I had sessioned with older tranny lover for fun... When I saw him I was all made up wearing sexy things etc etc.
But even after we took shower and washed off make up we kept flirting and kissing etc.... I am TV (transvestite) and not TS
I do get into femme space when I am with men.. and really love it.

So what do you thing his turn on was after I removed make up and garments? Do you think the tranny sex continued then
or do you think we are just two bi-sexual men playing?
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Manutea
SF Bay Area
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    Re: question to tranny lovers

    Sun, June 3, 2007 - 5:42 PM
    Don't question yourself so much.
    You were just two adults, enjoying your time together.
    TS,TV,Bi-Sexual,whatever,if you enjoyed each other,so be it!
    It is,what it is.....
    Always remember,
    "wherever you go,there you are"
    Stuff
    • Re: question to tranny lovers

      Thu, June 7, 2007 - 1:02 AM
      Ok stuff...

      I will stop thinking lol
      its all good...

      kiss
      • Re: question to tranny lovers

        Thu, June 7, 2007 - 4:22 AM
        I guess labels can just cause confusion sometimes. I wonder about my own sexuality. I am a closet cross dresser who is bi curious. I often wonder if I am really gay and afraid to admit it. I guess in the end it doesn't matter.
        • Re: question to tranny lovers

          Thu, June 7, 2007 - 9:12 AM
          In my case, I can only be with man in my femme space, and that is how I am sexually turned on.
          It was liberating to know, even after clothing and make-up gone, I was still in that space and he also continued
          to see me that way. It was very sweet and connecting.
          In case of transgender person, the attraction to any other gender including male in your case could be quite complex.
          I don't know if seeing it as bi or gay tendencies alone could really describe how we feel. just my opinion.
          • Re: question to tranny lovers

            Fri, June 15, 2007 - 10:00 AM
            In my world, I see the sexual act as an exchange of power. Power in the physical sense, and power in the spiritual/energy sense.

            Each of us responds sexually due to a combination of our genetics and our life experiences. And we then express our sexual energies and needs accordingly. I gave up, not that long ago, trying to put a firm label on what "I am"...and just know simply THAT "I am"...and better who I am.


            I can be both very dominant and very submissive. It goes along with my Gemini nature. I must express both sides of my personality, in life, and in bed. It has been quite liberating to explore all aspects of my being, while not judging myself so harshly...coming from a Judeo-Christian background. Self-hatred can be devastating.
  • Re: question to tranny lovers

    Fri, June 22, 2007 - 3:20 PM
    after reading this post a few times it makes me ponder the question, why does simply having a label make it different than what it was? why not just say that you had a good time and were happy? isnt that enough? where does the need to understand this come from? an insecurity or from some kind of reaffirming action that need to be reaffrimed AGAIN? im just sayin, maybe happiness is okay once in a while, might not BE a need to tear it apart and question it.

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