http://tribes.tribe.net/butchfemme/threads/rss Tribe.net. Local Connections http://tribes.tribe.net/butchfemme/thread/1fcb473b-ab7f-43e7-8d48-1a3c04186589 <div>I sincerely trust that all of you who enjoy such things, have either caused or have had a few internal organs jostled about in pursuit of Holiday Happiness. Personally, I was so filled with Holiday Joy that I could take no more. Today we had to take a break to, um, recuperate, so to speak. <br/> <br/>Joy to the World.</div> <div> posted in <a href="http://tribes.tribe.net/butchfemme">Butch/femme Dynamic</a> - 0 replies </div> Wed, 27 Dec 2006 06:24:23 GMT http://tribes.tribe.net/butchfemme/thread/1fcb473b-ab7f-43e7-8d48-1a3c04186589 Cerra 2006-12-27T06:24:23Z http://tribes.tribe.net/butchfemme/thread/9ed11efb-ac14-49b6-a64f-14fea8287725 <div>My girlfriend, ah, fiancée, is butch. In the beginning, she presented as a top who would barely let me touch her girl parts and I was fine with being her toy because I needed to be submissive after my former relationship tapped me out on always being macho. <br/> <br/> <br/>Here we are two years later, in a very serious relationship. <br/> <br/>As our relationship has evolved she has let her guard down very slowly mostly because I have, over many conversations, expressed how I came to be at ease with being sexually submissive to her while retaining my natural fiery, dominant personality. Her trust in me has led to her exploring her real sexual needs. Since she is not inclined to sharing her innermost thoughts unless I probe, which I'm very good at. So probe I have. I've come to realize that she really, really wants to be submissive to me so she can experience another part of her sexuality while keeping her definitions of herself intact but she knows virtually nothing about the D/S headspace. I see a long learning curve either way. I'd like her to learn to be a good D by experiencing the role of a Sub. This way she will hopefully internalize where I want to be in my head during a scene. <br/> <br/>Recently, she asked me to take control before we started. I did. The scene I laid out was mild enough for her to handle. We were about an hour into things and having a very good time when all of a sudden she tried to switch midstream. I was fine with it. She needed to regain control, but she overwhelmed herself and had a bit of a meltdown. I left the room, quietly, well aware that she needed to re-find her balance with dignity. <br/> <br/>I settled in front of the TV, not thinking one way or the other about what happened. Fifteen or so minutes later she came in and sat down next to me. Without saying a word, she let her robe fall partially open. "Oh, that's not fair," I said as my eyes landed on the tip of her cock. Without hesitation I dropped to my knees and deep throated her until she was on the verge of an orgasm. I stopped, turned away from her and assumed the classic submissive position kneeling with palms down, arms outstretched, ass in the air. She f****d me hard. Enjoying two screaming orgasms before she allowed me to finally come. <br/> <br/>I learned two things: 1. Bouncing breasts rubbing across carpet feels good but caused nasty rug burns, 2. I will need to take a more controlled approach to help her get to where she wants to be. <br/> <br/>Patience is a virtue. </div> <div> posted in <a href="http://tribes.tribe.net/butchfemme">Butch/femme Dynamic</a> - 0 replies </div> Fri, 08 Dec 2006 20:02:58 GMT http://tribes.tribe.net/butchfemme/thread/9ed11efb-ac14-49b6-a64f-14fea8287725 Cerra 2006-12-08T20:02:58Z