need our individuality... individual-duality... lol. Most people can't handle the energy that is innate in gemini. I'm a Gem sun with a Stellium in Gemini -also a sun/merc opposition to Uranus - & my nervous energy runs high. I am quite unpredictable and never quite know what to expect, myself. : p

              Aquarians are usually well apt to handle this level of oddity. Geminis are not easily reigned by a relationship but it seems that those who best understands Gem will see a more true nature of the twins. And yet, it's hard to achieve balance through an ultimatly oscillating mind.

              It all really comes down to accepting this percieved "lack of balance". I think Gemini is on a quest to feel whole or to become more than we really can be as a human being.


              • Well, they say it's all about the journey; not the destination.
                We all have things to struggle with.
                • It's not a struggle -- our natural tendancies are simply innate behaviour that works beyond our conscious awareness. But of course, there would be a struggle if we were to be opposed to our way of life (or if it were detrimental to goals & ambitions).

                  I apologise if I have created some sort of confusion.
                  • This is the maximum depth. Additional responses will not be threaded.
                    Thats one thing about my Gemini friends..they find no fault in themselves for their assorted difficult-to-deal-with traits

                    ..I tend to be more on the self-deprecating side...but as far as my Gemini roommate/ex is concerned...any problem any of us might have with him is OUR problem...he even has a song entitled "Just Because You're Wrong Doesn't Make Me An Asshole"..when ironicly he very often is wrong and we might often think he can be one..based mostly on his tendancy towards arrogant know-it-all-ness.
                    • he also has a natal Leo moon. ; )

                      Personally I haven't been able to generalise by sun sign so much as to take the whole individual personality into account...

                      But if you want to go that route I hear Leos can be a bit egotistical ?

                      I am finding you to be contradictive and somewhat non-objective

                      I suppose that's an inevitable manifestation of romantic relationships. Actually I also dated a guy who was inable to accept/recognise his own shortcomings... it was extremely frustrating and I quickly found him to be inept to reason with. Hah... he's a triple Aquarius - sun & moon in 12th house and 2 stelliums, scorpio & capricorn. Fun!

                      I'd like to note that seeing a situation from both sides is a common geminian trait. It's unfortunate Mr. Gem was lacking in this area : /
                      • I was not saying Gemini's in general..just the ones I know...mainly the one I was talking about...I was trying to infer that the guy does not have a self-esteem problem, and any time you bring up an issue that you have with him, he will twist it around to center the blame on us...That is just what he does...but perhaps that has nothing to do with the fact that he is a Gemini.
                        Not all Geminis do that and not all Leos are egotistical...some of them have self-esteem problems...as i am sure some Geminis do.

                        I am a Leo sun...AND a Gemini rising...

                        Why don't you go start a thread about Leos in your Gemini tribe?
              • I totally agree with you...it seems like the duality makes us feel off balanced and we need something to glue them together and make us whole. My best realtionship was with a Libra, he totally understood me and with him I found that balance. It was amazing...too bad that the timing was off and I became fickel...that Gemini trait that the grass is always greener on the other side, but once you get there you relaize that there is a drought and your previous grass was prime quality St. Augustine sod.
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    Ok, Something I can relate to!

    My two previous ex-whatevers were Gemini. I am naturally drawn to the duality. I do see where the overall frustration with them is. They are EX after all!
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      I have REALLY enjoyed reading this thread! I have to say that anytime I meet someone who is a Gemini I almost always pick up on it and ask them what their sign is (which I don't usually make a habit of cuz it's cheesy). The I run for the hills! I'm a sun Leo, moon Leo, Pisces rising with Mercury, Venus, and Mars in Virgo.

      My sister is a Gemini and crazy doesn't even begin to describe her. I think borderline personality disorder might be more appropo. She can be the most fun person to hang out with, chatty, interesting, funny, but then (as you all know) comes the "other side" , cutting, self absorbed, lying, warped veiw of herself and the world with no actual understanding of cause and effect (which you'd thin the wholw duality thing would take care of, right? My ex-boyfriend is a Gemini. When I was 15 and he was 19, I was flattered tha an "older man" showed me attention. When we were 25 and he was still showing that attention to teenage girls, that's when we stopped being friends and having contact. On to my future sister and law, a sweet, caring, selfless hippie - until she feels threatened in anyway which is when she turns into an anorexic, no foundation in reality, lying, screaming, freak job.

      In fact 2 of the 3 people I've described have eating disorders, is this usual?

      It's the inconsistancy that I can't deal with. I want to be constantly admired (kidding - kind of!).
      • The gemini that I keep referring back to..I dated him when we were both 23..Now we are both 30 and still friends..and he still has his eye on the 19-20 year olds..I think it is just a guy thing maybe...I have known plenty guys to be that way. I imagine he will keep getting older, but wil not concider any girl to be too young for him...peter pan syndrome or something.

        I have never noticed eating disorders among my Gemini compatriots..unless counting that my dad is a Gemini and he eats waaay too much.
        My roommie must have everything so spicy that you can hardly taste it without your tounge dissolving..but no bulemia/snorexia that I know of among the Geminis I know...just a tendancy towards heavy drinking=crazy personality change.
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        I enjoy food, not over indulgence, unless depressed and upset, but either way, it has to be GOOD food. I see nothing wrong with using butter instead of margarine, real cream in coffee, and rich cheeses. Is this a Leo trait? I'm not grotesquely overweight, because of this, I know some Leo's have a tendancy toward over indulgence. With Gemini's I've noticed it's easier for them to fast and not eat for up to 3 days...I can't imagine doing that. Screw that, I just eat less, and exercise if I'm insecure about weight, but 5 pounds? no biggy, but to a Gemini, OMG! it's the end of the world, never have known a gemini to purge, but known them to be anorexic, even the men.
      • I think borderline personality disorder might be more appropo. <--this is also so true, many geminis could probably be on meds if they got diagnosed, but it's not becuase they need to be medicated for real, it's just their being.

        The thing about the wreckless driving is dead on....I'm on my 4th car and I can't even park right...I think it's cause we can't focus.

        We are also very colorful on minute and very dark the next....Gemini is definitely not a sign to be reckoned with.
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    I'm a Gemini with Leo Rising. I can definitely see Leo's the same way Poopy see's Gemini's. I definitely see the strongest part of their egos, whether positive or negative. I believe that's because their sun is usually in my 1st house. Look at part of this article for instance:

    Sun 1st house
    The Sun in partner's first house suggests mutual goals and desires for self-expression. A first house Sun often shows a good deal of physical attraction. In some cases, however, it can also show competition and ego conflicts, as it tends to stimulate the spirit of competitiveness. Romantic and marital relationships with this placement are usually founded on strong mutual attractions and the physical compatibility present.

    I've also noticed that I usually have very strong feelings, whether positive or negative, towards Leo's. Being able to see things pretty objectively, thanks to my Aquarius Moon, I've noticed I feel that way because we are so much alike. My asc ruler is in Gemini so I definitely have the qualities of Gemini, and we know exactly what we're doing when I MUST have the last word, or at least I do. It's subconscious, but not unconscious. When I first started learning astrology, I know I missed out on knowing so many cool people because I judged them based on their sun sign. Maybe it was that "intellectual" arrogance showing up. I've now learned that people can generally have the same annoying traits, but it's all what you make of it. We really do attract the people that we meet to ourselves. This is random, but my dad has Saturn in Libra rising. You would think he was a "Justice" fanatic...always trying to be fair and equal. Well, he is...and he always seems to attract people that try to get over on him. He's even said, "why do I always attract the people that try to treat me unfairly". I told him, it's because of who he is. Let's all look at ourselves and see why we feel the way we do about others, and see what we might be doing to bring them in our lives. Cheers!
  • I have been dating a Gemini male since last November. I am a Scorpio woman and I have to say that is THE most difficult relationship I have ever had in my entire life. The man drives me to complete distraction and to say I have had the urge to "throw in the towel" or just bury him really is now into triple figures. However, besides the fact he is a self righteous narcistic arse, he is incredible and I love him very very much. We both have Leo rising so thats interesting. Its very very hard work, but I guess if you want something badly enough...........
    Love Mary
  • Well, I am a gemini. My mom , uncle, son and dog are also geminis. I have gemini friends, etc. i have a leo rising and a pisces moon. (thank god). I am engaged to a leo man. I do have 2 people in me and I know I am hard to follow for many people. but i am a pretty gentle gemini. My mother is an extreme gemini. She is the most controlling and bossy person I know. i have trouble with gemini women a lot of the time. They make it all about themselves, take over.
    The thing I like about geminis is that we are often pretty funny people. We like to entertain. We also can make people feel like we understand them deeply and therefore help people talk about their issues. We have a hard time making up our mind about certain things cause we see all sides of things.
    Good luck with us GEMINIS! You might need it.
    On the other hand, leos need to be reasured constantly but then they tell you they know that they are GREAT. Such sweeties though!
  • I have just started dating another Gemini. This is the 3rd one. I have never really had a problem with the ego or the having to be right thingy... maybe I'm just getting lucky! Everyone one I have dated has been energetic, funny, fun, thoughtful, kind, easy to get along with.... both previous relationships just kinda slowly faded out....
    • I might have replied to the wrong post here. Not sure.

