I think I hve a sexual dysfunction. I mean don't get me wrong I love sex(forgive me I can't afford a sex therapist) But I love the idea of it more than I like to have it. I love watching sex, porn, BDSM, but partaking in sex just doesn't get me as much. I mean I masrurbate constantly with all of these fetishes that turn me on but when my bf or anyone for that matter wants to have sex with me I lose interst and jerk off later to the things I could have done. I wasn't always like this. I've worked in the sex industry and enjoyed it immensly (Bondage and sex shop here in Philly and the west coast) But these past few months I just don't feel like it unless it's voyerism.....I don't even know why I'm posting about this usually I use tribe for rants and raves about other things but I mangaed to not bring my sex life too into the equasion......Oh well I hope it comes back I am only 24 and I am attactive it's not like I have a problem getting sex. Its not like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm just sexually dysfunctional because I masturbate at least 6 to 7 times a day I just don't know why I don't get turned on like I used to.......anyways I'm done sorry you had to hear that....
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Re: I hate to bring this out on tribe but....
Sat, January 5, 2008 - 4:31 PMDo you feel that it is interfering with your life and/or happiness in some way? -
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Re: I hate to bring this out on tribe but....
Tue, January 8, 2008 - 10:16 AMI hate to say this but yes in some ways it does interfere I mean my bf wonders if its because i'm not attracted to him and I feel quite the contrary but I guess I'm going through a phase or something.....I also agree that its a change and I have to roll with it as well I just don't quite seem to know how to mesh it in with my exterior sex life.....
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Re: I hate to bring this out on tribe but....
Mon, January 7, 2008 - 2:44 AMmy take on it is: things change. roll with it. if you are enjoying it - it can't be that bad....
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Re: I hate to bring this out on tribe but....
Sun, January 13, 2008 - 7:10 AMI would have to agree. I've never seen a case where stressing out about something sexual did anyone any good. However, it does seem like a good oportunity to develop some deeper understanding.
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Re: I hate to bring this out on tribe but....
Tue, February 5, 2008 - 11:42 AM>> if you are enjoying it - it can't be that bad....
While that may be OK advice for a particular situation, it is simply not true. There any many many things which are pleasurable that are also self destructive and damaging. I'm not saying that this the case with respect to the original post, just that it is a fallacy if applied generally. -
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Re: I hate to bring this out on tribe but....
Thu, March 27, 2008 - 3:52 AMI agree with the principles of the previous posters. However...
I think that all of your mental stimulation may have made the ideal sex in your mind more appealing than the real sex with all its complications. Why bother with another persons quirks and needs when you can satisfy yourself with roughly equal effectiveness, and no hangups? -
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Re: I hate to bring this out on tribe but....
Fri, May 2, 2008 - 6:22 PMmaybe there is a way to work things out so that you can satisfy yourself and your b/f?
maybe there isn't.
as i said earlier: roll with it.
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