Oooh, that's a tough one! My homie, Udit would probably have some good advice on this dilemma....my advice would be just get all the videos you can for drilling and dancing to satisfy your bellydance withdrawals. I think if I were in your situation I would miss the camaraderie with my dance pals the most and that would not be easily satisfied with cyber-dancers and videos. There has to be something within driving distance so that you could get an occasional fix?? Even a 4 or 5 hr drive every couple of months to see a show or take a class might have to make it's way into the budget if it were me.
Congrats on the wedding! We miss you and I sure hope you find a way to keep dancing!