Penis

topic posted Tue, July 17, 2007 - 10:41 AM by  kory
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How long and big do sexy girls like men's penis's?
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kory
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    Re: Penis

    Sat, August 11, 2007 - 2:37 PM
    It's not so much long, as it is big around. I like to feel it streching me open a little. So lets say at least 6 inches long and at least 2 inches in diameter would be nice.
    • Re: Penis

      Sat, August 11, 2007 - 3:48 PM
      I used to think that size was the most important thing in the world. Then I started getting older and most guys start getting smaller. Now, I am just pleased as punch to get any.....size? Who cares? :)
      • Re: Penis

        Mon, August 13, 2007 - 9:57 AM
        I've never gotten a complaint about my size except once. She was 5'0" and a small body frame. I am 6'3". We actually could have sex because we couldn't get it in her. But most of the ladies I have been with say "Oh hell yea!"
        • Re: Penis

          Mon, August 13, 2007 - 9:20 PM
          Hush Walter. It is getting close to bedtime and I can't even sleep after that remark.........
          • Re: Penis

            Tue, August 14, 2007 - 6:32 AM
            Two things to say:

            1st - I need to clarify on my comment. I said "we could have sex because it wouldn't get in - should have said we "couldn't" have sex because it wouldn't go in.

            2nd - Sending you (Bren-Duh) to bed not being able to sleep because of thoughts - good - glad I was able to give you something to think about before sleeping. Hopefully you had a few HOT dreams.
            • Re: Penis

              Mon, September 24, 2007 - 1:27 AM
              actually Bren - a man's ears, nose, and penis continue to grow until the day he dies.
              • Re: Penis

                Fri, November 30, 2007 - 7:29 PM
                >"actually Bren - a man's ears, nose, and penis continue to grow until the day he dies. "

                and we continue trying to get them all between your thighs, just about as long... =)
      • Re: Penis

        Fri, November 30, 2007 - 12:42 PM
        >"Then I started getting older and most guys start getting smaller"

        You mean in their claims or actuality? lol
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    Re: Penis

    Sun, October 14, 2007 - 8:59 AM
    I've experienced pleasure with a gentleman who sported about 5 and not terribly thick and also experienced pleasure with a gentleman who was probalby 7+ and rather thick. I have fond memories of both. I do recall that I enjoyed doggie style more with the smaller size and I enjoyed being on top more with the larger. It's all about communication and it's all good.
    • Re: Penis

      Mon, November 26, 2007 - 8:42 PM
      I dont believe all is good...
      some are a better match than others..
      thickness is better than length in my opinion....because I have a shorter path than average.
      5 is average and it works, 6 and 7 is doab,e
      ..any less and its very difficult...any more and its ouchie
      I guess for a small woman...it can work out fine.... having a 4 or 3 and thin.
      as well as a 7 or 9 and thick would work for a larger frame woman
      ( my opinion not a fact)
      it depends on the person.. bottom line.
      communication works all the time.
  • Re: Penis

    Tue, November 27, 2007 - 9:01 AM
    well...i perfer 7...why? cuz its easyer to work both ways..front door..back door..;-) and top window(LOL)....7 is perfect for me..i like them big,,,but u wont see me ...deep throat a size 13..or it will never slip in the back door..HELL NO!! ..only in their dreams(LOL)
    • Re: Penis

      Wed, November 28, 2007 - 9:34 AM
      Well damn - I am 1/2 inch too long - damnit - and I thought my 7 1/2 inches was what the ladies enjoyed - now how am I going to take off a 1/2 inch????????
      • Re: Penis

        Wed, November 28, 2007 - 9:43 AM
        You do her from behind and let the padding of the tush prevent full insertion





        just sayin'
        • Re: Penis

          Fri, November 30, 2007 - 12:46 PM
          >"You do her from behind and let the padding of the tush prevent full insertion"

          lol.. you are sooooo good! We even both use "tush" rather than ass? I'm in good company!
          • Tush or ass

            Fri, November 30, 2007 - 6:59 PM
            Depends on the day, the context, the person, and the mood.
            Some days it's tush
            Some days it's bum
            some days it's posterior
            Some days it is definately ass
            • Re: Tush or ass

