Eh, huh. I've been part of several threesomes and nobody was ever coerced. I don't know anybody who was ever part of a threesome they felt they were coerced into participating in. I can't tell you stats, because I'm not even sure there's been ANY research on this topic, but that has certainly not been my personal experience.

I've been in a couple threesomes, but I promise...I was NOT coerced(did I spell that right?lol)!!! I think married swinging is the way to go if that's what you are into...but it is NEVER cool to feel forced into ANYTHING especially sex!!! No is NO!!! And the asker needs to quit askin once you're told NO!!! But I've enjoyed the hell outta experiences.

OK the threesomes we have been involved in, was always my wife who initiated it, there was diffidently no coercing part of it.

It was all a very great experiences. Brought our marriage even closer together.

So Kelly you haven't told your opinion, or if you had any experience with any threesomes. Inquiring minds want to know :-)

Oh gosh... Someone agreed to have sex and then didn't like the sex...boo-hoo...

I can tell you that if the three-way was between that woman, Jake Gyleenhaal, and myself she'd be singing like an opera diva...

I would never get involved in a situation unless everybody said they wanted to, and it felf like they wanted to, and they acted like they did, etc. What I was taught is " If its not an obvious "yes", its a clear "no"."

I was in a series of laboratory courses where exercises and homework were mostly two women and a man, and it was terrific - I had three lifetime best experiences. It seemed like the energy flowed back and forth and the two ladies acted like amplifiers of each other's turn-on. [One of the most important ground rules of the course was that no one was to do anything they didn't want to do]. There was always a hand or pair of hands to help with a pillow or squeeze some lube or refill a wine glass. Also having three people there kept everything very "clean" - everybody was always on their best behavior cause there was always a third party (witness) present.

The very first time I was ever in a threesome, the other gal was definitely coerced though it took me a little while to figure it out. At one point she reached over and put her hand on my back, realized it was *my* back, said "Oh excuse me!" and pulled back. I knew right then that I was in the wrong place. When her boyfriend left briefly to go to the restroom, she practically *begged* me not to have intercourse with him... Hey, no problem! I just wanted out of there - unfortunately it was my bedroom and I was by no means confident enough to stand up and change the situation. Mind you, we were kids - 15 (me, and still a virgin), she 16 and he 18 - and nothing really went on.

The next threesome I got involved with went MUCH better, I assure you! *Grin*

i have had my fun with mmf threesomes. now that i have become more emotional about my guy, the thought of another guy touching me repulses me. now i cant say that if the situation were ripe that i would turn it down.
with ffm threesomes, im not very secure in my emotion with my guy to let everything go, we have had one, and i was ok with it. kind of funny how it turned out actually. but id have to let go of issues, and or set up stricked rules before hand. nothing major, but just things that would make me feel better. maybe in time ill be able to let go of my issues.

*Chuckling to self*, coerced..ha, there was some desire to be a part of it or they simply wouldn't participate. There is a bigger chance of feeling left out I would think. I've had a few three ways of both configurations in my life time and for the most part liked them all, some I would have spent the rest of my life with. But alas, even I who despise *jealousy* and all the maturations of it, fell to it when my GF went out of town with one of our friends, a lady. I was so sticken I never spoke to her again and was married to another infour months. Impulsive I guess...ahhh what could have been. lol Don't allow any of the participents t feel left out....ever! You are a radically cool woman Kelly. I like.

While I did not view the referenced broadcast, I have had some experience with threesomes.

Strangely enough, my first experience was with two other women. I was a relative novice at it and didn't know what to do... so I basically did what they told me to do. Both women helped undress me, then lay me down on the bed. Both pairs of hands began caressing and touching me all over. They kept telling me what they were going to do to me next and kept asking how it felt to have different parts of my body played with at the same time. To tell you the truth, I was a little nervous... but never coerced… and I was so wet by that time that it didn't even matter anymore. Everything they did to me, they did together and they kept asking if I like it. After a while, one of them acted as my teacher and told me what to do with the other woman. Then, we switched around. God, it was so hot.

Later, in subsequent fff and ffm, encounters, it was I who did the “instructing” and I derived a great deal of pleasure from it. In fact, the kinkier those encounters grew, the more I seemed to enjoy it. I suppose in some small way you could attribute my later interest in BDSM to many of those experiences.

Threesomes with couples in a committed relationship can be a real turn-on -- with the right people and under the right circumstances.

I had one threesome experience where the husband insisted on watching his bi-curious wife. That she was uncomfortable made me uncomfortable and the whole thing ended up to be a one giant disappointment for both of us.

There was another where the husband insisted on watching. His wife wasn't thrilled about the idea but agreed to it anyway. Well, when it eventually turned out that she became more interested in being with me than with him, he became jealous and regretted ever having "watched" in the first place.

On the plus side, I had a experience last winter where a bi-curious wife and I actually mapped out her entire fantasy -- the clothes she pictured each of would wear, the bar setting she imagined where (as complete strangers) I would run into her and her husband, what we would say to one another and how I would "make a move on her" in front of everyone, the kind of hotel room accommodations we would arrange, the bath and full-body massage I would give her, the choice of wine, the scented candles, the seductive lingerie she picked out for me to wear, the dance I performed for her, the toys, the oils, the touching, her husband's later participation, and everything else. Seeing how it made her feel to actually live out that fantasy made it one of the hottest experiences I ever had.

Although I would not come to learn the truth about it until some time after the encounter, I also participated in a threesome with a mother and daughter and, at another point in time, with a brother and sister (which I did know about up front)… but I’ll save those accounts for another time.