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A free pass for him!

topic posted Fri, September 7, 2007 - 11:23 AM by  Munk
So, my FWB b-day is on Halloween and I've been planning something really special for him. Essentialy, I want to set aside a few hours whenever it's comvenient for him and allow him to do anything he wants with me. I'm giving him complete freedom and control of me for that time, as a gift with no limitations, yet he seems so hesitant. What guy wouldn't jump at the chance to do whatever he wanted to a willing girl? He alreaday knows I have no fear of trying new things. I would never propose such a thing if my trust in him wasn't 100% solid and I know for a fact that we love each very much. Yes, he's been saying that he loves me for quite a while now and that pleases me. So I wanted to please him. Am I just not understanding some aspect of male thought? HELP!!!!!
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    Re: A free pass for him!

    Fri, September 7, 2007 - 1:30 PM
    How adventurous has your sexual relationship been so far?

    Sometimes there are things that we have fantasized about for so long, hidden away in the "forbidden" reccess of our minds that we can't even go there when the opportunity comes to us. Not sure exactly why that is. He may also really feel a deep connection with you that he feels he wants to protect... and so he may want to protect you from those "forbidden places"... Even though they probably aren't that tabboo.... and you both may end up liking it.
    =)

    Good luck.
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      Re: A free pass for him!

      Fri, September 7, 2007 - 2:02 PM
      I'm keeping our communication about this very open and light. No pressure at all. I want him to accept or decline in whatever way is comfortable to him. He always says that he doesn't want to hurt me (sexualy) and he's always very gentle and considerate which is fine. But I know he has deeper passions, I can see it in his eyes when he looks at me and I want to encourage them to come out. I don't want him to feel ashamed of something he wants that he may think is 'abnormal' or 'wrong'. He's told me plenty of times that sexual curiosity is perfectly healthy. But I'll respect his choice whatever it may be. The offer will always stand, b-day or not.:)
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