Is it OK...........

topic posted Mon, April 28, 2008 - 6:38 PM by  Duge,
to compliment on a womans breasts that you don't know? Or is it wrong - ?
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    Re: Is it OK...........

    Mon, April 28, 2008 - 6:53 PM
    Or a sex club, or any place that more than one ladies breasts are out on display. I wouldn't reccomend doing this in the shoe department of your neighborhood Bloomingdales.
  • Re: Is it OK...........

    Mon, April 28, 2008 - 7:42 PM
    I would strongly advise against it. That's an area you NEVER comment on unless you know that woman very intimately and she's comfortable with such things.
  • Re: Is it OK...........

    Tue, April 29, 2008 - 5:47 AM
    I would have to agree that there is a specific place and time for compliments on breasts, since most women are probably going to read this not as a compliment, but as a euphemism for "I want to have sex with you." If you think you're in a situation where saying something like "Oh, I so want to hit that." would get you slapped, you probably shouldn't compliment her breasts, either.

    If, on the other hand, you're about to get intimate with a woman you don't know well, or if you're in a sex club or another place where the breasts are exposed or nearly exposed, then by all means, compliment away. They're on display, after all.

    Oh, and if you're online and there are photos of breasts or scantily clad pictures of someone available, that's usually also a safe time to offer compliments.
  • Re: Is it OK...........

    Tue, April 29, 2008 - 8:02 AM
    I love giving compliments to men and women but I am very careful to preface the compliments with "I'm not trying to hit on you but ....." I work with mostly guys so definitely don't want them to get the wrong idea.

    Me personally love any compliments I get but other women not so much!
    • Re: Is it OK...........

      Tue, April 29, 2008 - 10:28 AM
      I saw a woman the other day who was not 'conventionally' beautiful yet I found to be very attractive and VERY sexy. For a minute I thought I should say something to her. My thinking was that life is too short and too full of negativity and a random compliment from a stranger might bring some light to the darkness...then I chickened out.
  • Re: Is it OK...........

    Tue, April 29, 2008 - 11:42 AM
    I would say to a woman, "Excuse me, I don't mean to be fresh, but you have nice breasts." If she doesn't become offended, and if she laughs and blushes and say, "Why, thank you." and winks, then I know that I didn't offend her.

    Thanks,

    Sebastian
    • Re: Is it OK...........

      Tue, April 29, 2008 - 5:39 PM
      I think that it's okay to compliment a woman on anything above the neck--but going lower just seems to be TOO friendly. I am pretty sure that even *I* would not be very impressed with a guy that complimented me on my legs, my boobs or my ass, however if he said "you have the most gorgeous brown eyes" then I just melt (and this happened recently).

      How often do you hear a woman say to a guy she doesn't know "nice package." That would definetly come across as hitting on someone--guys might not mind, but it just lacks class (in my opinion).
      • Re: Is it OK...........

        Tue, April 29, 2008 - 5:46 PM
        i used to get "nice ass" all the time and sometimes nice package too and it's a great compliment
        so be it
        bring it on ladies .

        class or not .
        i'm not british .
        • Re: Is it OK...........

          Wed, April 30, 2008 - 11:41 AM
          I'm more likely to comment on her outfit.

          "Wow, you're looking great in that dress"
          "whew - Gorgeous sweater..."

          She gets the idea, she knows she's featuring cleavage or nipples or whatever, and it's not so overt.

          • Re: Is it OK...........

            Wed, April 30, 2008 - 12:48 PM
            I sometimes tell women that I think they are beautiful, particularly if I think their face is beautiful, I will say so specifically...

            They like it a lot....

            But that begs a question about appropriateness: so it's ok to tell a woman here face is beautiful but not her boobs...

            Just seems slightly in poor taste if if it's sort of random and out of context

            "Hey, nice boobs"

            Of course I have also complimented women on their hands.....and legs....

            Maybe the rule is that it can't be sexually related or a sexual organ.

            "Hey, great pussy"

            wouldn't fly I guess.

            ~V~
            • Verseau

              Thu, May 1, 2008 - 2:05 AM
              If you can easily see her pussy then I think you're likely in a context where that compliment would be fine.

              Me, I get "nice ass" a lot and it's never bothered me. I don't get "nice titts" as often, but I'm a B-cup so they aren't overly noticeable. I take it for the compliment it is so long as the guy doesn't then try to get creepily over-familiar with me, but most women will not take it as a compliment.
              • Re: Verseau

                Thu, May 1, 2008 - 10:35 AM
                But if a woman has fakies and is showing them as much as she can without offending the church goers. I would think that a comment would do nothing but make her smile.
                • Re: Verseau

                  Thu, May 1, 2008 - 11:19 AM
                  you're probably right. Generally if they are out there for all to see you would probably be safe. If she has fake ones she probably got them for the attention. Unless there is a medical reason i.e. masectomy for them. It is a touch and go - no pun intended - issue. I would look at every situation before I said something.
              • Re: Verseau

                Thu, May 1, 2008 - 1:45 PM
                well, as a woman wearing a 38DD (and all mine!)..."uh, sir, my face is up here..." (yes, corsets are my friends)

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