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Number of Encounters?

topic posted Wed, September 9, 2009 - 2:54 PM by  Tigressa 		Share/Save/Bookmark
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So much talk of great sex on this tribe, I just love it! So do any of you remember the names of all of your encounters, or were there just to many to remember?
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  • Pinky
    Pinky
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    Re: Number of Encounters?

    Wed, September 9, 2009 - 3:42 PM
    I don't remember every name, mainly because I didn't get every name; some of them I only know by vague descriptions that really only make sense to me, but it's another way to remember them. I started a list when I was 17 or 18, and managed to put them all in chronological order, and was even able to specify which ones I'd given oral to, which I'd received oral from, which I'd had vaginal penetration with, and which I'd experienced anal with (once I started), even though it had been about 3-4 years since I started listing in my head. I lost the hard copy for a while, and when I started it back up again there had already been a few encounters that slipped through the cracks.

    But last time I counted...it was something like 37 or 38.
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  • Lester
    Lester
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    Re: Number of Encounters?

    Thu, September 10, 2009 - 7:45 AM
    Well, I've been married most of my adult life, and never cheated. But there was the period of my life that I was married but allowed to do whatever I wanted. Had some fun there. The only period in my life where I had numerous encounters was right out of high school, when I traveled the country doing motorcycle stunts for a living for a year and a half. The stupid young girls that wanted to be with a bad boy were numerous then, and I don't remember ANY names.
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    Re: Number of Encounters?

    Thu, September 10, 2009 - 11:22 AM
    A few years ago, a close friend from high school described an amazing weekend beach trip, filled with fun people, hilarity, high jinks, and (as always) unrequited teen romance. I bemoaned, "Wow, I should have been there for that!" and got the response "You were! Don't you remember?!"

    Ever since, to compensate for my increasingly faulty memory, I've started keeping lists. Lists of everything, lovers included.

    I can look down that list of names and remember each of them, how we met, the nature of our relationship, my feelings at the time, and how things ended. If I had to recreate that list from scratch, though, I'm sure I'd leave some holes. But that's what lists are for.
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    • Tigr...
      Tigressa
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      Re: Number of Encounters?

      Thu, September 10, 2009 - 3:42 PM
      Hell lists are the only way I remember anything these days. Good idea, but I don't want anyone to see my list. Just today I thought of someone else that was on my list, I didn't write it down, and now I don't remember. It will come back to me some day, maybe?

      Oh I remember this one guy that I so wanted to be his first, he couldn't keep it hard, but he entered me, does that count as sex? That wasn't the guy I was thinking about earlier. Now I got my brain working to try to remember.
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      • Ct
        Ct
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        Re: Number of Encounters?

        Thu, September 10, 2009 - 4:07 PM
        Truely lol, my god I'm sixty six years old and I know I've slep with four woman a year for at least, many more in my 20's and 30's, what is that 42 times 4 at least, plus three sweet ladies this year. Nope, I cannot remember them all. There are a few I would have crawled through ten miles of dodo to be with them the rest of my life and I can't remember them. Simply siad, I do love and appricate woman. Pinky your a riot, Tigr you are wonderful.
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        Re: Number of Encounters?

        Thu, September 10, 2009 - 4:46 PM
        Awww, Tigressa, that's so sad for him that he had the chance for you to be his first, but didn't get to fully savor the experience! :-( That boy is probably kicking himself to this day.

        I'd say if he entered you, you could technically include him on your list. But should he have still considered himself a virgin...?
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        • Re: Number of Encounters?

          Thu, September 10, 2009 - 5:08 PM
          I not only remember all the names, but most of the birthdays, and all of the eye colors, and all of teh particular differences in their genitalia. I also learned something about life and love from each, and still think of each, if not romantically, at least with a soft spot somewhere in my psyche, and a vague kind of caring for their happiness But, it must be said, I have never had sex with someone whom I did not love, at least at the time.
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          • Tigr...
            Tigressa
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            Re: Number of Encounters?

            Thu, September 10, 2009 - 6:39 PM
            David you have a heart of gold : ) It's really nice to hear that!
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            • Aleph
              Aleph
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              Re: Number of Encounters?

              Sun, September 13, 2009 - 6:14 AM
              what someone posted about only having sex with someone he loves at least at the time...HA! Men love to lie to us, and even to themselves.
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              • Tigr...
                Tigressa
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                Re: Number of Encounters?

                Sun, September 13, 2009 - 9:53 AM
                Aleph
                You have a good point there, and women believe what they want. I tend to not take anything a horny man says to seriously, I just go with the moment. Idon't know if the statement that men LOVE to lie to us is accurate though. Love is a strong word, maybe they just lie, or aren't completely honest, to women or themselves. It comes down to them needing to satisfy their sexual urges.

