i remember my bf going down on me when i was just 13. it was so amazing to me what he could do with that mouth of his. holy shit. he set the bar *really* high, i must say. one thing i miss about that really young oral sex was how naked i felt and how dirty it seemed that a boy had his head between <gasp> my legs!!! it seemed so much naughtier then, which was definitely part of its appeal. i still love receiving head, but it's never felt as novel or as erotic as it did when i was a wee one. now, i know it's hard to imagine a 13-yr-old having a fulfilling erotic life, but trust me. i was a pervert from at least age 5. by 13, i already felt i'd waited far too long for the pleasure of partner sex. i didn't experience penetration sex until i was 14 (different bf) and by then was pleased enough with the amount of sex i'd had to not feel that i'd waited too long for it. i think i was just the right age for all of it, exactly when all of it happened.

as to the question of giving instruction, well, it really depends. i tend to give feedback by a variety of intentional and unintentional ways. both of which consist primarily of little noises and squirming. sometimes i put my hand in my partner's hair, and tense my fingers ever so slightly to let them know (yes! that!) or other subtle gestures. despite all my perviness and audacity at times, i'm a quintessential bottom. i don't know that it's a natural tendency so much as a role i play in the bedroom. but even so, it's my favorite role, and my partner better be ready to dominate me and lead the way. so, i keep my talking to a minimum, but i *love* being talked dirty to more than almost anything else that goes on in bed.

i know in a lot of cases, this is not cool at all, but i'm only going to have a partner who i love and trust, so for me, it's also really hot when i'm sucking his cock if he periodically grabs my head and holds it where he wants it. especially while talking dirty. omg. like with receiving anal, it's not enough on its own to get me off, but it's a HUGE turn-on, and a really great part of building up my own arousal. (*note: this is part of the reason i don't prefer well-hung men. can't give the same oral pleasure to a man with a huge cock.)

Once had a gf who could swallow me whole! We broke up though, and even till this day I'm searching for her phone number.

Then I see some of these girls in porno, and think, "She could swallow my entire cock, plus my balls, and not even notice." I prefer it to at least LOOK like it's taking some effort.

Yeah, I remember being 13 and my boyfriend licked once and told me that it tasted funny! So he never did it again and then proceeded to ask me for a bj! So, I did the same thing to him!!!!!!!! I was furious!!!!

I remember my first blow job. I was seeing a girl privately who was engaged to someone else, and would marry him a few months later. We had dated a couple of times, and she let me know in the way that a girl can, that if I wanted some it was available. On a Sunday afternoon in my apartment,we both got naked and she gave me a rockem sockem blow job. I came in her mouth and she swallowed every drop. I still remember that as an all time high sexual experience.

My wife will toy around with sucking,as in getting me ready for the real thing, but she is grossed out by the thought of cum in her mouth.

I never give instructions to whoever is sucking my cock I just enjoy the sensation.
When I suck cocks or eat pussy I just do my best and if they offer suggestive cooments as to how they may want it done thats okay too as long as I get the cream and they get satisfied, man or woman.