Men touching the Milkers

topic posted Tue, February 10, 2009 - 10:11 AM by  Shells
More than half of the male population have no idea how to caress a breast other than using them for visual stimulation

Women, let's let them in on some secrets.

I for one love mine kneaded like dough from the bottom up, lift them, tenderly press, roll them, circle the nipple with your fingers or tongue, gently suckle on the nipple and adore them, gently squeeze, squeeze, squeeze.

None of this, slapping them like their punching bags or cow udders, pinching the nipple uncontrollably (that hurts) or tweeking them because you think it funny.
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  • Re: Men touching the Milkers

    Wed, February 11, 2009 - 12:20 PM
    Oh, how I wish I were in Ohio, and could take lessons in person. At least then I would know exactly how you want yours touched. I have found that it differs from person to person, though. I have always been gentle, touching much like you describe. Then I run across a woman who says I'm not rough enough with them. I would be pinching her nipples so hard it was uncomfortable for my fingers, and she wanted them pinched harder. I did what I could to make her feel good, but it actually turned me off to abuse a breast that way. As for the slapping and punching, I think people need to understand that porn is not an accurate depiction of real life. I don't even like to watch that kind of porn. A woman is to be loved, revered, treated tenderly, not something to beat up and slap around.
    • Re: Men touching the Milkers

      Thu, February 12, 2009 - 2:28 AM
      I agree fully with Lester here. They should be treated with love and affection, but one should also take notice of what the woman in question actually likes. Communication is the best way forward to find the small little tricks that differs from woman to woman, but I would normally do it the way Shells describe it. I have met women that like to have them gently pinched or even bitten, but not as hard as you describe Les. That would not turn me on either. I just love to play with them gently and I think it is important that the owner of the "milkers" feel the affection I have for her wonderful breasts
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    Fri, March 13, 2009 - 2:13 AM
    I've always loved to slowly caress a ladies nipple with the palm of my hand. I flex my hand until its stretched then gently rotate it round the nipple until it becomes erect. Mmmmmm lovely
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    Fri, March 13, 2009 - 1:01 PM
    I agree with Lester and that it's a matter of feedback. Being cautious when you start out fondling her body and stay alert for those subtle reflexes that tells you yay or nay. And yep it's that way with my jewels - pay attention to the center ring & the ring master. Peace
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    Sun, March 15, 2009 - 11:30 AM
    My adult life obsession with breasts started in adolescence when I imagined how I would like my breasts handled if I had been born a woman. I then experimented and asked for feedback. And I met woman who could do things to my nipples that would drive me crazy too which helped give some perspective. Pretty soon it became easy to tell when a woman was yawning or a woman was suddenly experiencing an unexpected orgasm. I did find that there was not an approach that works on all woman at all time. There are different preferences and different moments.

    I met a woman and we began fooling around in the hot tub at a friend's house one day. She had the hottest breasts, but within about 20 seconds and after several different experimental techniques it became obvious that she had sensitive breasts and didn't like anyone handling them. We went on to other activities and had much fun...just hands off on the breasts.

    I had a lover for a while. She had breasts that I would not normally stare at...almost non-existent. And she had hairy nipples. But, I could just breath on her breasts and she would almost have and orgasm. She just loved for me to suck on her nipples more than anything.

    Another woman wanted very gentle handling, caressing, etc. except at the moment of her orgasm. Then she wanted me to squish them very firmly...I couldn't figure out why this didn't hurt. I wouldn't normally be so rough, but she asked for it a lot.

    I could go on, but all I'm trying to point out is how different each woman's breast are and how learning what an individual likes and when is a great adventure. Thanks for bringing this up and sharing your perspectives. I always want to learn more about breasts and women.
    • Re: Men touching the Milkers

      Tue, June 16, 2009 - 8:43 PM
      The way to fondle breasts is almost as varies as breasts. Seems every woman is a bit different, like clouds in a summer sky.
      Begin firm but gentle and see how she responds. She will let you know. A sigh is as good as a wink , if your paying attention.
      • Re: Men touching the Milkers

        Wed, June 17, 2009 - 5:14 AM
        Fondle her sexy milkers they way she wants. One may like the nipples lightly touched and another may want a more steady suckling of the teats. Some females want the barely there feel and then an increasing intensity as they are more stimulated and the nips get erect. Go with what she wants when she wants it and you will both reap the benefits of this rewarding sensual experience. Always best when she can achieve a tit to clit experience.
  • Re: Men touching the Milkers

    Thu, June 18, 2009 - 7:37 AM
    I know I have to treat my wife's tits gentle and I never want to hurt her but sometimes her nipples are so sensitive (I see how she reacts), I can't touch them. Other times I can squeeze and suck them real hard and she likes it.
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    Sun, July 26, 2009 - 7:48 AM
    breasts should be handled with a tender, but passionate touch. i like to work them from top to bottom with hands and lips, kiss them all over, and suck them tenderly.
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    Sun, July 26, 2009 - 3:56 PM
    I used to love my breasts to be kneaded during my pms stage because they were so soar and it would feel so good. But eight years ago all the female organs were removed so now more tender tits. Of course playing gently and sucking on the nipple is a wonderful feeling, but I really like to have two hands grab at the base of one breast to make it look like a round globe. The breast is more sensitive to me this way. Then the nibbling and sucking on the nipple gives me a more intense pleasure. I also love circles with a tongue or a finger. I'm getting horny just talking about it
    • Re: Men touching the Milkers