              Fri, November 30, 2007 - 7:32 PM
              That is too funny... yes, some days it IS posterior. I just made a comment the other night of what a lovely posterior someone had. She asked what a posterior was. :'|
              • Re: Tush or ass

                Fri, November 30, 2007 - 9:47 PM
                I hate it when pretty gets ruined by stupid.
                It's likely not her fault, most folks just weren't raised with more than the most basic of vocabularies and that certainly isn't their fault. I do start to get a wee bit cranky when they've reached their middle years and made no attempt to catch up though. There's only so many breaks in the conversation for "vocab lessons" I can stand before I start to feel like a lecturing professor and, unless we're playing that game, that generally doesn't make me horny. It makes me vaguely depressed.
  • Re: Penis

    Wed, November 28, 2007 - 9:41 AM
    I feel like I've answered this a thousand times already.
    Anything between 6" and 8" is ideal. I will only consider over 8" if I really love the person. Over 9" is just no-go unless the person attached to the cock is the man of my dreams.
    Less than 6" is much easier to accommodate. Hell, I take lovers with no penis whatsoever. I can happily deal with an undersized penis if the man is OK with using toys and giving his jaw a workout.
    • Re: Penis

      Wed, November 28, 2007 - 9:59 AM
      myriad..;-) sweetie...how the hell can u feel a size 5...? not that my flower is big,,but dame! for that use ur finger...no disrespects to anyone..for the men more..why? cuz we as women cant blame them with the size dick life has given them..so if smaller..work that boat till u hit land,,giggle.;-) ..but im a big girl..and i always need to be worked hard..a 5...is not cuting it for me..but theres one thing i must agree on myriad..if the guy is sweet and cool 100%.well the help of toys will do.if hes a 5 .oh!! and he must know how to shop down town...long ass strokes ..oopps..l;-) i ment...long ass walk s through this park(LOL)
      • Re: Penis

        Wed, November 28, 2007 - 10:03 AM
        I can make room when I need room (any girth can be accommodated, never met the man too wide) but I'm also a sensitive creature and I can constrict as well as expand. Do those Kiegal exercises! I've had lovers of 5" and it wasn't a problem for me. The man was hot and he got me revved up before he put his boat in the water. All was peachy keen. Less than that could have been an issue but when I get really hot I get really tight and if I can cum from a couple of fingers I can cum from a 5" cock.
        • Re: Penis

          Wed, November 28, 2007 - 10:15 AM
          u better work it!! sweetie...;-) hay ..if thats what foats ur boat..(wink)..go for it.... wanna know something..i've enjoy 7's..but i've had 10's / 9's...and yes even a 5..but the 5 was in my ass one day..girl...i did my nails at the same time(LOL) but i've also had 9's and 10's that have all that to work with and cant work this mother ship!! even if there life depended on it...!;-)..(LOL) so..i think..its more on how the man works it...when u do alittle of everything..it all adds up to the only ride..;-)
          • Re: Penis

            Wed, November 28, 2007 - 2:26 PM
            Well it is not all that you got it is knowing how to work what you got. And what I lack between my legs I can assure you I can make up for any difference with my tongue!
      • Re: Penis

        Fri, November 30, 2007 - 12:49 PM
        >"work that boat till u hit land"

        Do I hear the sound of one hand clapping?...... Or is that one tongue lapping?
  • Re: Penis

    Wed, November 28, 2007 - 2:37 PM
    Hi
    As a man it is not the size but how you care about the woman you are with.
    XOXOX
    • Re: Penis

      Wed, November 28, 2007 - 7:06 PM
      this is too funny but nice and honest....
      7 and 8 and are good for odd positions because they wont flop out..lol
      I had only one 10 and it was too much of a challenge (had to watch the full thrust or it would come out of my throat with an organ attached to it) and your right ... he didnt do to well with it...I had to do more work and personally , I like it balanced or it gets boring.
      a 5 thick can some work and some love behind it....
      caring about the woman as well as caring for the man is always of plus ...I dont believe anyone has said that it is not important.
      Its just honest conversation.
      • Re: Penis

