I can hardly wait for the apologies.

I was not allowed to comment on this situation until it was resolved and instead watched as the burning man community tripped over itself to accuse me of some wrongdoing or other. I understand that we all grieve differently but accusing me of hurting Caleb or stealing his computer is beyond the pale.

As for Frog Pond, I wonder how any of you would react to a potentially rambunctious event with guns and fireworks when the only thing you really want to do is go to sleep or be somewhere alone for a few hours to grieve. After the misery of the Reno memorial, I could hardly expect to be excited about going to Frog Pond. The reason I went was to meet some of Caleb's friends from Gerlach and Winnemucca who wanted to share their stories.

I am still in shock from the events of Caleb's death. If I happened to smile at a story someone told me about Caleb, does that make me ghoulish? Not all grieving is tears, sometimes it is the delightful sharing of a memory or a hug.

As for getting any kind of apology from people who cruelly made accusations when I could not address the situation (based on legal advice), I expect hell will freeze over first but at least they have self-identified.