      I just have to express something. I am a Gemini female with Leo Moon and Leo Ascendant. I think the Leo translates itself into image for me, I take pride in my image and in the cleanliness of my home, things like that.

      Recently, in the past three months I met a Leo male. I am helplessly and completely in love with him. It's a long distance relationship however. We were both involved in the beginning with other people, and it was an affair. Now I have left a Scorpio because Leo has shown me the warmth and accepting nature when given things that Scorpio could not (Scorpio constantly questions motives). I've made my decision, because I couldn't separate my feelings for the two men, and even if I am not in a real relationship with Leo at least I'm not in the negative and oppressive presence of Scorpio, which I had been for 6 years! That's a long time to be oppressed. But I always think the Leo in me tried so hard to be the perfect wife, the perfect mother, and in the end it was never good enough.

      Back on topic, the one thing I as Gemini keep doing wrong is to doubt the Leo man. He doesn't always tell me how he feels about me and our time is no doubt limited as far as communication. I feel like I am on the giving end and never the receiver. But this man is so interesting and wonderful in my eyes that I feel I could give forever. I want to quit him and say "I am better than this, I will not help you cheat on your partner" but in reality I just can't quit because I'm obsessed. Gemini can be very devoted in love when she or he has found the right person, but in this case I must be blinded or something. I have never been this infatuated with any man, even when I felt I was it wasn't this strong and it didn't last this long. Every day feels more intense and when I think things have cooled down something ignites the flame again.

      Can anyone give me any pointers? Like I said the only thing I do wrong is doubt him and his affections for me. Which I just can't seem to stop doing.
      • We Leos can cast quite an enchantement, and it sounds like you're entranced by his.

        The most telling point I find in your tale is the cheating element. If ever he decides to leave the woman he's with and be with you, well.....one of my aunts who finally divorced a cheating husband after 17 years of marriage, who had left a marriage to be with my aunt, said "I don't know why I didn't see it coming. When a man marries his mistress, he creates a job opening. "

        Be careful and good luck.
        • I don't expect him to leave his girlfriend. And I didn't leave my husband just because of this Leo, it had a lot to do with verbal and emotional abuse that I honestly couldn't take before, but meeting a Leo really showed me that there are better men out there! I expect in the future to find another man, but at the moment I'm in love with this one. The cheating on his part has me curious, I have to admit, because I have read that it's easy for a Leo man to be adulterous when he's not getting enough love and attention, but I don't understand where the Leonine pride fits into that. Wouldn't a Leo man feel that he is not respectable when he's doing that? This isn't something I even want to try to ask him.

          Also, I've said my Sun is Gemini, Moon and Ascendant are Leo, his Sun and Ascendant are Leo, Moon in Gemini. Also his Venus is Virgo and my Venus is Cancer. Not that any of that matters, but I've been trying to figure out 'Why him?' for a while now and those peices seem to fit together well.

          I have met other Leos and never been interested in one, not like this. I agree with something someone here said in another post, fall in love first then look into the astrology.
          • And by the way, I would stay away from Gemini Males, ladies. Seriously, I have been burned by one before that I didn't even love, he embarrassed me so badly when I disrespected him just a little. Gemini and testosterone don't seem to mix because Gemini can be so cutting and cruel with words.

            So if you do date a Gemini male, do not let him know anything about you that he could later use against you. Even I collect information in case of emergencies! Geez!
            • Gemini sun here. New to this tribe. I think my fellow Geminis are very moody. But I'm extra moody cuz I have Scorpio moon!@
              • My boyfriend is a gemini sun, aquarius moon, and taurus rising. I am a leo sun, leo moon, and capricorn rising. We have alot of fun together, and I love him very much. One thing I must say, though, is that our relationship is at times not stable. Things are either very good and happy, or frustrating, and irritating. It sucks, but we both agree the underlying fact is that we love eachother and thats all that matters. I think it is just a matter of learning eachothers moods and how to deal with them. We are working it.
                • Hey, i'm gemini sun and i have to agree that we're a strange breed. I hate how indecisive i am too, it drives ME crazy let alone others, and it's true that i'm pretty incapable of doing something by myself, i always need reassurance, which is another annoying thing about me i guess :D . I also hate the fact i'm like 2 people in one body, i prefer the funner child like side to me, to the moody person. But i don't get that moody...my brother is a taurus, and when he's worked up, he really goes for it! I can't stand people that shout instead of talk, it's just pointless, (stupid bull lol).

                  But what i like about myself is also what i dislike about myself, my split personality (if you'd call it that) means i can see most things from two points of view which makes me more understanding(on the downside, very fickle), and my playfulness and jokiness is usually fun to be around. And i'm actually not very talkative for a gemini, i know when to shut up. In fact i like to be quiet... whilst still getting attention at the same time (lol).

                  There's a cute leo guy i've got a crush on, and i'm pretty annoyed he's with a leo girl, i've read that leos are very loyal, so they prob won't break up anytime soon...which is irritating...because he's oh-so-cute and funny...oh well, i shall have to bide my time...actually i'll probably have got tired of him and moved on by then knowing me.
      • ohmigoodness Gemini, welcome to the club...we're in the same bind. That's 100% how I feel, I jsut need to get him to make me feel like all the giving has not been in vain and until now ...nothing...I'm air that's starting to feel spent.
  • oooooooooooohhh
    Do I EVER HEAR THAT!
    There is a Gemini who is pretty much going to come between my man and I because they are roomates, and he HATES Leos.
    grrrrrrrr
    They are friggin insane.
    • what I hate about Gemini's. Everything.

      My ex girlfiend a gemini left me hurt and a sarced. I call it mental abusive. They can be very superficial and cunning. They are good fakers too. They can easily destroy and tear your heart in shreds without feeling any of it until later. I don't take anything kind they say to heart nor their mimic intelligence. They are good emotion readers. I question every good deed they do because i think it's for their own benefit.
      • Wow. That one left you very bitter. I'm so sorry someone was so hurtful to you!

        I can say, though, that thankfully not ALL gemini are quite that cruel. One of my dearest friends in the world is a gemini, and she's very real, very warm, very loving, and very truthful. She has all those gemini attributes of reading emotion and adapting to situations, but she "uses her powers for good, not evil".

        It's so awful when individuals make the worst of their traits, and it sounds like the one that was in your life did just that. It's very painful to put your trust in someone only to find they don't value it,or you, as they should. I wish a great deal better for you in the future.
        • The title of this thread made me cringe slightly, as I am a Leo with Gemini Rising...

          I have a few close friends who are Gemini and I love them dearly. I appreciate what one had to say that Gemini can mean a balance that is not necessarily so good and bad... Physical and Spiritual seems to be my lesson in balance this lifetime, and that has been my Gemini experience...

          There is a lot to learn from a sign that is based on duality when we are living in such a dualistic world....Everything can be countered with it's opposite, and even though I believe ulitmately we are all here to transcend duality, part of this journey is learning the balance within it...

          So, I hope there aren't too many Leos tainted by Gemini bi-polar attributes, because as far as I can see we are all living with our shadows, regardless of what the stars say...

          Blessings to All...and if you're a Gemini rising like me, don't worry cuz you just have the best of both worlds...just don't let the shadow creep in...but that goes for everyone!

          (-=


          • I think it's way more complicated than that. My gemini ex girl friend had a capricorn father and didn't have a good relationship throughout her childhood. til this day shes doubtful and lost. Sometimes I feel like a lab rat being tested and used because they are so fickle. I don't like partiality or airheads.
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    Me thinks the leos doth protest too much ...

