For some unknown reason, relationship-wise, I attract fire or air signs. Like Leos and Libras.

Just out of curiosity.. what sun signs do you mostly attract?

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    Re: what sun signs do you attract?

    Fri, April 4, 2008 - 7:53 PM
    Pisces Sun here, with loads of water and a bit of fire.

    Kind of a mixed bag for me. Across the board. The sun signs that repel me... eventually, are air and fire. There were glimmerings of interest from fire suns, a Leo there, a Sagittarius there, much less Aries, and never consummated. Too loud, brusque and in love with themselves for my tender heart.

    In the last recent phase (maybe it was in the stars, maybe... pure coincidence?), the last two men were Air sun signs. The first being a Gemini, birth data unknown. The sex was brilliant but it got boring as we had nothing in common outside of that.

    The second was a Libra Sun. With mostly earth signs in his chart. Virgo, Capricorn, with a Cancer Moon. *sighs dreamily* But alas, it was not to be. I fell out with his cold air side. Brrrr.
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    Fri, April 4, 2008 - 8:09 PM
    I initially attract any sign it seems like.. probably mostly water signs though. But for a lasting mutual attraction, it seems like other water signs I get along with the best and feel the deepest connection with. Air and earth signs I seem to attract/be attracted to also (either as friends or romantically). My bf is an Aquarius Sun, with Venus is in Pisces. Come to think of it I also seem to attract a lot of Aries men too, but they kind of scare me lol :) Not so much how they act.. more of what I've heard of the sign (can be harsh, etc.). I wouldn't be able to get along with anyone who's insensitive.. regardless of their sign.
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    Mon, April 7, 2008 - 9:06 PM
    I'm a Scorpio... I attract everyone :-)

    But seriously... Pisces and I seem drawn together through some type of primordial ooze, no need for words.

    Other Scorps, Tauruses, Cancers.

    Aries when I'm feeling feisty.

    Lately, Leos. I'm a Leo moon, so it would make sense.

    And strangely, there've been a lot of Virgos in my life lately. I never seemed to attract Virgos into my life when I was younger... god I miss the good ol' days :-)
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    Tue, April 8, 2008 - 1:40 PM
    apparently I attract Leos, which is soo friggin weird. Never liked any though. I can't like a guy that's a bigger "diva" than I can be..could it be the 7th house Sun?

    Oh, and Scorpios, I guess. But they kinda study me from a distance-never make a move.
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    Sat, June 14, 2008 - 6:54 PM
    i am scorp

    VIRGOs for a good time... dunno why
    Cancers for love (but for some reason they're hard to come by)
    Any fire sign for equal parts passion and personal exploration, but so far my favorite fire is LEO
    • Re: what sun signs do you attract?

      Sat, June 14, 2008 - 6:57 PM
      and for the list of signs i DON'T attract:

      LIBRA is a big #1
      AQUARIUS
      Gemini

      yeah, don't get along with the Air's for some reason
      • Re: what sun signs do you attract?

        Sat, June 14, 2008 - 9:43 PM
        I attract some other scorps. but the sign that approaches me the most are Virgos bloody Virgos! always trippin me out and ending bad........ so far....... I guess I like them too
      • Re: what sun signs do you attract?

        Sat, June 14, 2008 - 11:16 PM
        Curiously enough, some of the more powerful & recurring connections have been with people with Taurus sun signs.
        One of my best friends was born with Capricorn sun sign, and our Chinese astrological animals are considered to be best of friends / matches as well among signs ( Dog & Tiger ).

        I can get along fairly well with people born during anytime, provided of course we actually like & respect each other personally, of course.
        Have enjoyed a number of Aries lovers, playmates & one long time friend. