OK switches I need advice...

topic posted Fri, November 3, 2006 - 6:31 PM by 
So I came to the conclusion that I am just not giving into my bottom side.... HELP the only man I am interested in has only bottomed to me.... so I wanna switch I want it to be him....grrrrrrrr how does one bring it up that you want to bottom and its been WAY TOO LONG.

Not usually at a loss but this one ...... eeesh
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    Re: OK switches I need advice...

    Sat, November 4, 2006 - 9:51 PM
    There's always the "Hey! Let's try something different tonight!" approach. Flip a coin as to who tops. Start a wrestling match with him and let him...well you get the idea. Testosterone will ultimately win out if you get his competitiveness going. Then again, Ally, you could tone down the dominant side of your personality and play up the subbie side doing lots of things for him. Works for me <wink>
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    Re: OK switches I need advice...

    Sun, November 5, 2006 - 4:37 PM
    be honest and tell him, tell him how you feel, but be ready for what he tells you. I have a friend that is truly a sub and loves to be dominated and shows all kinds of public affection but she will never rise to the level and switch...so be prepared