I have a crush on a bouncer at my favorite nite club. He is kinda shy, but he always says 'hi, Laurie' when he sees me and gives me hugs. But... I gave him my number on Saturday and he hasn't called yet. Maybe he's not shy and he's just not interested (I'm hot--why wouldn't he be?)...
Anyway, that's my crush of the week.
Call me, Daniel...
Anyway, that's my crush of the week.
Call me, Daniel...
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Re: will he call?
Wed, January 14, 2004 - 6:52 PMI guess I will when I hit the club on Saturday nite.
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Re: will he call?
Wed, January 14, 2004 - 8:35 PM"HI"-I don't mean to be tellin' you what to do. Just my first thought upon readin' your post was "why not ask him" because it seems the most logical solution to the situation. Still this ain't no math problem. Affairs of the heartsoul might not fit the logic of the mind. It's totally your decision how to deal with it. For myself, I'd just be straight-up honest with anyone I wanted to get with & find out how they feel about it asap. Why waste precious lifetimespaceenergy worryin' bout it? May you find the love/peace/happiness you desire & deserve.
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Re: will he call?
Sun, January 18, 2004 - 6:31 PM"HI"-I was wonderin' how it worked out for you last night? Did you get out to it & talk to the man? Is it a go or a no? Are you feelin' alright about it? Is it still up for discussion or would you prefer to go private with it? Surely all of us here have been there & some of us care. We're here for you. "HUG" -
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Re: will he call?
Sun, January 18, 2004 - 11:53 PMwell, I saw him. He was really busy--I've never seen this place so packed. All I got was a nod and a half-hearted smile. I didn't even try to talk to him. I guess that's that. The shitty part is that he asked for my number.
It's all good, though. There are plenty of other boys out there who will call. Thanks for caring. -
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Re: will he call?
Mon, January 19, 2004 - 4:24 AM"HI"-I hope your really o.k. about it. I know how it feels to be attracted to someone who isn't interested or doesn't respond to any real degree of social/sexual interaction. I've learned not to be hurt or take away negative energy from it as it only indicates that it wasn't meant to be & I move on. Your exactly right on about there being plenty of potential partners out there, just hit the dance floor. Remember this sister of the tribe, it's better to be alone then be with the wrong person. Hope to share more happy thoughts with you here thru future. *L*O*V*E*P*E*A*C*E*H*A*P*P*I*N*E*S*S*
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Re: will he call?
Thu, February 5, 2004 - 1:01 PMLaurie, I'm right there with ya girl. I have gone through this sorta thing myself and end up agonizing over it for a bit just like you did. But eventually I pull myself up by my bootstraps and move on. As I always say, there's no better cure for getting over a guy then finding another guy!!! And an even sexier one!!! That WANTS to get with me!!!
Peace and Happiness! - Tor -
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Re: will he call?
Thu, February 5, 2004 - 7:11 PMRight on, Torrie.
I'm moving on...I still see this guy when I go to L5. I feel a little pang of something (regret? sadness?) when I see him. But, it's his loss as well as mine. He won't know how good he could have had it. But some lucky hottie will...
*hugs*
Laurie
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