Last week while riding from SF through Marin on the 1 / 101 highway, there was a pair of ducks on the side of the highway.
Well, half of the pair kind of. As one of the ducks was obviously recently run over.
The other one, from what I could see riding past on my motorcycle at highways speeds, was standing right next to its probable companion and bobbing its head up and down repeatedly.
Maybe I was projecting, but it felt like the remaining, living duck was grieving or mourning for its killed friend? Maybe the head bobbing was an expression of sadness, attempts to awaken or revive its friend, confusion, affection...?
I considered taking the next exit and coming back around to help it. But felt there was nothing really to do or help. Its friend was pretty obviously dead and I was not likely going to bring it back to life. The living duck was off the highway, nearer the water now and going through its process whatever that may have been. Interfering in that natural process seemed somehow out of place.
Birth, life & death are obviously natural experiences we all get to experience soon enough. Seems I tend to feel that rather than trying to deny or "fix" the process, it is worthwhile to embrace their honest, unadultered experience since there are inherent opportunities for spiritual growth, learning & experiencing Life in its fullness in going through these cycles of experience.
Of course I am not speaking about going out of our way to inflict pain or death on beings. Simply respecting these natural, metaphysical experiences & our own ultimate ability to experience & learn through the truth of them along with all the transitory emotional feelings one may experience.
There was something deeply moving as well about feeling the duck seemingly mourn or otherwise remain by the other ducks side in that situation. Whatever the actual motivation for its actions.
Well, half of the pair kind of. As one of the ducks was obviously recently run over.
The other one, from what I could see riding past on my motorcycle at highways speeds, was standing right next to its probable companion and bobbing its head up and down repeatedly.
Maybe I was projecting, but it felt like the remaining, living duck was grieving or mourning for its killed friend? Maybe the head bobbing was an expression of sadness, attempts to awaken or revive its friend, confusion, affection...?
I considered taking the next exit and coming back around to help it. But felt there was nothing really to do or help. Its friend was pretty obviously dead and I was not likely going to bring it back to life. The living duck was off the highway, nearer the water now and going through its process whatever that may have been. Interfering in that natural process seemed somehow out of place.
Birth, life & death are obviously natural experiences we all get to experience soon enough. Seems I tend to feel that rather than trying to deny or "fix" the process, it is worthwhile to embrace their honest, unadultered experience since there are inherent opportunities for spiritual growth, learning & experiencing Life in its fullness in going through these cycles of experience.
Of course I am not speaking about going out of our way to inflict pain or death on beings. Simply respecting these natural, metaphysical experiences & our own ultimate ability to experience & learn through the truth of them along with all the transitory emotional feelings one may experience.
There was something deeply moving as well about feeling the duck seemingly mourn or otherwise remain by the other ducks side in that situation. Whatever the actual motivation for its actions.
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Re: companionship & natural cycles / experiences of being embodied
Mon, July 21, 2008 - 12:59 AMThey say animals are usually quite able to psychologically repair themeselves after a loss such as that. Perhaps elephants are an exception?
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Re: companionship & natural cycles / experiences of being embodied
Mon, August 4, 2008 - 12:32 AMIt did feel like a powerfully poignant moment to witness. Now that bird has been gone a while, I wonder if the bird that was still alive continues to feel & remember its' deceased companion? Or if it simply moved totally on to a new present moment to moment experience which no longer includes the killed bird? Hopefully it has done as you mentioned - repaired, integrated, forgotten & / or healed its' consciousness from that experience.
What do you know about elephants in that way Stephanie?
I think I remember something about them smelling bones & dead bodies of their kin, but that's about all I remember that might be related.
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Re: companionship & natural cycles / experiences of being embodied
Mon, August 4, 2008 - 7:00 AMwell elephants do psychologically repair themselves, they'll keep on living and move on.
a mother elephant standing by her dead calf's body for days and days and days, will eventually move on back to her family and have more calves.
but that moment for them is still very powerful.
i'd say humans are the one exception. =p bad things happen and alot of us can't ever get over them
i believe that animals with kinship bonds or some sort do mourn each other, we can't always understand, and in their world, they can't take a week of paid leave from work, dress up in black, and go to a funeral like we do.
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Re: companionship & natural cycles / experiences of being embodied
Mon, August 4, 2008 - 7:08 AMwhy do people insist on wearing black at funerals ?
how about white ?
how about magenta and electric cyan ?
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Re: companionship & natural cycles / experiences of being embodied
Mon, August 4, 2008 - 7:33 AMtradition as far as i know =p
if you wore something more ostentatious, it would be... ostentatious =p -
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Re: companionship & natural cycles / experiences of being embodied
Mon, August 4, 2008 - 7:38 AMdeath is ostentatious
life is even moreso
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