will have to

topic posted Sun, November 19, 2006 - 12:22 PM by  23rd djin
see what i can find.



i already understand that the answers are all around me...



but i've forgotten what all of the questions were...
  • Re: will have to

    Sun, November 19, 2006 - 12:32 PM
    crap! my first question is what are the questions?!? man you don't start easy do you?

    (o:

    I guess the first question is...what question keeps coming up?
    • Re: will have to

      Sun, November 19, 2006 - 12:38 PM
      i HAVE no easy questons...

      the ones that keeps coming coming up are "why?" and "what next?", but even those will have to wait until i can whittle them down into a more fully formed set...
      • Re: will have to

        Sun, November 19, 2006 - 4:29 PM
        why ask why?

        heh I know it sounds like a running gag..but seriously what are you wanting to know the why of? and why do you want to know? because I think the why can be totally important to keep from doing things again and again...but when you are overwhelmed or at the begining it seems like asking why gets you swirling into stuff that is too much and won't help. I think it's better to ask "what is?" It's more concrete. What is right now? then you might have something concrete enough to stand on and look for the foothold in "what next?" although sometimes I think once you figure out what is the what next just starts happening.
        • Re: will have to

          Sun, November 19, 2006 - 5:08 PM
          Man, do I ever agree with you SV!

          Once I stopped caring so much about the "whys" and just started focusing on *what is* and *what should be* the whys either started to answer themselves or just disappeared, because it wasn't really important.

          I've got to a place in my life when I rarely ever ask why anymore and I'm a much happier, well-adjusted person.

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