    While I think much of the Gemini criticism stated here is true, much of the same applies to us! My partner, as well as many of my closest friends are Geminis. I find them to be among the most creative, sexy, crazy and lovable creatures on earth.
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    could,nt disagree with u more sonny. sorry....but i adore gemini,s. thier fun,smart & active imagination very much comes in handy somtimes. hey why hate we all have r not so great side. i do & am sure the rest of us do as well.
  • *Sneaks in slowly* I can't stand gemini's! Although I love one side of them, the other side, (as previously stated by other members) freaks the living shit out of me. I often find it very hard to trust a few gemini's i associate myself with. A few of my good friends happen to be gemini's, that might be because my ascendant is gemini. I do find gemini's to be great communicators, that is very true of their sign and I find it very easy to express myself with them, although the faces the make scare me so much I don't know weither to wrong or hide, or stay and keep up with their fluctuating eyebrow twitching, and wide eyed exploration of everything around them. I once, was in a car, with three gemini's and myself, the conversation most have fluctuated about 30 times in a matter of ten minutes, I often find their flightyness irritating, makes me feel as if they dont think very deeply about anything, which can be rather annoying. And why is it my gemini friend lies to me when she KNOWS I KNOW SHES LYING? I have pointed it out to her on a number of occasions, but she will lie about the same thing the next day. I find gemini's to be rather neurotic.
  • I have to agree with poopy, the first comment in this tribe. Gemini's are great on personal one on one interactions, than they are completely different towards you in public. Although it doesnt bother me that they dont pay attention to me, that may be my gemini ascendant and my constant need for new people in public situations. It's just irritating that they dont appreciate you the same way they did before other people were around, its as if you just started to smell really bad, and the gemini's got this distaste in their mouth about you, and would rather ignore you for the rest of the night, than act as if they know you. I HATE IT!
    • That's funny! Yeah, Geminis are strange. Some of that flightiness I think is due to the fact that their mind moves so swiftly about stuff and they try to juggle too many things. I read somewhere once that it's best if they delegate. Honestly, i don't mind the changing in subjects every couple of minutes. Must be my Sag Sun side..we do the same thing. It's the perfect way to keep a conversation with a Sag guy going, especially. Just keep changing subjects.
      Some Gemini guys, I'm discovering are kind of sexy. They have those fuller lips and vulnerable, amiable personalities. Johnny Depp's a Gem. And what a Gem he is.
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    I don't hate Gemini's either. It all depends on their natal chart. If they have water and fire in their natal chart then that seems to balance them out. It grounds them and makes them more sensitive.
  • Liz
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    ...oh God, where should I begin??? I am actually amused that so many people have responded to this thread (I'm obviously not the only one miffed by Gemini's). The mood swings is definitely something I've experienced with my Gemini, one moment laughing and having fun, then the next he walks off all distant and detached, and I'm sitting here wondering "WTF? did I say something?" and of course ask the question that pisses them off the most "Is everything okay?"..."yeah, why do you ask? I'm fine" ::crosses arms and puffs up:: Obviously something is wrong, then the Leo gets upset, and just like a house cat, will rise stretch, shoot a neutral glance and walk off with tail straight in the air to go lounge elsewhere. Then the Gemini gets more pissy, "why are you leaving?"....AAARRGGHHH! When out in public with friends, you could be a couple and no one would know unless told, why? because they'd rather socialize alone, and true, you are left sitting there quiet and lonely (I said this somewhere else, and I hold it true, unless you are a giant puzzle with flashing color lights that change every minute Gemini is easily distracted and the biggest flirt, Leo's know what they are doing most of the time when there is flirting involved, unless alcohol is involved...even then, Gemini just isn't suave about it, like us) anyway, I feel your pain Sonny, been there done that and a little frustrated with my Gemini at the moment! ....just my two cents ::ears pinned back::
  • joe
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    Im a Full blown gemini, with a dragon chinese zodiac background, im not an expert on these things but from what i consider, I just dont get it, i can honestly say i dont understand geminis, im with a gemini for about 2 years now and she is currently 8 months pregnant, but i dont get us anymore, it goes so good, from the telling of "i love you" and all the nicest little things in the world like for example, a sticky note on the mirror saying "i love you" to about 2 days later, her telling me she hates me? so all my intentions and attempts to make things better, i feel, didnt mean anything, like im not lying when i tell her them things..but idk. I practacly gave up my family already because they didnt think she was the right girl for me BUT it was my decision because only i knew how she really was. I am a leo i wll admit i can be persistant but from all that i do and tell her, and i expect like alittle of the same back but i feel like i always get shot down for my attempts, along with the sarcasm and argumentive things over something she was fine with 15 minuites before she started yellin about the same thing. I hope i dont sound crazy tipeing these things, im not like complaning about how much it sux...it does suck, but im writing this because i just dont understand what im doing wrong. even when im not around. is it they way they are or, because when she isnt like this which usually lasts about 2-3 days then its back to so much negativity, its so great and there is so much love, then it just hits a bunk nothing.....any ideas...?
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    LMAO, Hate Us or Love us, Geminis are by far the most complex and interesting sign of them all. They say scorpios are deep but I'd actually say geminis can be as deep and intense as they want to be, but some just choose to skim the surface of things because it would be more "fun". I love being gemini and we're the smartest, yet probably most misunderstood sign. But sonny, I have one question... Do you people actually think just because you're born on a certain period of time, that you deserve attention and affection?? It's not about your zodiac sign that shows you're a good person or worthy of affection. It's who you are as a person.
    No offense but that's just retarded...
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    Geminis are really fun to hang out with,they know all the cool places in town,they're witty,with a great sense of humor,and they're not strangers to compromise and tolerance,either,but emotionally speaking,they're close to empty-to them,there is no "falling in love",there's only "feeling entertained"
    • We do fall in love, it's just that we are very emotional and sensitive...possibly even more so than a Leo, plus we are very needy, that's why we sometimes seem clingy, remember that you're trying to love two people. If you get them though, you've got attention and love two fold for life. We're just not easy to open up - we don't trust easily...that's why the loyal lion easily wins our heart.
  • Gemini's have a huge sense of their surroundings, timing, opportunities, and the moods of other people. They are mutable, therefore it is simply their nature to mutate according to the forces seen and unseen. Those who don't understand that will think that the Gemini is simply changing for no reason. But what often happens is that Gemini will give you back what you give them. I am a real Gemini with a Cancer rising. I am highly intuitive and intelligent I know when people are bullshiting and when their spirit is different, and I can't help but change to protect or reject what is coming at me.

    However, I wake up every morning in a happy mood ready to meet the world with life and love. If you do some stupid shit, but be prepared to have it thrown back at you are completely ignored.
  • Gemini's are witty, and funny and smart.

    What I dont like about them is that they dont think before they say or do things,
    and can be very emotionally cold.

    And EVERY Gemini I have known, has been a shit distuber.

    They like to gossip, or create problems.

    And they are always clueless after they destroy people's lives or friendships, that they've even done
    anything wrong at all.

    They always turn everything around to it being the other persons fault.
    • Oh and more thing, a Gemini story~

      My daughters friends Father is a Gemini.

      He decided he wanted to move his daughter and her 2 sisters a couple of cities away this year
      after she's spent most of her life living in our town, already had her friends for years, etc.

      Anyway, they had a cat for a number of years and because they were moving I guess he wanted to
      get rid of the cat. (Even though he bought the house they were going to live in).

      His exact words to his daughter~ "Oh, I dont want him anymore".

      Subsequently (and luckily for the cat), the cat went to his mothers house.
      • Sorry for this long vent......

        OMG!!!!! It's almost like a higher being guided me to this tribe. I am a taurus sun, libra moon, and leo rising!!! My moon sign is what is the most prominent in my personality, which means I value fairness very much. My moon is conjunct pluto which makes me very intuitive/sensitive to my surroundings.

        In saying that I've had some serious difficulties with my boyfriend's mother and sister, mainly his sister. Ever since i came into the picture 7 years ago i've had to deal with their crap. like i said im a libra moon so I wanted so badly for us to get along ( I was also a teenager in the beginning. so i wanted to fit in and be liked-i guess that was the insecure leo in me also:) I admire beauty and, to me, my boyfriend's sister was very pretty. she is almost 7 years older than me. so as a teenager I had such admiration for her style and so-called "confidence."

        Right off i noticed her bitchyness and fun-loving nature all-in one. Of, course the bitch in her geared toward me. Whenever I came around, she appeared cold, aloof, cruel. And, whenever my boyfriend said he was going out with me she would tell him that "family is more important and "she doesn't care for you like we do". After my boyfriend and I had been together for about 4 years I decided to ask her straight up how she felt about me. She said "You come to our house to much," “You followed my brother to the same college and I would never do something like that," "you put our family's last name as your last name, but you're not a part of this family"...blah, blah, blah...What child helped her with those petty excuses!!!!!!....the leo in me was so hurt and that was her evil goal. I wanted to curse her out so badly but my libra moon just wouldn't let me. So I held it in-something I think is very bad for a leo to do. The taurus in me held a grudge like nothing. But I still tried to be kind ‘cause deep down my gut feelings said she was unhappy. I now know still being kind to her made me an easy target.

