LOL Arco, you are a hard man!

"A white picket fence, a Volvo and a Labrador and 2 1/2 brats just don't figure in my life and I do not understand why gays lately try to imitate a mainstream life." This much I agree with, there is nothing more stale than the horrid, self-obsessed, predictable, nauseatingly middle class mainstream. That said, we were ALL "brats" once weren't we?

I'm not sure gay people wanting children and living in an exclusive, monogamous relationship is "imitating" a straight mainstream lifestyle, rather making choices that realises their own sense of self.
Arco, while I acknowledge that it isn't the ideal for everybody (particularly, it seems, gay people) you seem to imply an inherent dysfunction in that type of relationship I'm not convinced is totally accurate.

"I do not understand why gays lately try to imitate a mainstream life." "gays" have been doing this for centuries, just as straight people have been exploring different ways of living for centuries. It's just that the current gay political agenda is for mainstream acceptance. Looking at gay history one can hardly blame them - just as it is equally true to see from history that those who push at the outer regions of different societies can sometimes drag communities out of bigotry and into a broader acceptance of the positive richness of the human spirit, endeavor and condition.

<<My relationship is based on a gay lifestyle>>

My last day on tribe so humour me.

The above is the George Michael defence when caught in a public park shagging a complete stranger......he said <its my culture>.

For a group that lobbies, ridicules and disdains hetreosexuals, some of you are living in denial land. Being in a long term relationship with the codicile that you can shag at will is not <gay culture>. Some folk just like to fuck around. Some dont. Impying that being born homosexual makes you genetically predisposed to promiscuity is crap.

If you want to apologise for being gay, fill your boots, your other pecidilos are strictly down to you. To say all str8s want white fences and 2.2 children while gays like to *experiment* is the same as saying some muslims have to kill their daughters.....its for honour and ....hey....its what we do...