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Intro Thread 'Switches -Greedy? Confused? Undecided?'

topic posted Fri, December 2, 2005 - 2:43 AM by  Unsubscribed
Hmmm...to be truthful, there was a time that I too, felt that switches were perhaps confused and or undecided or that it was a matter of not being able to decide which role you felt the most comfortable with (pretty naive, I know...LOL)

I have since become a true switch and I enjoy both roles equally. It is not a matter of not knowing what you want its a matter of knowing that you want...it ALL!!!!

So I guess I'll have to go with greedy! LOL

Laura

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  • Re: Intro Thread 'Switches -Greedy? Confused? Undecided?'

    Fri, December 2, 2005 - 7:25 AM
    Have to go along with the feelings that switches were a bit confused....couldn't make up their mind, but my experiences the past few months have completely changed my mind.

    Since really exploring my bottom half, I have come to realize that being restricted to just one role will never work for me again.

    And yes I want it all....;-)

    John
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    Re: Intro Thread 'Switches -Greedy? Confused? Undecided?'

    Sat, December 3, 2005 - 2:32 PM
    IMHO, people who proclaim that they can't switch are missing out

    to stay in one role all the time seems to me to be missing out of half of life

    though I do think most people have preferences, even people who regularly switch
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    • Re: Intro Thread 'Switches -Greedy? Confused? Undecided?'

      Sat, December 3, 2005 - 3:16 PM
      True Mandy, people have preferences but no one is one way 24/7 in my belief. Hell I know Im probably 90% one way but I am definitely greedy enough to switch for the other 10% ;)
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        Re: Intro Thread 'Switches -Greedy? Confused? Undecided?'

        Sat, December 3, 2005 - 3:19 PM
        It may be an unfair prejudice on my part, but at this point, anyone who tells me "I don't have a switch bone in my body" is someone I run from
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          Not a bone in my body

          Sat, December 3, 2005 - 3:24 PM
          Yea, I'm with you on this one. It is hard for me to imagine being 100.00% _anything_ at this point. There seems to be a variety of feelings and moods that I get into at various times. I'm finally to the point in my life where I try to take a good look at myself and see me for who I really am -- not for whom I want to be.
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    Re: Intro Thread 'Switches -Greedy? Confused? Undecided?'

    Tue, April 11, 2006 - 8:28 PM
    Hi all:

    Not that many years ago, burger munches were held on California Avenue in Palo Alto. And one of the prime movers there was named Stella. Stella, bless her heart, repeatedly posted (on alt.sex.bondage of course) that

    "If you are not a bisexual switch there is something wrong with you."

    I'm only sort of bisexual, bi-playsual is probably a better term for me.

    But I'm definitely a switch!

    g.
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    Re: Intro Thread 'Switches -Greedy? Confused? Undecided?'

    Fri, April 14, 2006 - 9:36 AM
    It is a hedonistic thing. I enjoy experiencing everything.

    I am polyamorous
    I am socially bi, meaning not romantically/emotionally bi but I love playing with all parts.
    I am a switch. I like the diversity and variety. I am probably 80-90% dominant but I feel alot of that has to do with not having met a really strong female dominant who can put me in my place and really mean it, not just play it. A strong, confident, take charge, no questions asked woman. Most male dominants outside of the gay community that I have met tend to be homophobic control freaks.
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