yep. i've tried the other way but it always leeds to truble and jelusy.

i am also wired to be in a relation ship with a couple , but only if the social dinamic alows me to treat them as a single partner, ... sort of a loop hole i've stumbled across before. but it's rare, like wining the lotery, the couple has to be soulmates who are like tow halfs of the same person, and even then you still have to be just perfectly matched to them bothe seperatly and together. ... i think it's becals my younger brothers wer twins and that alowed me to develop the ability to cumfortubly interact with a gastalt personality ... like i said rare loop hole.

Oh thanks :-)
I happen to think they are the sweetest, cutest things on this earth...but I may be a touch biased

Sixteen years going strong, lovelife with much zizzle still. We start our 17th yr in April. We meet in the Anazazi dwellings in Chaco cyn New Mexico, he rolled his truck while he was driving in front of me and I rescued him. He is a dear one, a loving soul and very much centered and spiritual in a way where it feels good and not forced. A quiet one, a kind one. I am the hyper, love to go out and be with the girls and he stays home, now going out with the girls is once every 3 to 4 months, tee-hee. We have one daughter, 10 yrs old and she is a blessing and joy, we have so much fun with her, she is such a joy...but I love my husband, we have had rough times but the rough rarly show now, and the good is just being together, sharing and loving and doing the best we can for our daughter, life is to precious to sweat the small stuff, you just never know what can happen, gratefulness and appreciation and respect is there in our hearts and our home...peace...and always lovelight...lakotawolf

ya i feel you on that.

i'm a quality over quantity guy when it comes to sex and realaionships and romance.

but if you can magage both quality and quantity, then thats prety awsome, i sort of envy peaple who's brains/harts are built that way and who's lives are structured to suport that. :)

I am 100% pure monogomous too
I don't have a long term relationship to prove it....
but suffice to say
I am completely a one man kind of woman
I don't even seem to be able to casually date 2 guys at the same time
and having sex with more than one would just fuck with my head/heart/body/energy field too much

1:1 wired, i have had the opertunity to share a girfriend of my girlfriends but i guess i felt that the sexuality became kind of diluted when it was not someone i cared deeply about, hey maybe i am possesive and cant share but thats the way of it, like someone said on this thread, maybe next lifetime!......oh and my girfriend has become monogomous since being with me so maybe it is contageous or somethng?