        Weirdly several weeks later, I get an e-mail from her that was very light and sweet. I was very cautious about it but glad she was coming around. I noticed her guy friend was taking her out more and she was nice, then just as quickly as he was there he was gone again. I noticed she was no longer smiling when I came around and she stayed closed in her room for hours. Then my boyfriend brings me to their church. Again, his sister is back to her old ways. His sister's intrusion and manipulation caused many arguments in our relationship.

        I started to get very interested in psychology and astrology, started learning that there was more to a person than just their sun sign. She was a sagittarius. But I knew she HAD to be more than that. I had to find what it was. I called her mom as though I was very interested to know about the births of her 2 children. She was more than glad to share her labor and delivery experience and their exact birth times with me even though I "felt" and knew she herself wished I weren't in her baby boy's life (but that's another story). There it was: His sister was a Gemini Ascendant, moon in capricorn, and venus in scorpio. Everything all made since. The Gemini in her made her changeable/moody/superficial. She is also almost thirty now/still living with her parents, and I've read in astrology that some Gemini's have a problem leaving the nest. The capricorn made her depressive/moody when her life wasn't the way she wanted. The scorpio made her jealous, manipulative, and posssesive with her loved ones.

        For the first six years my life was very much on track, then i just had some setbacks this past year. After my setbacks, here comes my boyfriend's sister sending me get well cards and buying me gifts. Then my life gets back on track: I get pregnant, me and her brother move in together, and there's talk about marriage. Note: She's been off and on with a guy for 5 years. There's no talk about marriage, she' close to 30, he's close to forty, all her friends are married with children, and her little brother has already started a family of his own. She’s back with her old "split personality" ways again. I'm fed up now. I finally told her off. No more Mrs. Nice Libra. f**k that "kill em with kindness" crap. I feel so much better now. I know she'll calm down again, feel sorry about her actions, be nice, then start the cycle all over again. I told her to just stay away because there are too many ppl in one of her for me to deal with. I told her that;s probably why the guy is afraid to commit to her. He doesn’t know who he’s committing to…

        Again, Sorry this is so long, but I'm fired up.....
  • you know....I do feel everything that is being said about Geminis.....they are very INCONSISTENT...and I cannot deal with that....very cunning and manipulative.....I feel like I can never quite trust them....mind you I am aware that Risings, Venus signs, and Moon Signs all affect behavior.....but that has generally been my experience with them......But i always fall for Geminis.....haha but I have the best of both worlds now with my Virgo husband......I get a (honest) Gemini who reallly cares and is consistent! hahaha
    • I THINK: sometimes Gemini's, (and maybe other signs as well) may annoy us, or we annoy them because there are ALWAYS traits in another sign that we carry as well. We sometimes hate to see our ugly selves in others. For instance I believe Gemini's have Leo in the 3rd house (Gemini) and Leo in the 4th house (Cancer). I believe Leos have Scorpio in the 4th house (Cancer) and Cancer in the 12th house (Pisces). Cancers have Scorpio in the 5th house (Leo) and Gemini in the 12th house (Pisces). Scorpios have Pisces in the 5th house (LEO) and Gemini in the 8th house (Scorpio)

      I have this book called "Sex Signs" by Judith Bennett. She gives detailed info about each sign.

      Example:

      GEMINI: "She has a way of knowing much about people she is involved with, though she seldom allows herself such luxuries of vulnerability...Gossip is often her stock and trade...She doesn't have a true understanding of her emotions. Frustration and anger get in her way too often..ON A RARE DAY, she may pour her heart out about her emotional instability....She feels shattered when someone yells at her and will dissolve to the floor when harshly criticized...She wants things to be light and moving...she is entertaining, outgoing, youthful, and dramatic in her self-expression...She wants a man who will praise her for her sexiness.

      LEO: "With Leos natural acting talent and propensity to dominate a scene, she may play at life. When things go wrong, her need to dramatize MAY turn to pomposity, boasting, or petty lies to bolter a sagging ego...if her ego has been recently bruised, she may overeat, overdrink or grow lax...She is USUALLY GENEROUS, GIFTED and GAY, romantic, popular, outgoing, gullible...The leo woman needs a man who can flow with her desire to be center stage..she MAY also have a talent for emotional discord. She is often PETTY, full of GOSSIP, and complacent, and she may turn VINDICTIVE. Leo.. is acutely aware of the nuances of human behavior, intuitively perceptive, measures words and honesty to the occasion...Intrigued by people and their motives, she applies what she learns with varying degrees of wisdom... "

      CANCER: "She is intuitive...She has very thin skin and is often hurt by and unintended slight...She has a long memory...She is apt to file for future reference a careless remark Ms. GEMINI tosses off. Ten, years later, when GEMINI comes to visit, she is likely to find Ms. cancer cool and bitchy, and Gemini will never know why. Since she is subjective, she takes almost everything, personally. If she feels her home of family has been betrayed..she retaliates. She can be extremely vengeful...The Cancer woman (crab) needs a layer of defenses to cover her soft, tender, vulnerable side. She has a sensitive ego."

      SCORPIO: "Vindictive-if anyone crosses her, her intensity turns into revenge/petty intrigue. She must learn to cope with her repressed emotions. When she blows up, she can go to shattering extremes to blow off steam...she is psychic..misses little of what goes on. Arrogant: she can be a bitch who runs roughshod or a condescending amateur who pretends to know more than the specialists...She goes straight for the jugular...She becomes fanatically self-protective/secretive...She is a grudge bearer; don't let her secrecy and outward demeanor deceive you."

      PISCES: In a nutshell "Easily hurt, intuitive, psychic, elusive, gullible, low self-esteem"


      See the resemblance/connections......Look closely. I could go on and on till I get to each sign, but I think you get the picture...
  • Hi I am a gemini.. But I really Really enjoy Leo's great energy and positive vibes! I think Leos are really cool cus' they have that great flair that I as a Gemini wish I had more of! To be honest I think Leos are the best ever!
    • " I really Really enjoy Leo's great energy and positive vibes! I think Leos are really cool cus' they have that great flair that I as a Gemini wish I had more of! To be honest I think Leos are the best ever!"

      Awww, how sweet. I like the Gemini's who don't try to TAKE AWAY/IGNORE/ BELITTLE "leo's great energy and positive vibes!" but rather acknowledge and appreciate them, which is what some Gemini's I know do.
  • Some of my good friends are Geminis, and while no two are alike, I appreciate the ones who are devilish a bit more just because they can take what they dish and give it back ten-fold. I understand that I am probably in the minority but while I will admit that their banter and wit does really, truly hurt sometimes (man, do you have to have pretty thick skin to play with them) I often find myself envious of how effortlessly it comes to them.

    If you want a terrific example of a Gemini:

    Gregory House, title character of the show House MD (he shares the same birthday with the actor who plays him). He's brilliant (as all Gemini I've met are) but he is sarcastic, cynical and coldly rational and he will not hesitate to humiliate and mock you even when you're on your death bed!

    And while the Gemini's have a few other questionable people among them - the Marquis de Sade and Joseph Guillotine were also Geminis - they also have the likes of Che Guevara, Queen Victoria, and John F. Kennedy among them as well.

    And let's not forget the drop-dead gorgeous Angeline Jolie is a Gemini and so are uber-hunks Colin Farrell and Johnny Depp.

    So here's hoping that those of you who haven't dated or been acquainted with a Gemini get one of the "good" ones if snark (albeit intelligent snark) isn't for you.
  • OMG....I am drove nuts with my Gemini man...I'm Leo!! 4 years of total caos!! He makes me so confused. For example: Just this morning we had a fight over his spending habits, his inability of telling the truth, he is unstable, scatterbrain, can never stick to one thing...Loves to talk, just for the sake of talking! I told him to leave and leave me alone if he couldn't respect me and the fact that I feel the need for a stable life. I hate being lied to! Stupid lies! I asked him what he wants from me? what are his intensions? no sign of settling down! He replied, I don't want that deep stuff right now! So I told him that was fine...to just leave me alone! I will find what I need! So he left, and 40 mins later he phoned! I said WHAT?? He said I don't want to fight, I love you, I really do!! This is a common occurance in our relationship!! He always sweet talks his way back! Is it because I'm a Leo and I love the attension? I always seem to forgive, but then I get a little bitter inside!! I always want to settle the score, and he just wants to let it slide, like it never happened! That drives me nuts!! I'm a typical leo..but he somehow makes me look at life in a deeper(not shallow) way! I have to! He is very shallow! We leos are known to be a bit shallow at times, but he is beyond!! I told him that he thinks he is in control, because I allow him to think that way!! And that he doesn't understand when I think that I had enough, it will be over, JUST LIKE THAT!!! And that I am obviously getting something out of this, if I wasn't, I wouldn't allow him to call me back! He likes mental stimulation...He loves getting a rise out of me! But what he don't comprehend is that, life is not all fun and games with me! I am very forgiving but, I never forget! And I harbour everything until I just can't anymore! Just a little advice for you Gem's who really love your leo's...We can be really great together, but don't ever take us for granted, and don't underestimate us because we are forgiving and honest! In an instant, it could be OVER! Respect is everything!! don't make a fool out of us!! You guys really think your smart..... and I don't doubt that for one minute! But what you should understand about us leo's we are fixed people, we don't change as much as you guys do! We secretly command and then conquer...Our motives are a little different than yours! We don't like to loose at any cost! I always used to wonder what made me tick...why I am the way I am! I am a true leo! Stuborn as they come! We are fighters! One fault I can personally say for myself is that, I tend to fight for stuff that leads me no where...And then I wonder what I was fighting for? That's just the leo in me I suppose! So when you Gem's catch the attention of us leo's, thread carefully! We might be just as unrealiable as you guys!! But in an honest and loyal sort of way!! Make sence?? I hope so!!
  • I really, really tried NOT to respond to this post..but I SWEAR I tried to talk to a Gemini....FREAK OF NATURE!!!!!

