Interesting. It seems "time," as we know it, is becoming more flexible.

Here's what I suggest. The next time this happens, pull out the old notebook and rewrite the scene, playing all the parts yourself, in a way that pleases you.

Then see what happens! (In case you are worried about manipulating anybody else....which is a foolish business, I'm sure you agree...then end your writing with the words: "For the good of all, according to free will.") Then just let it go and see what the Time-Angels do with it. :-)

I'm not sure if this will help as I am very new at dealing with any of this ( other that pretending it's not really happening like Grandma told me to). I had a similar situation where I had a friend over and said something to him that set me off. I had remembered the whole scene before and it ended in a VERY bad way. I told my friend exactly what I had remember before (having fun with a no believer) and one key point. I told him my husband was going to come home early. HE having just spoken to my hubby was saying "No he just said that they were going to work late". I decided to keep the ending to my self and instead of following the pre-remembered (?is that a word?) steps I grabbed my cleaning bucket and a tacked my bathroom. My hubby did come home early, and we had a lovely evening together. I will not state what the other ending was as I'm afraid of giving it a second chance.
If you find yourself in that situation,and don't like where you know things are going, take steps to change it. You will feel a difference in your self and surroundings when you have changed things. At least I did. It was like I went from surreal back to real.
I hope that helps.