        Thu, November 29, 2007 - 9:35 AM
        jessy...girl! a size 10 ? ha.ha.ha.ha. thats when u need to take control..cuz if not,,they will be banging away(LOL) all up on ur ribbs..coming out from the side of ur throat(LOL) girl we dont need none of that..but ur right..when u really come to think of it..it dosnt really matter..ur shareing a moment with a sweet person..sex is fun.....i see it this way...u can learn or teach..ether way..both should be on the same page on what feels good and not and still work on it ..to enjoy it..;-) but watch out for those's 10's u'll start walking funny for life(wink)
        • Re: Penis

          Thu, November 29, 2007 - 1:12 PM
          you make me laugh CC.......(smiles and winks back!)
          • Re: Penis

            Thu, November 29, 2007 - 2:08 PM
            sweetness..alittle laughter dont hurt no one...just make sure the penis aint bent(LOL)
            • Re: Penis

              Thu, November 29, 2007 - 5:19 PM
              bent ones..hahaha!
              flip on your side so It can go in the right direction....

              If you dont have high standards ..you settle for less.....not meaning that a smaller man are less
              but if you know what you want..and like
              I dont see it as a bad thing....
              Men do the same ..we all do it....as long as your honest ...
              whats the point in getting into somthing youll regret later and hurt the person even more by not being upfront.... In my opinion
              upfront ..not insulting or evil about it...
              Talk between women is a different ballgame as it is with men....

              an oposite thread should be started so we can see the responses from you guys.....fun fun!
              • Re: Penis

                Fri, November 30, 2007 - 11:06 AM
                i agree with u jessy.....u hit that nail on the HEAD! (smile)
                • Re: Penis

                  Fri, November 30, 2007 - 11:28 AM
                  never said it was bad to have your high standards

                  Taz "firmly in the 50th percentile"
  • Re: Penis

    Thu, November 29, 2007 - 2:39 PM
    nice to know the standards of the women hear are well above average.

    taz
    • Re: Penis

      Fri, November 30, 2007 - 12:53 PM
      >"nice to know the standards of the women hear are well above average."

      Far as I can tell, the women, themselves, are above average too. Then again, I may just be hearing what average women have to say more fully. ; ')
  • Re: Penis

    Fri, November 30, 2007 - 12:30 PM
    In a nutshell... big enough for some firm friction and fit. Not so huge it wrecks the plumbing.
    • Re: Penis

      Fri, November 30, 2007 - 7:01 PM
      Bingo. There is a reason "average length" is what it is. Mileage may vary but if one strays too far to either side of the physical "average" options become limited
  • Re: Penis

    Sun, December 2, 2007 - 5:10 PM
    there seems to be a common belief that if a guy has a big dick he doesnt know what hes doing with it, speaking for men, i have to say im a bit miffed at the idea. i studied a long time to know how to please a women, read books, experimented, listened, researched, and practiced, and a few years ago i found out i was a bit on the big side, ( dont ask, i was naive, okay?) and now there seems to be a bit of a prejudice. now im glad i dont talk about my size. whats up with that ladies? should i start another thread?
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      Re: Penis

      Sun, December 2, 2007 - 7:57 PM
      Perhaps it is just too much for us to dream of, a man who is "blessed" and actually knows how to use it. Sail on Wolf, sweetie.
      • Re: Penis

        Sun, December 2, 2007 - 9:07 PM
        start another thread ...why not!
        conversation is good.