    In the space of 20 minutes his entire disposition, attitude, and mood changed...and then I was on the receiving end of it.....and we'd only met a few days ago!! I'm a fish...so you know what I did...I swam the f*ck away!! quickly! I felt like his entire energy was insane!! A whirlpool of issues..

    Pisces have issues to..but Gemini's...?? WOW...
  • My son is a Gemini, and he is very sweet, kind, intelligent, talented, loving, and funny. But my brain goes utterly numb when I am around him because he talks so much and so quickly that I cannot process one thing he says before he is off to the next several things that I have no time to process. I always dread when he asks me if I have seen a certain movie or read a certain book because I know when I say that have not, I am going to be getting a verbatim account of all the action and every bit of dialogue from start to finish, and I will not be able to divert him from his mission of recapitulation, which he does for my benefit and amusement. I love him dearly, but he drives me nuts.
  • you know I have a ..guy..boy,..man\-child hell im not real sure what to call him.,..but we have dated off and on for 7 years now i took his virginity, LOL sorry way too much information. well the relationship was based on sex and then we decided to date, and then not then booty calls which we were ecspecially BOTH fine with :)...then recently he came back out of NOWWHERE I mean like I had been a good like 6 months since I had even spoke to him..He came and seen me outta frekin nowwhere,..and well we started messing around again....and then this time we got kinda serious like dating wise, like I was seeing him every single night and he'd wanna come over every night,...god I was so happy.,,anywho i was in a relationship messing with this gemini man and to sum it up it up went to jail over him because I confussed to my partner ( I was with) that I was in love with this gemini (MAN CHILD),..he then proceeded to rape me , bind me until we fought and i went to jail,..crazy well sigh I seen him once more than he didnt even talk to me for a month and I messaged him on mypsace and the cycle started again,..but this time he prewarned me that he was NOTLOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP ,..this made me UPSET...but I proceeded to continue with the relationship because I had become so attatched to him,that I was in denial about the whole thing and toldmyself he would come around..thenone night he ended things out of nowhere when I asked him what we were because I was so utterly confussed..he just asked me "can we end this already?'"..and he did but in a sick way I understood,..so another month and a half goes by I was so heartbroken and torn but I knew it was best not to message him,..and try andmove on or wait for him to see if he came around I couldnt move on I tried so hard but I didnt want to even touch or think about anyone except him it was sick...anywayz a month goes by and AGAIN OUT OF NOWHERE he MESSAGES ME - he comes over drunk (yes you guessed it he has a horriable drinking problem and hes only 21) I knew he wanted to have sex and I was fine with this and told myself this is all i wanted out of this and to not put my heart into it again because I was trying to understand him,.soooo.... he tells me he loves me and he'd do anything in the world for me WHOA MAN IVE KNOW well I know whatmost of you are saying OKay he was drunk a drunk man says anything to a women when hes drunk,..um nowive known this man for 7 years and he'd never said anything of the sort like this to me EVER,..the rest of the night was magical we showered and played together..for the rest of the night it was an awesome night. Now I know he said this drunk to me but I cant tell you how many times I have been with him while he's been beyond drunk.... I couldnt even say this, for I do love him more than words can EVER describe. We really cant leave eachother alone,..and Im not real sure what to do because I dont want to be in a relationship either but I am scared of a monotnious relationship but I do want to be in one with him, but then again scared to bore him. I am hoping someone can help me because ALL of my life, Ive been surrounded literally sourrounded by air signs, its all that I know. My son is a gemini, My sons father is a libra, my mom's a libra,my father's a libra, my best friend is an aquarius and my male best friend is a libra,...its just crazy I connect with them on so many levels and can have very deep conversations but only with air signs its absolutely insane, ...understand them I breathe them,..god I can smell one from a mile away its quite ridiculous.,..yeah im a taurus sorry LOL,..my sign has to be somewhere,..somewhere ,..can anyone give me advice Im trying to give him his space but now he wont even talk to me he tried commin back over like twice failed...then called me drunk ...fail...now he wont talk to me IS HE SCARED? im like so beyond this,man...
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    I'm going to be really upfront.

    I hate Gemini males. I've personally never known a female one so I can't judge them. But from personal experiences, there is nothing anyone can tell me to make me view Gemini males in a different light. Looking at ALL of their qualities, the bad definitely outweighs the good. In my eyes, their "good" qualities are nothing compared to the bad. I won't sit here and type out stories, but yeah...
  • My mom and cousin are Gemini women and I can't stand them there in everybody's business,think they know everything back stabbing as hell.....they come and go with you one day there for you the next against you and very very jealous controlling they want things there way...
    Things I hate...
    Selfish....
    Mean as hell...
    Nosey...
    Jealous and try to hide it....
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    I actually like Geminis for the most part - except for, like some have said earlier, they kind of freak me out with the constant, CONSTANT need for excitement and stimulation in any way, shape or form. I think it's because my chart has a lot of 'fixed' emphasis - I'm big on 'stillness' and the ability to sit around and just BE.
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      3 of my exes were Gemini's and they were the worst match for me. They just talk too much.

      If you have a mars or mercury in Gemini, I'm OUT!

      They're restless, have too much energy that is actually misplaced, it's everywhere at the same time!

      They don't understand love at all! You can be their best friend for years and they'll settle for that. very low sex drive to top it all off...

      They make great friends though! One of my best friends is a Gemini, yet she has her mercury in Leo, so it changes many things...

      Sometimes, we mix love with friendship...

      Poor Geminis... The worst part is that they're so attracted to Leos, it's not even funny... When they do finally get them, they HAVE NO CLUE how to keep them.




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        "Poor Geminis... The worst part is that they're so attracted to Leos, it's not even funny... When they do finally get them, they HAVE NO CLUE how to keep them."

        There are that few handful of Geminis that are annoying - the ones that honestly feel every other person on the planet was put here to serve as either a form of entertainment for them or a puzzle to solve or unravel. I've been told a couple times that I'm 'boring' by a few in a tone that led me to believe they expected me to be hurt and offended by that, and that I should from there on out try my damndest to stimulate, dazzle and entertain and fascinate them. That's usually when I go make a graceful, albeit abrupt and cold exit. Leo doesn't really *go* for people snapping their fingers at them and demanding a performance, or anything else.
        • I just read this Book, and I've had very similar experiences. I generally love Geminis, we share similar energies and are usually a productive pair. I appreciate a person who I can spend a lot of time around and not feel weighed down, someone who I can continually move forward with. However, their unquenchable need for CONSTANT stimulation is frustrating.

          I've been living with a Gemini for 3 years now, a girlfriend of mine, and we're at that point in our lives where we need to start addressing reality and step into the real world (look for jobs / apply to grad school, etc.) The two of us have always been the ones to encourage play and fun. We're the lighthearted adventurers and we've grown a friendship upon that label. But, recently I've been experiencing some bouts of depression and anxiety, I've had a really rough year, and I just don't have the energy to do the things we're used to doing. I have no desire to party, to go out every weekend. I can't drink anymore, it's not healthy especially in this state of mind... but she can't accept this. Instead of talking to me and offering an ear like I would hope a friend would do, she gets angry when I'm down. If I say I don't want to go out, she yells and tells me I'm perpetuating a cycle of depression. She told me the other day she didn't want to live with me after this year anymore because I've become "dull." What she doesn't realize is that, by telling me I've become dull and boring over the past few months she's simply highlighting the negativity I've been struggling to overcome. And I DO understand, from an objective standpoint, it's very easy to see a simple fix to such a state of mind - go out and have fun. Fair enough. But it's not always that easy.

