You sound committed to this stategy. Here are a few brainstorming results I came up with:
1)Go research iridology. If you find out a whole bunch of info about how to read the iris then you'll be distracted by interpreting the ladies health and mentel state via her eyes(maybe).
2)Always have a single friend that you are keeping your eye out for "the perfect woman" for so s/he can be as happy as you. Maybe some of those butts and cleavage will fall into a different catagory in your head then (maybe?).
3)Get interested in fashion so that even if you get distracted by the jeans it will be the cut or fabric.
4)Bite the bullet and work in a topless bar as a bouncer for a couple of weeks and maybe you will be so surronded by boobies and associate them with such a humdrum working environment that you won't care anymore. I have actually seen that work..

Just a few thoughts. I am a woman though, I don't know how the male mind works.

Joe, the best/worst advice I can offer is to move to Afghanistan where the women are (still) required to wear burqahs so that men won't be tempted by their assets. It doesn't seem like women will be liberated there anytime soon. And you won't have to worry about "tight jeans and cleavage."

Or, you could move to a monastery, where you'll be surrounded by men who wear clothing that strongly resembles a burqah, and who are sworn to resist temptation.

Or maybe you could get a castration.

It seems like you're having a problem with self-control. And it seems to me that when you say you don't want to notice other women, what you're not telling us is that you want to pretend they don't exist so you wouldn't fear your own lack of self-control in noticing them.

The truth is, that the advice other people here have offered you, that you reject, is the best advice. You need to set expectations of yourself that you can actually live up to. And if you fail to do this, you will be a failure because you have set yourself unrealistic expectations that neither you, nor any other heterosexual man (absent a vision impairment) can be expected to live up to.

Jack Holland wrote a book entitled _Misogyny_, in which he explained that men suppress women because of a mind-body duality, in which mind is considered superior, and the desires of the body are considered a distraction from "higher" thinking. Women provoke lust, therefore women must be suppressed.

I haven't read the article yet, but I saw a headline today that suggests that more recent research has determined that thinking is grounded in emotion. Plato's higher truth, then, cannot exist without the pleasures of the flesh that he sought so vehemently to deny.

Yet here you are, seeking to deny the very thing that drew you in the first place to this woman whom you claim to love. It doesn't work that way. It can't work that way.