        Personally Ive only had one very large partner ..others between (6 and 7 thick and thin)
        and he was the worst one..... he hardly moved , he stayed hard for a shorter time..
        but I agree that it depends on the individual....
        In my opinion hes not a passionate person...
        He said it was great ..I beg to differ.
        • Re: Penis

          Sun, December 2, 2007 - 9:25 PM
          well i think i will, just not now, as im pretty busy lately, but id like to mention here that i konw that a lot of guys that are well endowed probably DONT bother to learn much about pleasing their women, but that cant be ALL well endowed men can it? for the longest time, i thought i was average at best and thought i had to overcompensate with skills to please my mate, and only after a long time did i come to realize that women werent just stroking my ego when they were telling me i was a bit on the largish side, ( yeah, i was a little slow, lol) butnow that i know im glad i spent so much time learning about how to please my mate. it DOES make a diference and i wouldnt give up my skills for anything, but ahving a big dick is nice too, lol, still getting used to it, its good ego fodder.
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            Re: Penis

            Mon, December 3, 2007 - 1:16 AM
            Damn, I hate it when I'm jealous of a woman I don't even know. It's so embarassing.
            • Re: Penis

              Mon, December 3, 2007 - 5:34 AM
              The aweful thing is that most men believe that a large tool is ALL they need and its not ....(yes Im generalizing )
              This guy I spoke about Is still a good friend(10yrs) and still will suggest getting together but Im not interested..
              its confusing to him because he thinks "his thing is all that" and IT IS.. his skills are not. (unless you just want to ride solo and exit)
              Its nice that you have taken time to learn...
              men are beautiful creatures anyhow ( shoulders , legs, strength, ect.) in my opinion ...
              • Re: Penis

                Mon, December 3, 2007 - 2:36 PM
                you know i had the same complaint about women for years, all that incredible beauty, and not a whit of ability in bed, ive been with some women that were knock outs but clueless in bed, and i have to say that is such a freaking turn off. its lik eafter seeing all that lovely flesh it somehow becomes just masturbation with someone elses body, might as well get a blow up doll. i can sympathize, really i can. i just dont understand the idea that if you LIKE sex, why not do all that you can to make it BETTER? isnt that a logical progression? damn, i dont think ill EVER stop learning about sex, and neither will my mate, we explore together, and that makes it SOOO much better.
                • The Golden Snatch

                  Tue, December 4, 2007 - 9:57 PM
                  Oh yeah, I hear you, Wolf.
                  Strait women, especially beautiful ones, suffer from a similar complex as that often found in men with big dicks. I call it the "golden snatch" syndrome. They think that showing up with a pussy automatically means they're the best thing since sliced bread and they don't need to do anything but lay back and be worshiped. It's fucking annoying.
            • Re: Penis

              Mon, December 3, 2007 - 2:56 PM
              >"Damn, I hate it when I'm jealous of a woman I don't even know. It's so embarassing. "

              I am laughing sooo hard, Pam.

              And the gentle-giant thread is a good idea, Wolf. Just because a guy has a big dick, doesn't make him a prick, with a capitol P.
              • Re: Penis

                Mon, December 3, 2007 - 5:37 PM
                I dont think that is what wolf is saying.( the prick comment).....
                your body or body parts does not automaticaly make you good at sex (great to look , at I agree 100%)
                , you have to want or like to do more . ...I truly understand that Wolf
                ....exploration is good..."you go boy!"
                • Re: Penis

                  Mon, December 3, 2007 - 5:52 PM
                  curious about this thread and some comments...
                  since when is using the word ass horrible but using the word dick or other words acceptable?
                  since when is fucking girls, boys and everyone under the sun(YES I used FUCKING) place you better than someone who does not have an extensive vocabulary?
                  since when does it matter what anyone looks like to post a comment?
                  Is this tribe or are we having tea ( pinky up and napkin on my lap ) at the white house?
                  for goodness sake were having fun and shooting the breeze, whats up with the condescension, WTF?

                  other than that everyone else is great!
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                    Re: Penis

                    Mon, December 3, 2007 - 9:26 PM
                    make you I meant not place you ...holy shit Im going to hung for that error.
                    • Re: Penis

                      Tue, December 4, 2007 - 9:38 AM
                      jessy im behind u 100% ..right on mama.!!!!! .fuck this..fuck that..;-) and what of it?! ..(LOl) naaaaaaaa but ur right..we r not here trying to get a job...we are just shooting the shit!!..oopps....did i say SHITTTTTTTTTTTTTTT !!!! (LOL) like i was saying..baby girl u are right...we here to talk..and have fun with it...so dont worry..u do u..and ill do me...(wink)and lets have FUN.
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                    Re: Penis

                    Tue, December 4, 2007 - 10:01 PM
                    Woah! Back up!
                    What is this in reference to?
                • Re: Penis

                  Tue, December 4, 2007 - 8:53 PM
                  >"there seems to be a common belief that if a guy has a big dick he doesnt know what hes doing with it, speaking for men, i have to say im a bit miffed at the idea."

