So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

topic posted Thu, November 15, 2007 - 8:00 PM by  Sienna
This is a carryover from the thread about polyamory. It was briefly debated about what it really means to be American...so let's come right out and ask the question:

What's an American Tantric?

IMO, America is a tossed salad, rather than a melting pot. The more differences we can bring in around us, the more exposure to differnt things we have. The more exposure we have to new things---such as the many paths of Tantra---the more educated we all become...and the more enriched our lives become.
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Sienna
  • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

    Thu, November 15, 2007 - 11:16 PM
    I would very much like to agree. I think that's what "American Tantra" SHOULD be.

    But is it?

    I regret to say from people I've met and books I've studied, a large proportion of Americans have a feeling that equates Tantra with spiritualized sex. I have no problem with people who take that as THEIR definition. The problem I have is when people start claiming that their person view of Tantra is the ONE TRUE form of Tantra and everything else is mistaken, missing the point, a perversion of Tantra, or focused on things that are non-essential.

    State as you did (and I agree) that there are "many paths of Tantra," and many people will either agree, and then go on to stress that theirs is the only true form of Tantra, or simply deny and belittle the concept that there are other Tantric systems. "Tantra is this" or "Tantra is that" they pontificate, ignoring fact and history. And yes, there are some people who are like that in this tribe and other Tantric-oriented tribes.

    My understanding, Sienna, is that you are doing a book on American Tantra. Is this correct? If so, I say, "Go for it!" Currently, I don't think there is an accepted and fixed definition of what "American Tantra" is. If you clearly identify it and define it--and I hope it will include the idea that American Tantra is a blend of many Tantric paths--then you can establish exactly what American Tantra is. I wish you great luck!

    Namaste!
  • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

    Fri, November 16, 2007 - 11:22 AM
    Well, my tantric background is fairly eclectic, experiential, and so far it's all occurred in the physical realm of the Americas.

    I don't yet have the authority to claim any particular tradition.
    • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

      Fri, November 16, 2007 - 11:23 AM
      ...I better amend that to say that I don't yet have the authority to claim any particular formal tradition. I have experience with at least a few informal ones.
      • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

        Fri, November 16, 2007 - 1:23 PM
        Exactly my point, TN...who is there to judge and tell you that a path that you have put yourself on, which led you to experience those few informal traditions, is not a valid path? You should be free to pursue that which calls you into it, without fear of recrimination from others on more (so-called) "valid" paths.

        I guess it's more like a salad bar, than a tossed salad...eh? Pick from the list of ingredients, fill your plate, and recognize it's no one else's palate or judgement that we are trying to fulfill but our own.

        But is that really American Tantra? Or is that a mushy mess of newage sewage?
        • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

          Fri, November 16, 2007 - 11:54 PM
          I agree, Sienna.

          I think it's sort of like walking on a thread lying on the ground. To one side is that beautiful salad bar and to the other side is the Newage/sewage.

          It's easy to move to either side of the thread, especially if it's dark. It's more difficult to tell which side you're on.

          Namaste!
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          Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

          Sat, November 17, 2007 - 4:49 AM
          >>But is that really American Tantra? Or is that a mushy mess of newage sewage?

          American Tantra, because the salad bar was invented in America. And so was New Age sewage.
          • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

            Sat, November 17, 2007 - 4:35 PM
            new age sewage is the new rage...so to get on the samne page, let's get an objective gauge. Clean out the dross, don't forget to floss. high aspirations are boss. Take out a new plan, be a new man...say you still can .
            we're glad for the salad, trick tantra is rad....of veda or upanishad aint bad. Put your heart in the right place, transcend low lust motivation overcoming the animal inside, calming the rising tide. While mind's a good thing we'll see the body as temple..it's simple...has a good ring. That's my thing. So don't you see the wisdom of a tree?
            briggi!
            • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

              Mon, November 19, 2007 - 12:47 AM
              That's exactly what I'm talking about Briggi...

              So what is UP with all those other Tantra tribes and the "thou-shalt-not" attitudes they portray? Not only do they appear to be condescending and haughty, they seem to gather a chorus of voices, all shouting "thou-shalt-not!" in unison...as if those of us who walk our own path have some serious flaw that they can't abide by....

              I've been put down, insulted, and targetted on some of these other Tantra tribes (as has Shamb., TN, and DWB) as if my words were heresy. Are there THAT many people following "traditional" paths that have been brainwashed to beleive they are on the One True Path?

              Oh, please say it ain't so!
              • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

                Mon, November 19, 2007 - 8:37 AM
                It is an interesting conundrum, Sienna. I think the answer is that most people approach "Tantra" as either something they do ("Let's do some Tantric sex") or something they are ("I am a Tantrika and a Goddess/God").

                If they approach Tantra as a practice, for the most part they really don't care about what others do. But if they approach Tantra as their lifestyle, then alternative (and, IMO, equally valid) Tantric paths are not merely other paths, they are challenges to their very nature and who they are. Therefore, they must protect their self-image by attacking people who think differently.

                As you know, I have no problem with people who follow other paths except when they claim that their path is "true Tantra" and what other do isn't Tantra. It's more of a use of terminology than anything else. In other words, sure, what they're doing is Tantra, but that doesn't mean it is the only form of Tantra. Therefore, IMO, it should be identified more clearly.

                As a comparison, most people talk about "Yoga" and actually mean "Hatha Yoga." But simply saying "I do yoga" really isn't accurate, nor is "I do hatha yoga." There are Ashtanga, Bikram, Ayengar, and other forms of Hatha Yoga, and I would eventually like to see it more identified.

                Similarly, many of the teachers of Tantra do give it a specific name, making its sources clear. I like that.

