Yeah I would try the ergo with the legs scrunched in the bottom trick (instead of putting legs out the sides keep them curled next to your body works for newborns only!). Or wrap baby in an infant insert or baby blanket and try the ergo infant hold. Another suggestion assuming your using a moby like wrap would be to make sure the fabric on top of each shoulder is spread out to distribute the weight. I remember the fabric getting scrunched up there and that pressure on a smaller part of my shoulder/neck was painful. I'm sorry if this is unclear. I'm sure if you google the moby wrap directions or the ergo babywearing instructions you can come across more detailed descriptions of what I'm trying to convey.