                  J - I thought he was referring to a thread about that. My response was a lyric use of the word "prick", which means other things besides an obnoxious person.
    • Wandering Wolf

      Tue, December 4, 2007 - 9:53 PM

      You are the exception to the rule. My experience has been that most (though not all) men who have big cocks and know it think that all they have to do is bring the schlong and they've made their contribution. American's are so dick-obsessed I've had to beat it through a few thick skulls that being hung like a horse means you need to put in more work not less.
      The most telling trait I've noticed is that if the guy brags about how big his is don't bed him. The braggers are usually the ones who think that whipping it out is all that's required of them. You aren't the first gent I've met who is well endowed but didn't know it, and that relationship was wonderful except for a few "learning experience" missteps.
      I'd be interested to hear other ladies' experiences here though, so I vote for the new thread idea.
      • Re: Wandering Wolf

        Wed, December 5, 2007 - 8:43 AM
        ur right Myriad...
        on the whole subject,,,whats so funny...u stated about other guys swinging their 3rd leg like thats all it takes ....well! someone lied to them..and ur soooooooooo right on those that have big ones that must work. harded..one! cuz we would expect more or better,,,well i would ,,if he swings it like is made out of gold and it can touch my ass from why out from across the street(LOL) anyways u understand...
        but i think ..u chose the right words on that matter.,,and ANOTHER THREAD,,WILL BE GREAT.
      • Re: Wandering Wolf

        Sat, July 11, 2009 - 7:40 AM
        you know whats really anoying though? Its being a man with a big dick, and if its mentioned that youre blessed, its automaticaly assumed that thats ALL you are offerring, ( from women) and from men, it automatically puts them on the defensive and it LITERALLY turns intoa measuring contest, i HATE that, if just say something about my size in RL, to women i get treated like im an idiot that has no idea how to please a women in bed, and damnitt i STUDIED, ive read hundreds of books, logged hours of conversation, listening to EVERY complaint a women has about her lovers and practicing NEVER making such mistakes myself, i NEVER pressure a woman for sex, and i LISTEN and it just amkes all that effort seem worthless when a woman hears im blessed and completely loses interest cuz she thinks im bragging and im just like other guys with a big dick and no skills, damnitt i WORKED for my skills and im proud of them. And with guys , ANY mention of your size turn the conversation INSTANTLY into a measuring contest, and for gods sake who the HELL wants to listen to that all day, and i dont CARE if your bigger than me, im just saying im happy , ( for the first time in ages, ) with what i have and i want other people to say" Wow, thats great, good for you" and fucking go back to normal conversation, i just want a little recognition for all the stupid sufferring i tortured myself with when i was younger thinking i was average or less, and now realize ive got something i can be proud of.
        Its really actually pretty funny when you think about it.
  • Re: Penis

    Fri, December 21, 2007 - 11:11 AM
    BIG! I like the way the really big ones look.
    • Re: Penis

      Fri, December 21, 2007 - 11:19 AM
      Anne i have 9.5" but my black friend has 15.5" he is 17 and 7'0" he is a sissyboy to
      • Re: Penis

        Fri, December 21, 2007 - 10:35 PM
        they do look nice but a bit too much for me........lol
        been there done that.
        • Re: Penis

          Sat, December 22, 2007 - 6:32 AM
          yeah, ive heard that before, too much is just too much, its one of the reasons im a little shy in RL about talking about things like that, to many women its just a turn off, and for guys they always think your bragging, and then get defensive, its just better to keep your mouth shut.
          Still, it IS nice as an ego booster.
          • Re: Penis