      Mon, July 27, 2009 - 11:59 AM
      We'll just have to take care of that for you some time, my dear lady. My lady and I. It really is nice having them both loved at the same time.
      • Re: Men touching the Milkers

        Mon, July 27, 2009 - 12:50 PM
        Oh Lester, the thought Kat and you, one for each.... YAHOOOOOOOO!
        • Re: Men touching the Milkers

          Tue, July 28, 2009 - 12:40 PM
          Of course, we would have to each take one of hers for while, too. Then each of you take one of mine. Then,......Damn, I gotta go take another shower.
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            Wed, July 29, 2009 - 8:32 AM
            I'm with you, a shower indeed!
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              Wed, July 29, 2009 - 12:20 PM
              But the shower in the RV I live in is so small, I don't know if we would both fit. We would hardly be able to move, pressed up against each other like,.....Hey, wait a minute, it's starting to not sound so bad now that I think of it.
              • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                Sat, August 1, 2009 - 6:47 PM
                maybe we can try to keep the soap between our bodies so it doesn't drop on the floor. That means we would be really close, I like that : )
                • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                  Sun, August 2, 2009 - 9:39 AM
                  Soap can be really slippery. We would have to press our bodies together REALLY tight. I hate when that happens.
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                    Re: Men touching the Milkers

                    Sun, August 2, 2009 - 7:07 PM
                    exactly what I was thinking
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                      Sun, August 2, 2009 - 8:23 PM
                      I like the way you think, my dear. Now let's turn you around facing away from me, so we can hold the soap up against your back, and I can play with your breasts? Hey, do you think we should take this elsewhere, maybe get a room or something?
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                        Mon, August 3, 2009 - 2:15 PM
                        A room sounds good to me!
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                          Mon, August 3, 2009 - 2:52 PM
                          I need to get Kat to put her two cents in on this, my shower is so small it's going to be full contact for ALL of us.
                          • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                            Mon, August 3, 2009 - 10:16 PM
                            Maybe we can all just dance naked in the rain?
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                              Wed, August 12, 2009 - 1:37 AM
                              Is it room for me too
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                                Wed, August 12, 2009 - 8:34 AM
                                Like I said, it's a small shower, and there's going to be LOTS of body contact with more than one person in there. But with the proper lubrication, soap, I think we can get 4.
                                • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                                  Thu, August 13, 2009 - 12:10 AM
                                  or we can take turns being in there with the ladies. Full swap every 2 minutes
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                                    Thu, August 13, 2009 - 10:47 AM
                                    Oh my!
                                    • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                                      Mon, August 17, 2009 - 5:03 PM
                                      "Touching the Milkers"
                                      thats an odd way to express caressing her breasts, don't you think?
                                      The breasts seem to be one area where women vary greatly in what they prefer. Sometimes the same woman at different times or at different stages of sexual play likes her breasts to be touched differently.
                                      It can be quite confusing.
                                      To hard, to rough, be more gentle one minute, Harder, more, oh ya, the next.
                                      Gawd I love women.
                                      • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                                        Mon, November 2, 2009 - 8:44 PM
                                        "the milkers" huh? That's a new one one for me. I'm not sure whether I'm disgusted or intrigued.

                                        Let me get back to you on that.
                                        • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                                          Tue, November 3, 2009 - 2:49 PM
                                          Personally, I have never thought of breasts that way. And it's not a word I would use to describe them. Just my opinion.
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                                            Re: Men touching the Milkers

                                            Wed, November 11, 2009 - 12:09 AM
                                            I don't mind giving a lover a demo of how I like to be touched if he likes ;-) It is true that everyone is different and that certain times of the month can make a difference as well. Sometimes my breasts are very tender and must be handled with the utmost delicacy and gentleness. Most of the time I like to have my nipples circled with a finger as my npple hardens.

                                            I love to have them really explored and enjoyed. To have them lifted by the hands, the weight felt, traced gently to explore the shape, squeezed. The cleavage too should be revered and loved. Gently brush your face across and up and down the silky cleavage. Press them together and suck both nipples at once.

                                            I find with nipple sucking I often don't really feel it until the tongue is used firmly and a little more pressure is used. Maybe a light nibble or teeth grazing....

                                            I am also one of those ladies that likes a firmer touch the closer I am to climax. When I am trying to cum I really need my nipples tugged on and squeezed firmly, more than most men initially feel comfortable with, but it doesn't hurt at that point, it makes me orgasm even stronger. If done too soon it would hurt but it feels so good, I suppose that someone could squeeze much harder than they would think they should and it would cause intense pleasure!

                                            I loved the one posters comment about tit to clit. When my tits are handled I feel a shot of pleasure right to my pussy, like a laser! Mmmmmmmmm, gotta go play!

                                            Oh and tit slapping can be fun, for me anyway, and it doesn't hurt, it feels great. If my face were being slapped it would sting and hurt. Something about my breast tissue I guess!
                                            • Re: Men touching the Milkers

                                              Thu, November 12, 2009 - 4:36 AM
                                              I recognize a lot about what you wrote. Sometimes my wife's nipples are so sensetive, I can't touch them but mostly she likes it when I gently rub my fingers over nipples. And then she gets so horny and I start sucking them so hard and squeeze her boobies and it don't even hurt.
                                              Now about the titty slapping,I could try that out!
                                              Have a nice time.

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