          This is a pattern I've observed with Geminis. I've never met one with bad intentions, they really do just want everyone to have a good time, but sometimes you just need someone to listen and to understand. They can't relax and listen, they make you feel anxious when you don't have to energy to entertain them. Like you're a disappointment.
  • Hello, I am a gorgeous Leo woman who now really HATES the way Gemini's are - SOOOO moody and changeable...????? I have just had this guy chase me for 2 weeks, phone calls everyday and sweet as pie. 3 days ago I had to help him move his flat, despite me having an operation only a week ago - I don't even know this guy that well and am having to do all of these jobs that he delegated to me...? Then, after having worked my GUT'S out for a day, he drops me home and is rude and critical of me and I haven't heard back from him since. WTF???? I was tired as I hadn't slept much this week and did everything I could to help him and now there's just stone cold silence! I texted him yesterday and no response... I'm thinking he can go f**k himself - except that I was really falling for this man....
    • Samantha ~ Now you can't really blame him for your lack of good sense in obliging him. You could have, as I most certainly would have, just told him NO. You didn't HAVE to help him do anything, and if you had had any sense, you wouldn't have. That was YOUR bad judgment. Are you really a Leo? Because we usually don't do that sort of pick & shovel work. People do that for US, not the other way around.
      • Hello amiablehermit!
        I KNOW!!! That's why I was so FURIOUS- getting stuck packing boxes...grrrr! I kept thinking to myself, this is not the way things should be going, I'm not having fun at all, I just want to go home! But, you try saying no to a smooth talking Gemini?! Anyway, it's now been 5 days and no call, so I guess that was that...grrrrrr... He was going to help me out with my work and we have a few meetings organised, do you reckon he'll do an about change on that one to?!!! How are you by the way? x
        • I am doing pretty well, Samantha. Thanks for asking.

          Gemini is no doubt the Sun sign I have known most. I have married and divorced some; my son is a Gemini; and I have had many friends and colleagues of both genders over the years who have been Geminis. For a number of years in my life, I felt as though I were some sort of Gemini magnet. I don't know if my having Mercury as my chart ruler, a Gemini MC, and Gemini SN accounts for this, but possibly so. In any event, I have known quite a few.

          With the exception of my son, I really don't have any significant relationships with Geminis at the present time, however. I must say, though, that this is not because I have found them to be particularly fickle. Now, it could be in part because I really don't have a problem saying "no" to them, either, but then I don't think that I would have a problem saying "no" to anyone of any sign if I had been in your circumstances, regardless of how "smooth talking" or attractive the person seemed. The very idea of someone asking another person recently out of the hospital to help with a move is preposterous to me, and I probably would have had a few thousand words to have said about the mere suggestion. I must say again, though, that I think it would have been far wiser of you to have considered your own health and well-being first instead of this idiot's convenience. I also think that it says a great deal very unsavory about him that he hasn't even bothered in this period of time to pick up the phone and offer a few word of thanks, although an apology for having ever asked you to do the favor would be more in order, but thanks is the very least he should be saying, and he should have done it way before now. This, by the way, is not Gemini behavior, but jerk behavior, and those types exist in every Sun sign.

          I'd dump him like a smelly trash bag and figure I am better off. If he happens to call again, just hang up on him.
  • You know what. You can't control what sign you're born under, and the fact that you write a post expressing your hate of people because of their b'day, that's pretty stupid. I happen to be a Gemini. Sure, the stuff you say is mostly true about me, but you know, at least I can admit it. Oh, and just for a fact. I love leos. They are awesome. But, you know, they can also be arrogent, ignorent, and naggy. And just because I say one thing that you are cool, then your down sides isn't because I am two faced. Wana know what Geminis want? They want to be excepted for "all of them" (as they say) and they want a soul twin, and that's why we can be two faced. When we find someone we are our-selfs around, want how a Gemini acts. You would regret everything you said. And, that is what a Gemini is, so learn more about them, it would help!
  • I am a Gemini... but I have a stellium there, so I'm kind of quadruple Gemini, lol.
    I have Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Jupiter all conjunct!

    I think Geminis ARE hard to handle for most people. Hell, I'm hard to handle for myself sometimes. But I think people totally misunderstand Geminis and that's why they get the two-faced, annoying reputation. Our minds go fast and we often think too fast to say things clearly. It's hard to keep up with us.

    But to say that we are unemotional or bitchy or catty or have two different people isn't really correct, IMO. We just simply are very private with our thoughts. We talk a lot.. but if you notice we haven't really talked about much at all once we've finished. :) We keep our emotions very very close to our hearts and we don't like to show it.... we don't like our cards out on the table because we are scared to get hurt. The reason we seem two faced is because in our heads, we've already thought a certain way for a long time, but we haven't acted. So like if someone has been rude to me or rubbed me the wrong way or done something that I feel is unjust, I will let it go for a while. But once they do something that crosses the line, I snap. It takes a long time to push me to that point, but once I hit it, I'm gone and I get terribly mean. We Geminis can sense what people's insecurities are and we have our own form of mental intuition. We know how to wound your pride after the first couple times we've met you. It's not like we try to, but we just naturally can sense it. So once we get pushed past our limits of control, we snap. So it seems like we are crazy. No one should change their moods or snap or turn mean so quickly. Yeah.. I would probably be shocked as well, lol. Or if we are are bored or not exercising our minds enough (aka not having something new and shiny to focus on LOL) we can get nervous and we run on our nerves constantly, so we get burnt out and stressed easily.. and then it's just best not to come around for a while or to treat us with kid gloves... lol.

    Leos in particular for me tend to rub me the wrong way, unless they are evolved. Leos tend to bring out my aggressive nature simply because I interpret their behaviors as being aggressive towards me. I think interpretation is key here. Geminis love to have arguments... not because they want to piss you off, but because it's like exercise to them. It's fun, to be frank. We don't get emotionally intense into it because it's just simply that. But Leos often DO get quite emotional and we interpret that as "getting serious" so we in turn get more heated. I think Leos and Geminis are quite similar in many ways, but we don't always understand each other's behaviors because of how we react to them. When a Gemini is just teasing, a Leo takes it too seriously. When a Leo comes down on Gemini, we feel it's an attack by the way it's said. It's simply just a big misunderstanding, IMO.

    As for people who have been burned by Geminis, yeah.. we do that. Again... we think quicker and decide quicker and it takes a while for our actions and words to catch up with us. I think most of the time, we don't intentionally try to hurt people, but since we aren't good at dealing with our emotions.. especially the ones that are very powerful and deep (yes, we do feel deeply, but again it's probably the most private thing about us) we aren't really capable of or not very good at dealing with other peoples emotions. If we run away from our own... isn't it logical to run away from others? Yeah.. it's one of our biggest faults. It's rather sad for us too because we do recognize when we've done something terrible to someone else intentionally or unintentionally... we just are not good at handling feelings. So we compartmentalize them away.

    In general though, I think Leos and Geminis could be great friends if they just slowed down and explained themselves and said what they really meant to each other. :)
  • First things first I'm a Gemini born on the first and married to a leo born on the 14th and although we can really piss each other off the flip side is we can also have ton's of fun together. Now to the guy who's father is a Gemini I'm a women so I don't know how the men differ but it sounds like your dad was bipolar. I admit I have mood swings and can go from happy go lucky to pissed off in a blink but what your decribing is not a Gemini. That's mental. So for you to say if your baby is going to be born during that sign that tells me that you too may have mental issues at hand. Hey lots of bad ppl out there and guess what they aren't all Geminis! Thank you to the ppl who said nice things about us. We just like any other sign have our good and bad. It is true from where I stand that a Gemini is going to treat you the way they feel they are being treated. Don't think your gonna walk in the room with an attitude and expect us to roll out the red carpet and pet your head. I don't have time for that. My Leo knows this and that's why we try to respect each others moods and space. Yes we know Leo's need a lot of petting and love but it has to be at our hand when we want if you wine and push us to do it we can't. I mean can't with a good heart behind it. We are amazing friends and I know this bc I have friends from all the signs and we have tons of fun together. One thing no one else brought up i don't think is we have friends for life. We aren't stupid and we aren't flighty. We like to have fun be happy and no we don't mix well with drinking or drugs. Most of us have huge hearts and will go the extra mile for anyone we love. And we do LOVE! Don't call us Hitler!
  • Im a gemini, and I've noticed that gemini's are the most annoying and troublesome sign there is.