                Just one more thing. Today, "Tantra" has become a catchword for just about anything that has to do with sex. As a result, some people have glommed onto it because they're trying to attract attention. However I would contend that Tantra is not about ancient Egypt, the ancient Kabalah, nor does it come from the Pleiades. I have nothing against what these people are teaching except that it's not Tantra.
              • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

                Mon, November 19, 2007 - 9:19 AM
                You need to connect to your higher self...the SatGuru. Many lack the conviction, vision, inclination to do so. These then find an external "higher self" in the form of a genuine India goo-ru. The guru demands devotion. He becomes their alpha male. He does their thinking for them. They're excused from having to read, or form opinions, or express free will. It's dehumanizing. Lacking internal balance and unplugged from divine guidance, these drone devotees then adopt lower order parameters. Bonded to patriarchical heirarchies, they then disconnect from their very own high humanity. They fall to resonating with lower order animal kingdom frequencies. .... forming dog packs, or worse... swarming like africanized bees, or sharks. It's the reptile brain swarm instinct. One of them draws a little blood; the others smell it and come rushing in for their taste.
                It's not so much an issue of who has the best intelligent arguement, but rather learning to play by jungle rules. There it is -- deal with it. We can share a vision of a perfect Eden as Creation intended... a vision of the recurring new Golden Age to come round as the Dharma wheel cycles... and this will sustain us. But still we are yet in the grips of Kali Yurga. With darkness all around, we must give up praises to The Mother. She comforts us.

                ~~~~~~~~~~~~~jai Durge Ma~~~~~~~~~~

                b!
              • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

                Tue, November 20, 2007 - 9:10 AM
                "I've been put down, insulted, and targetted on some of these other Tantra tribes (as has Shamb., TN, and DWB) as if my words were heresy."

                Oh, but my words _are_ heresy.

                In my opinion, tantra embraces heresy as a valid spiritual path. To me, that's one of the key differences between tantra and newage, (rhymes with sewage).
        • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

          Tue, November 20, 2007 - 9:07 AM
          "Exactly my point, TN...who is there to judge and tell you that a path that you have put yourself on, which led you to experience those few informal traditions, is not a valid path? You should be free to pursue that which calls you into it, without fear of recrimination from others on more (so-called) "valid" paths. "

          I think there are several points here which are being confused.

          One is the validity of a personal path. I do periodically hear people initially claim that bdsm is not a spiritual path, but after talking with me for a while, most tend to back off to a position of claiming that it's simply not for them. It's pretty rare that I hear someone challenge the validity of a personal path and keep doing so for any length of time, or where I hear a large group of people doing so - at least, not around the tantra or bdsm forums. And people who do so tend to get ganged up on pretty quickly.

          A second issue is the issue of semantic naming. There are folks who use lax, street definitions for words like "shamanism", "tantra", "buddism", "zen", etc. There are other folks who use, shall we say, more academically rigorous definitions of these words?

          In the street definitions, I practice tantra and shamanism. But in the academically rigorous definitions, I can't claim authority on either one because I can't verify or prove that what I'm doing has any relationship to the academically rigorous definitions. Shamb often uses these more academically precise definitions and while I respect those uses, I do think that he is frequently misunderstood to be attacking the validity of someone's personal path when really he's simply trying to call into question either their definitions of the words or their claims to authority over the topics.

          In the case of shamanism, there's also the question of cultural respect in the face of a number of claims. Some people believe that their spiritual beliefs or their definitions of the word are sacred, can only be used by certain people, and that use by other groups of people constitutes a gesture of disrespect. While I think those perspectives are worth noticing and listening to, I don't completely agree.

          A similar claim has been made about tantra many times as well - that tantra taught in the west to westerners is a priori not tantra - that tantra per se can only be learned from easterners and in the east. I've also heard it claimed that to use the word "tantra" to describe what we here in the west are doing constitutes a sort of cultural appropriation which is sometimes perceived as disrespectful much as white folks claiming to study and/or practice shamanism may be disrespectful.

          But again, I think most of these disagreements boil down to semantics. Clearly, many white folks are studying and practicing something at least vaguely akin to tantra in the west and at least vaguely akin to shamanism. Pick some words that are less offensive, if necessary, but the fact that we're doing _something_ seems pretty clear.

          In my world view, authority has some value, but it isn't the be all end all. Rather, I figure that truth is generally pretty self evident and that if I can recognize value in someone's teachings, then at least for me those teachings have value.

          I happen to like Carlos Casteneda's works. I think it's now been pretty clearly exposed that his works are fiction, not autobiographical accounts as were once thought. However, to me, the truth they contain is in the meaning and transformation that I got from reading the words and stories as metaphor and as thought experiments. The veracity of the events described in this plane of existence is, and always has been irrelevant to me with respect to my value for his work. As for validity, for value, I appreciate his work. As for claims as to whether his work represents any authoritative claims about shamanism - well, it seems to me that if one is even asking the question about authoritative claims then one has already missed several of the major points about shamanism and tantra as spiritual paths.
          • Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

            Wed, November 21, 2007 - 9:05 AM
            Semantics....yes, I beleive you have a good point there.

            I define a "valid path" as one which assists in growth, rather than suffering. With that in mind, I beleive that bdsm does assist in growth, and therefore is valid. Castenada's work, similarly, does assist with growth as well. Whether his accounts are "true" or "fictional" doesn't matter if the words help you grow.

            Perhaps it's other people's definition of "valid" that becomes problematic.
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              Re: So what DOES it mean to be an American Tantric?

              Wed, November 21, 2007 - 9:50 PM
              Remember back a few months ago you told me not to give a shit what a certain person thinks about me and the choices/decisions I made? So, I say unto you...who gives a shit what other people think? Do what feels right for you, follow where your soul leads and raspberries to everyone else.

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