Usually if the man thinks he's all that because he's got a big dick...HE AIN'T...believe me!!!

Sex is like any other interaction, it takes communication, coordination, cooperation, and a connection. No matter what goodies you bring to the "table", unless you put them to use they are just decoration.

I remember being at a swingers club. I was taking a breather and sitting in a quiet area by the fireplace. An older couple came in and he had her lay on a platform, naked and he knelt between her legs. He went to work feasting on her and his skills were impressive. However, she just laid there. No enthusiasm, no show of interest, no feedback whatsoever. He must have been used to it because he didn't complain. After far to long she let out a small whimper and about that time I was summoned back to the action. He might still be there for all I know, trying to get a rise out of her. Sheesh.

I wonder if he would have put her on her hands and knees and smacked her ass when she was lethargic if things would have progressed better. One will never know.

I think this happens because people worship those with special gifts therefore they become conditioned. So the big dicked dude and the golden pussy gal can hardly be blamed

there is something about the question I don't understand: A big dick is pretty obvious for what it is. What makes for a golden snatch? If it isn't doing more than any other, why in the world does one think it is so valuable?? Every fem has a pussy but not every guy has a big dick. So, what exactly makes for the golden snatch? Or is it just that ANY pussy is supposedly such a prize? I am not saying a big dick is the bomb. I just don't get the "Golden" description.