    I can't stand my own personality that is matched perfectly with the gemini traits. I noticed that no one likes to be around me anymore, i dont boast or anything like that but i think its just something repulsive about us. I can't stand it, being bored all the time and I haven't had a girlfriend in over three years, of coarse I've had flings or something non-official, but never a girl that actually wanted a relationship with me. I also hate the fact that I'm not perfect in something, i just have to be ok in alot of things, which is stupid. To agree, I fucking hate gemini's i wish i wasn't one, but everything about us sucks.
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      Hi, I'm gemini. I think gemini is curious about everything. Everything in life always keeps moving, and I just need to jump ahead of it and gathers everything in life. Maybe that makes me seem like an unstable person, but I can actually be stable if something or someone catches my attention and keeps up with my pace.
      I have a cancer sister, who would clinge to everything and enjoys beating dead horse. She really could have been happier if she understands the philosophy of being happy.
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        Someone showed me a little joke about pisces and scorpio (because I have a crush on a pisces guy, who likes a scorpio girl).
        And oddly now there is a joke about gemini~~

        www.astro.com/col/zodiactopia1_e.htm

        It surely is hard to find someone who can tolerate me. I used to like a leo guy but he got angry too easily, including for forgetting about his bday or talking to a guy friend. We ended up going our separate ways. I wish we could stay in touch as friends because I do like his energy, but he accused me of many horrible crimes, which made it hard.
  • I totally understand how everyone feels here. I'm a libra and according to astrology, gemini's and libras get along together very well. I only know one gemini and she was a person I thought I would be very good friends with. But like everyone says when you're alone with them they're the coolest people in the world and when they're with other people she acts like she doesn't know me. Well as a libran, i reflect that same behavior towards her. She ignores me, I ignore her. If she talks to me, I'll talk to her. But I don't think I'll ever have a romantic and/or friendly relationship with her. With that said...I'm not always going to assume EVERY gemini is like this. Hey I hear a lot bad things about my sign too. In fact I hear a lot negative comments on this website about libras more than any other. But I've learned that everyone is different no matter what sign they fall in. I thnik astrology is useful only as a guideline to your strengths and weaknesses. Everybody was faults. And astrology shouldn't be the determining factor if you like somebody or not. I just think we need to TRY to understand everyone, and find something about the person that we can relate to. If you can't, its okay, don't have to be their friend, just walk away and remember they're still part of society. That's what I'm doing with this Gemini girl.....but I'll still hopeful to find other Geminis, or leo, sagi, aquarias, or whatever signs I can relate to.
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    I have always been rubbed the wrong way by this sign. Don't get me wrong... I am sure that I have done the same, and I do not want to be judgemental towards someone based solely on their Sun Sign, but yes, I will agree - Geminis are very irritating. I have never had a good experience with these people.
  • Im a leo with scorpio moon cancer rising and i have only met a few gemini. I dated one in the past. she was really into me but i didnt pay attention to her. That was back when friends were more important to me. I didnt know much about her but lets just say getting stoned at walmart with her wasnt a good idea. It wast anywhere near her first time but she ran out of the car and started yelling at random pple. I mean this girl had no control over herself at all. That must suck. Another i know was a friend who was cool with me. We could talk on the same level and understand what the other was meaning but sometime he was gloomy and i couldnt stand it. I cant say i like or dislike gemini. My scorpio moon makes me hide alot of unhappy feelings i have for people. I can hate my enemy but to him im his bestfriend where is right where i want him.
  • so there's this guy that I have known for 2 years now. We met at some random party, and that night i was debating weather I should go out or not. Eventually I did, and I just got over it. I met this dude, and the minute I met him, i knew it was going to be bad news. I was instintley attracted to him mainly because of his beautiful eyes and smile. But something about him caught me off gaurd. He seemed super self centered, and extremeley opininated and acted super superficial after being really intoxicated. I found out a few months later that he only kept me around for entertainment purposes. He couldn't stand being alone at any time and would envite me over at 3 in the morning, but we hardly ever hooked up, when i wanted to. A couple months have gone by and he acts as if we are "good friends" and he only acts nice to me when he can get some, or if he's bored and "uses" me. I don't know but I have met a couple of other Gemini guys and they all just seem the same to me :( idk..any suggestions, doesn't sound like I would do well with this sign.
  • Val
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    In a word? Everything. I have two Gemini siblings, and frankly, I can understand why our sweet, Picean mother couldn't stand them. They are superficial gadabouts who thrive on chaos, or should I say, creating chaos. They are a disturbing presence for those who value Peace of Mind.
  • one word....................FICKLE us leo's are fixed once wev'e made up our minds thats IT!! but these guy's change their affection's preferences and even their personality FAR TOO OFTEN
    • I am just ending a relationship with a Gemini man. I must say ....THANK GOD IT'S OVER! My Gemini man started off real cool. We hooked up on a fluk..we were friends first. 1 month into our relationship I began to notice his mean side. He often had me in tears and confused about what the problem was and as quick as his anger came it left. I noticed he had been hurt by women who were supposed to be rolemodels..Mother/fam members and bein the Leo woman I am. My dumbass decided to show him what tru love was like. I went above and beyond to be what he needed.And it worked however...for some reason the more I loved him the more he started to resent me. We both are outgoing and have our flair in the streets..But jealousy over money and other things is what started it all...The first time he hit me, it was because on Valentines Day I got him a diamond pinky ring and a mink blanket, he got me some shit basket off the side of the road...an I said he was cheap..Then it jus got UNREAL...he accused me of anything and everything...I was pregnant by then. .He wld get drunk and wake me out my sleep to scream and yell about things that I never did, and wouldnt let up untill I was sobbing. He was mean to my kids,threatned to kill my dog,stayed puttin hands on me. One nite in a club I saw him flirting wit another woman..he came up to me and threw a drink in my face saying he saw me being a hoe. He was drunk and hid his money and gun. I didnt know where but I knew he misplaced them. Infront of my son he accused me of stealing his money,said I was hoes n sluts an I was the reason he couldnt come up..Angry I gave him the money he he couldnt find..2days later he found his money and all he said was "guess I gottta buy you something" Oh....and my money came up missing several times..never found. Come to find out he was cheating and lying to an extent I cant believe..And I was faithful to him..But he was evil to all women jus mean..he spit in my face one nite ...yea in public..I stayed helpin him out an holdin him down..and he never even appreciated it..I spent 90% of hollidays alone....or in tears..birth of my child bitter sweet...and what Ive wrote aint NOTHING ...Ive had people say if they didnt know me and didnt see what Ive gone through, they wouldnt think it was true...He has convinced himself I'm everything he is....he says things and says he never said em..He would lie and say I said something just so he could hit me..He lied about me to make himself look better..He dosnt bother with our child...HE IS TRULY CRAZY,BIPOLAR,MEAN AND THE MOST ABUSIVE MAN I HAVE EVER MET. Needless to say burning my face with a cigarette and pushing my daughter was the last fkn straw...IM DONE..and even now he is still accusing me...Gemini men need a warning label....come to find out he treated all his past girlfriends the same...he says how much he misses me...while hes sitting next to another victim....fk a gemini....rather b alone
  • I am a Gemini sun Mercury in Gemini and sometimes I just hate myself even. I am quiet around groups, mostly but feel passionate about things and I am quirky. Even writing this my mind is going a milion miles an hour. I can be focussed and determined and I have mars in taurus to thank for that. Yet have to constantly slow down in my talking just so people can understand what the hell I am talking about. I am making an effort to improve. I am very quiet and shy until I get to know a person but I admit can be selfish, self absorbed and all those negative things. I have moon in cancer which makes me kind of nostalgic and kind hearted. I find pisceans drive me crazy and arians just are constantly annoying me.
  • What u hate about geminis...hmmmm first of all I'm a gemini ascendant which means I talk like a gemini and look like a gemini. I.swear 90% I am but I'm also aquarius which I detest lies and lieing, and I adore being alone. Okay ur post is awful and old...Gemini is the least u should hate, u should just change ur post to "I hate it when people are indescive" u dont have to be a gemini to backstab people...gemini is cunning but they are likable...they are good poets, writters, chatterboxes and yes they do care about the world, the twins dont misbehave for nothing, they count just like the scorpio and the crab. Lets just say there are two of them, they get along fine and everybody likes them anyway...the reputation they have about two faced is mean, because when one twin fails the other twin saves the day, and thats why they were joined because nobody saw anything wrong with this duo. I've said things that I'm almost sure it was a surprise but I'm sure my twin had its purpose, or if not u could live and learn, Taurus people are nuts and we're nice to them...my twins wanna kick you yet enjoy the social network...this is what we call drama, and yes we like it. So what pisces likes to suffer...(and leos like attention, YAWN) Gemini's are too cool, we talk to other twin pairs...#Club Gemini
  • First off, I dont hate Geminis. I'm currently madly in love with one! Emphasis on madly. In getting to know more Gemini women I've discovered their mantra towards people should be: *yelling* "You cant do anything right!". I'm a Libra and the gemini character is so attractive to me! Like, I cant get her out of my mind attractive. Sexy as all hell! And oh so entertaining. I wouldnt say Geminis have mood swings. A mood constitutes at least 2 minutes of consistancy. Not sure what's going on in that sexy brain of theirs. All the Gemini women I've known crave attention but also want to be left alone at the same time WTF! Nothing is set in stone and routine is not in their vocab. Wild fits of instant anger followed by the most gentle sweet appreciation. So confusing and I just cant wait to be next to her. My indecisve nature has me wondering a few serious things about gemini. Is she truly trustworthy? (I find myself constantly wondering if she wants just me, or at least one or two other men to give her what she needs) Whats up with all this anger? (is it really me whos pissing her off or something more? is she really as angry as it seems?) Does she want to be in love and connected to one person? (or will she need more to keep from being bored) Can a gemini woman ever be satisfied and and content with her man? (I'm finding this part really difficult to guess, SOOO many expectations and needs to keep up with) Us libras are so concerned with fair treatment and kindness toward us but we can also put up with a TON of shit. The biggest problem we're having is me finally having enough with all the criticism and abuse and absolutely blowing my top and raging in anger on her. And her not having a clue what caused me to blow up! Then I leave and am counting the minutes until I can see her again. Is this healthy?
    • I fucken hate gemini!! I am a libra an my boyfriend is a gemini" who by the way i'm trying to get rid of, his mother is a gemini an they both drive me crazy! They are some fucken bipolar people who are cheap! An annoying, two faced, mean, moody, aghh" a lot to say about them. Dont know were to end! Never have them in your bad side because they could cause you lots of harm, (sleeping with the enemy) status" The end.
  • I'm a 19 year old Leo who recently just got out of a horrible 2 year relationship with a Gemini 8 years older than myself. At first I was attracted to his confidence and his laid back personality, but behind closed doors he was totally different. I soon found out his 'confidence' was just a horrid ego, he was totally oblivious and neglective to my feeling, Never showed me any affection, was far too conceited to realize when anything was wrong with me, he was really smart and use that to his advantage to abuse me and get away with it.and he was very mentally, emotionally, and physically abusive.
    In a nut shell what i hate about some Geminis?