                If a guy were to say: you have the most beautiful tits I have ever seen. Would I believe him? Hell no, I don't think he is really lying, in his mind. But at that moment he isn't thinking about all the tits in the world he has seen. He is however enjoying looking at my tits, and thinking that they look good. Does this make sense? Only my opinion though!
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                • Trev
                  Trev
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                  Re: Number of Encounters?

                  Sun, September 13, 2009 - 10:55 AM
                  Guilty as charged, damn it.
                  Honest, we really do love you (at the time). It's just the snoring, waking up to your teeth in a glass, and having to get YOU a coffee after I did all the work.
                  Joking apart, all you say is true. And we do feel guilty, for a few minutes.
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                    Tigr...
                    Tigressa
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                    Re: Number of Encounters?

                    Mon, September 14, 2009 - 8:37 AM
                    No need to feel guilty about anything in my opinion. It's all because of our sexual needs, and I have to admit that it does go both ways. I myself have not always been totally truthful because I am so horny I just want it, so give it to me!
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                • Aleph
                  Aleph
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                  Re: Number of Encounters?

                  Mon, September 14, 2009 - 10:22 AM
                  Ok, then love is too strong a word for a man to use when he says he's loved every woman he's ever had sex with, at least at the time. There's no heart of gold in the comparing of genitalia either. I wouldn't trust a man like that.
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                    Lester
                    Lester
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                    Re: Number of Encounters?

                    Mon, September 14, 2009 - 1:04 PM
                    You have to take things said by both men and women as what they really are, in the heat of the moment. Not always entirely accurate, to say the least. Like when a woman tells me how big I am when I'm inside her. Yeah, right. But what am I going to do, complain about it? No, I tell her she has the most beautiful tits I've ever seen. She can believe me if she wants to, or she can take it as my way of saying, "I really like what we're doing right now." Complete and total, raw, uncensored honesty is not always the best policy.
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                    • Alchemy
                      Alchemy
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                      Re: Number of Encounters?

                      Mon, September 14, 2009 - 5:04 PM
                      Complete and total, raw, uncensored honesty is not always the best policy.

                      - I agree.

                      But why not just say "I am so enjoying your tits" or "I really like what we're doing right now." ?
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  • Re: Number of Encounters?

    Thu, September 10, 2009 - 8:44 PM
    At almost 60, after being a slut for 46+ years, after 10 years in gay radical and anonymous sex, the numbers are staggering. Remembering even a few names would be amazing.

    I'm lucky if I remember the names of my current fuck buddies and intimates, LOL!

    Hugs,

    Rig Daddy
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    • Endy...
      Endymion
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      Re: Number of Encounters?

      Fri, September 11, 2009 - 2:34 AM
      All of them, and i still miss some of them, although i haven't had allot, maybe six or so because casual sex isn't healty for me, i get attached the minute i sleep with a woman.

      I once slept on the first date with a woman, she was afraid afterwards that she was being used, i just laughed (i got the looks that kill :P) because i knew she would not think that anymore in a month's time.
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  • coco
    coco
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    Re: Number of Encounters?

    Wed, September 16, 2009 - 7:55 AM
    dont always remember the names :P but I remember all the acts. I try something memorable that's unique to that person at the time helps me that way.

    I really dont even bother if I think the sex could possibly be an mediocre. Because I'd rather be elsewhere than waste time on something just soso for either of us
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  • Fun ...
    Fun Times
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    Re: Number of Encounters?

    Sun, October 18, 2009 - 1:45 AM

    Way too many to remember. Hundreds. I did write a list a few years back. While I did remember quite a few names, for many I had to write down something else that remembered them by. To me thoughts of many of these women brought back such good memories that I masterbated a few times while writing the list and a few times later while reading it. Unfortunately, a girlfriend found the list and threw it out.
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    • Über...
      Übersatan XXIII The Gryphonheart
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      Re: Number of Encounters?

      Mon, October 19, 2009 - 9:20 PM
      "Unfortunately, a girlfriend found the list and threw it out."

      Jealous bitch! She'll burn in Hell for that. Snooping can be forgiven but not the wanton destruction of good jerk material. Women have no sense of value. I hope you reminded her of that fact as you jizzed in her Prada shoes instead of on your conquest list.
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      • B. W.
        B. W.
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        Re: Number of Encounters?

        Wed, October 21, 2009 - 6:53 AM
        I've had many sexual encounter while I was single. not while being married because the relationship stopped when she stropped trusting me. Only because I have 30year old friendships. I've enjoyed many encounter, but men and fem. Men more fun and relaxed, women were just in it for sex and that was it. I hate ONS (one night stands). Men on the other hand, seem like we had fun all the time. No one night stands. Always meaningful relationship. Many friendhships made.
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