            Sat, December 22, 2007 - 3:50 PM
            Dont get me wrong ..its not a turn off and Im sure plenty of women that will enjoy a big one ...
            personally I just feel that you have to know how to use it and it wont be used in the same way a smaller guy will...depending on the woman.
            I dont like to feel like my bottom has been torn into a million pieces ..other women do.
            I prefer thick and a bit long ( seven is ideal)
            I think its fine to mention your size if thats the topic and it is.
            • Re: Penis

              Sun, December 23, 2007 - 1:43 PM
              im a little over 10, and about 5&1/2 around, soo, as long as its only on here i guess, lol, though i relal ythink this topic has been done to death, i think ive posted my size on here wayyyy to many times in the past, jsut makes me feel a littel bit weird, like one of those gus that cant stop talking about thier dicks. thats soo not me, i dont MIND the topic, but when its been done too many times, it just gets uncomfortable.
              • Re: Penis

                Sun, December 23, 2007 - 8:58 PM
                no worries W..your fine..and AS long as the topic keeps popping up ..someone out there wants to know...
                that thickness sounds great...I had a 10 with probably 6 inches around only once and it was good ( not his skills)... a times it was a bit uncomfortable ...but again
                if the guy knows how to use it it can be nice without hurting anyone ..unless the lady is into pain....lol
                9 -10 is a good size for the man to be in back or positions where you need the reach....the width is good period.
                • Re: Penis

                  Sun, December 23, 2007 - 9:16 PM
                  lucky me, lol, thats where i like it the best too. plus i understand thats where the woman enjoys a lot more as well .
                  just makes shopping for boxers a bit of a challenge.
              • Re: Penis

                Mon, December 24, 2007 - 9:40 PM
                >"this topic has been done to death,"

                No shit! Yet it just keeps returning. FYI - the "average" penis size is around 6 inches. Yeh, I was surprised to learn that too. All the time I wondered how I "measured up" I never suspected I was bigger than most. But, hey, even if I had a foot-long dick there is always a bigger one somewhere out there. So what? I want my lover to feel like I'm the sweetest she'll ever have, not the biggest.
                • Re: Penis

                  Tue, December 25, 2007 - 6:08 AM
                  you know what ive found to be the biggest turn on for women? ATTENTION! when youre having sex, just go in there with an all consuming passion to make her come as many times as you can, and to make each and every one JUST the way she wants it at the moment,do that and youll always get repeat action, lol, make HER happy and shel want you to come back more and more often, makes everyone happy, no matter WHAT your dick size. youd think this would be obvious.
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                    Re: Penis

                    Wed, December 26, 2007 - 12:53 AM
                    Hell, I'll even put up with a lot of mediocre sex if the gent seems genuinely interested in everything I have to say and curious to know about me on a deeper level. Yep, I'm an absolute sucker for attention.
                    • Re: Penis

                      Wed, December 26, 2007 - 5:15 PM
                      i think peoplem in general just want to be respected for who they are, and for what they ahve to offer, i thought that kind of thing was obvious. everyone watns to be treated nicely. everyone wants a little positive attention, i dont understand why it seems so hard for people to treat one another with a more or less decent attitude. we're all suckers for attention.
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    Re: Penis

    Sun, January 6, 2008 - 8:09 PM
    Honestly? I don't care about the length/girth of a male's penis. I am more interested in what he can do with that organ. (Just because it's big, fellas, doesn't mean you automatically know how to use it./Just because it's small, fellas, doesn't mean you can't make it work like a rock-star.).

    I am MOST interested in the man "behind" the penis.

    But that's just me.

    H.
  • Re: Penis

    Sun, March 16, 2008 - 10:57 AM
    For starters...6 inches and lots of girth!!
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      Re: Penis

      Thu, May 29, 2008 - 9:26 PM
      Shells: "For starters...6 inches and lots of girth!!"
      Continue..What comes after "for starters" description.
      I'm not being a smartass. I'm just curious.
      Betcha
      • Re: Penis

        Tue, July 14, 2009 - 9:04 AM
        Okay, when I am in the shower and look down,,,

        I can still see my toes,,, and that other thingy,,,,

        and my largest sex organ is my brain ,,,


        yes, sometimes it is about the attention your partner recieves,,,

        and it is about the man behind the penile missle

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