    Their conceited
    Their manipulators
    Their egomaniacs
    Their aggressive
    Their unpredictable (not in a good way)
    Their fickle
    Their neglective
  • Wow! I could write my own "Gemini for dummies" book. I don't think of myself as expert, but experience goes a long way. Let's just say I am in no rush to get to know another one. This sign is definitely one of those signs that you have to make sure you are somewhat knowledgable in astrology and can get their chart because you will need it. This sign is very hard to generalize, do some research on the gemini that has caught your eye to ensure true compatability. They can be very sly, especially if they have water influencing their chart. You can not be more "flighty" than they are because believe it or not, they like someone who can show stability and interest in just them. Flightiness should be reserved for the unevolved Sag or Aquarius. Most Geminis are very sweet and charming and will go with just about anything as long as it is intellectual and stimulating. To me Gemini and Libra are really the most compatible because they "get" each other's intellectual stimulation needs(make love to my brain as well as my body attitude). When it comes down to responsibilities of the real world, unlike earth signs, geminis do not like to go it alone so don't force that kind of hand on them or the relationship will not last long. They do have a tendency to "live in their heads" just like the other air signs you just need to find out what kind of world has been built and if it suits you.
    • Also, you have to make sure you are a secure person in yourself because they will try to see how far they can push you, but don't let them take over your boundaries. That's why most gemini men date younger. So be careful about the kind of gemini you come across.
  • I don't hate geminis. I'm married to one. She might be scatter brained and have personality changes from one minute to the next but they also dream bigger than a Leo ever could and can give the Leo man the drive in life to succeed were he did not see any point in trying. Gemini are creative and fun , Leo's just need to understand that Gemini might have an agenda of 10 people but her Leo is always on her mind. We Leos have to have attention but it is selfish to think that Gemini can revolve her life around our needs , she is far to busy for that. The time she takes to do things we don't like shouldn't be thrown in her face, that's our time to be "Lazy Leo". I love my Gemini wife she what I am not that just means that all angles of life is covered for us. If Gemini's mood swings are to much make sure your not the cause. Leo have a tendency to point the finger at the other person and never realize we made the mistake. Young Leo's have a hard time admitting their mistakes, funny enough the Gemini you all hate so much waist no time forgiving you for that mistake..... Be careful they might be a little crazy and moody but in the end they might love you more than anyone Leo.
  • I have a boyfriend that's a Gemini an he is exactly what u say they are he has cheated on me twice that I no of he physically abuses mentally and verbally but then the next minute he nice he can be very selfish an lazy at times he's mean an just makes my blood boil what shudder I do?
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    My mom is a Gemini and she is bat shit crazy. Seriously she is fucked up in all kinds of directions. She doesn't care about other peoples feelings. She doesn't follow her own standards at all. Is two faced about pretty much everything including being a grandmother. If you do something nice for her, she says thank you, immediately forgets about it and starts complaining. Is embarrassing to be around in public etc...

    The positives are few and far in-between. I'm one of three and she mentally tortures us all, one at a time.
  • Jen
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    I have a LOVE-HATE relationship with my female Gemini friend. I am a Sagittarius and we are opposites so we get along really well when we are both focused on some kind of activity. If we are bored and don't have much to talk about, we start fighting and the arguments are heated! We don't talk to each other for a couple weeks and it drives us both crazy. I think we both enjoy the arguments and a Sag like myself just loves a good friendly debate. My Gemini friend can get EXTREMELY needy/clingy in an emotional way. She gets attached to people very easily and then the next thing you know, she is detached like nothing ever happened. She loves to talk nonstop and I enjoy discussing things with her because she always changes it up. Sometimes I feel suffocated around her. As a Sagittarius I need my space and freedom which I value the most. Her emotional clinginess can be really overwhelming, but she is SO damn charming and like a little child in her ways. She throws tantrums and always wants it her way, like a little child. I LOVE her so much, but I hate her at times. I hate that I love her, because she has hurt me. I understand her very well, but I feel like she sometimes takes our friendship for granted. She says one thing and does another. She always tries to make me jealous on purpose and says hurtful things that can affect my self esteem. She always tries to get a reaction out of me, because she knows I can't keep things in if it is bothering me. I will tell things to her face, be real about it and not keep it in like she does. I wont go to our mutual friends and bitch to them about what she said/did. I'll tell her how I feel. With her, she'll keep it in and hold a grudge, then go to our friends and bitch to them about it. A couple times she's even humiliated me in front of all our mutual friends, then when I showed that I was angry and hurt, she comes running after me and then it's ALL about her and how she didn't mean to, it wasn't her fault and gives me a half as*ed sorry in a VERY charming way. I always forgive her, but I don't forget. I've noticed she can be VERY bitter and jealous. Backbiting all the time. She loves me as a friend, but she's VERY careful to not let that show with our mutual friends. Like she hides her platonic affection for me and will only show it when we are alone. In fact, she is just downright emotionally abusive and humiliating with me in front of our friends. It's not healthy at all. Just toxic. My Gem friend is just an emotional vampire!
    Most of all, she is NOT sincere or loyal AT ALL. I am very picky with my friends and only befriend a few close people and she was one of them. I don't trust very many people with my secrets, but when i told her...I found out she told other people since she has to blab everything to all our friends. I found out she told others because she told me herself, yet she couldn't notice the shock on my face when she betrayed my trust. I don't give a dam* what other people think of me or what they say, but she needs everyones approval and she tries to make EVERYONE happy. She is so scared of being rejected. Talks shit about our mutual friends and acts like she's still good friends with them. My Gem friend can be SO selfish and like the world revolves around her. A guy she really liked rejected her and then she wallowed in misery for about a week (prob more because she didn't wanna show her full range of emotions) and she said she needs another guy to get over that. I think she just needs to be happy herself and not let others be a source of happiness for her.
    I just want the best for her and for her to be happy because she deserves it. :) Even though she has hurt me, I still love her and the more I love her, the more love and affection she shows me. If I am happy around her and make her happy, she will open up more and share everything even her true emotions which Gems hardly ever do. They secretly crave love and attention, but won't admit it. ;) However, if I fight with her, she shuts down and the negative emotions and bitterness get the best of her. She closes up like a clam and won't share much at all. She'll go elsewhere and find other friends to woo them with her endearing ways. We always fight and tease, but most of the time we are ALWAYS laughing together and joking around. I miss her a lot, but I think I hurt her and now we aren't talking to each other again. :(

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