Set a Date

topic posted Thu, December 29, 2005 - 2:58 PM by  Kari
Ok now we are on our way. My friends wedding is on its way we have set a date. He is getting his interveiw on the 30 or 31sr of this Month. We are sure that he will be here in like 3 to 4 weeks after that and i guess we will have things even more ready for the wedding that is now going to be.... Ready for this? March 25th.. As you may know that i and the bride are doing cart wheels. We had come to a stained still there for like Months.
But here is MY problem, the bacheloratte party. I have been told by the bride that she dose NOT want a striper and she dosen't want to be out to late becouse she, well, we have to be at the hair place the next day. She at one point told me it was fine with her if we just stayed in and watched movies. Ok Every brides party i have been to we do some damage. You know have fun. She came out yesterday and told me if his friends get him a striper she would be mad. (also saying he would be mad also if they got him one) So i am at a stain still. I just do not what to do nothing. And have everyone mad becouse i didn't get things set up. But she has put it out there that she dosen't want to have one i guess. I just want to do something fun with out spending alot of money, and not to upset the bride or the party of the wedding. Dose anyone have any good ideas that i can work with...huh?

HELP!!!

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Kari
Kansas City
  • Re: Set a Date

    Fri, January 6, 2006 - 1:54 PM
    Ugh...yeah, this is rough. Are there going to be a lot of people at the bachelorette party? And are they the kind of girls who will expect a big party with lots of boozing, clubbing, etc.? If they aren't and they understand that the bride isn't up for that, then I don't think you have much to worry about. If they are partiers, though, and the bride is very firm on not going out and getting smashed, then I would explain that to them. That it is going to be a calm evening. Even if you girls stay in, you can have a fun time playing crazy bachelorette games or getting slightly buzzed and telling lots of intimate stories that are only shared at such events:)

    Good luck with this party...but I really feel that you should do something that the bride is comfortable with, yet leaves her feeling that she had an awesomely fun time!
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      Re: Set a Date

      Mon, January 9, 2006 - 5:34 AM
      I would recommend you heed your friend's wishes and throw a quiet, at home party. But you can liven it up by also making it a sex toy party.

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