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Hi everyone
I am 51, female, married, wine distributor by day, photographer on the side. I want o to go to 2010 BM but hubby and friends do not want to go. How would it be for me to go by myself? Thought it would be great to volunteer to meet people. I have worked in restaurants for over 20yrs previously to being a wine distributor. Not sure about sleeping arrangements for myself or how to join a camp. Do the volunteers camp together? Thx!
I am 51, female, married, wine distributor by day, photographer on the side. I want o to go to 2010 BM but hubby and friends do not want to go. How would it be for me to go by myself? Thought it would be great to volunteer to meet people. I have worked in restaurants for over 20yrs previously to being a wine distributor. Not sure about sleeping arrangements for myself or how to join a camp. Do the volunteers camp together? Thx!
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sun, October 18, 2009 - 3:36 PMi dont know how it works cause im a virgin too, but i will camp with you if you need. :) i wish you luck on your journey, perhaps i will see you out there!!! -
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sun, October 18, 2009 - 6:14 PMOK.....let me give you both your first bit of education.
Camping in a group, or theme camp, is one way toget 'into' the many activities that Black Rock City has to offer, and there are a LOT of them. There's even a village for KIDS (Kidsville). The high traffic areas (Esplanade, major nodes) of the city will be gone by the time you get there, but never fear - these locations are where some of the best theme camps are. The larger the group, the more people you'll learn to get along with. Tasks will be shared, you'll make new friends, and you'll all fight your worst enemy, the dust. Don't worry....you'll lose that battle. Your main concerns will be WATER, sun and the associated heat, and distances between other camps and events.
You won't see everything your first year. But you will have opportunities that will surpass your wildest dreams and hopes.
If you're in a regional Burningman enclave, go to the regional burn, make new friends, and camp with your new regional buddies. That's a start. -
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sun, October 18, 2009 - 9:35 PMAnd, for those who are new to Burning Man, I'd like to recommend the Lamplighters. See
www.burningman.com/particip...hter.html
for an introduction link. I won't go into detail (the links give quite enough), but I will say that they are both a great group and a great way to be introduced to the playa.
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sun, October 18, 2009 - 10:59 PMthank you so much rhino....you are awesome....i really hope i get to meet you out there. you seem like a very special person. i like reading your stuff. heard about the hugs...maybe ill earn one some day. :)
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Fri, October 23, 2009 - 11:43 AMRhino covers most of what is needed to know but I will add that on the main website is usually the link to the theme camps of the previous year. The theme camps of this year will typically be listed 2 months before the burn, you can go through the old and new and look for large camps with email addresses. Feel free to write them to ask if they will continue this year and you are able to join them, or wait until this year's camps are registered and ask to join.
I would say that if you want to go do not deny yourself because people you know are not interested. We have taken people who had no one to go with and they had a great time and i know others who have done the same with people local to them. -
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sat, October 24, 2009 - 8:43 AMAs a 50 yr. old woman, I want to add that one of my few regrets in life is that I didn't go to Burning Man sooner. I found out about it in around 1998 and, because I didn't know anyone who went it took me until 2003 to get there. And my first thought when i set foot on the playa was...I could've done this by myself. My last thought, as I was leaving the playa was, I'm coming here for the rest of my life.
So be prepared for the elements...and get there as soon as ya can! -
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sat, October 24, 2009 - 8:47 AMthanks for that post, Neon! :-) it's inspiring for me :-) -
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Fri, October 30, 2009 - 9:44 AM>>thanks for that post, Neon! :-) it's inspiring for me :-) <<
Yes, soon you too will be assimilated into the hive collective. Neon does our work admirably. :P
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sun, November 1, 2009 - 12:50 AMWelcome Julie, jonathan, Fanci … I wanted to go to BM for years. Read all I could find but didn't know anyone. Finally at age 50 I just decided I was going. No excuses. Alone if necessary. I ended up camping "alone" with Hushville. Rather than so much as a theme camp, its really more a village of people doing their own things, just without generators and sound systems. At least for me it was the perfect place for a virgin. A lot of new friends, and family. I was much more self-reliant than being part of a camp, but never felt like I was on my own. For me it was a good fit. You can "meet" folks here on Tribe and maybe find a camp you click with. Also seek out Burners in your hometown and find folks you'd like to camp with that way.
As far as volunteering, I did ice sales at Arctica my first year. Hey, what better place to be during the heat of the day than in the shade with tons of ice? Also gave me a chance to meet hundreds of burners briefly, and a dozen crew mates for several hours. Other than showing up on time, there's no preparation required.
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Sun, November 1, 2009 - 1:51 AMJeff is 100% correct on Arctica. And there's not just one....there's an ice vendor on 3:00 plaza, 9:00 plaza, and one at center camp. Lamplighters is also a good fit for a first-timer.
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Re: Virgin here, volunteer for 2010
Wed, November 4, 2009 - 6:38 PMJulie, from my experiences, your starting off on the right foot by putting it out u want to help. My biggest recommendation is get involved with the local Burn Community and avail yourself to them( this has taught me sooo much and helped me meet a lot of kool people most especially Gigi. you would be surprised what happens when it comes down to burn time what people need and ask for and boom your in. As far as Sleeping arrangements, unless you can go with someone you trust my recommendation is Sleep "stag" ( not sure what the feminine term is for going alone as a female,lol) i wont say that BM is fraught with complete stupidity and wrong doing but im sure you know how a group of humans can get especially when they are having just a little too much fun to handle ;). That said, from my observations, people are usually pretty kool about helping us virgins out even if they might pull a few "newbie" jokes on us to make us "one of them" but its all in good fun.
Finally, and likely the most important bits,read eat and live the official BM Survivor guide from the website if you can find a veteran Burner from your area, preferably a woman as only woman know what a woman needs so to speak and learn as much as you can ( kind of like finding a mentor and or teacher) Last but not least take care of your self and have Fun!
In Kilted Freedom, James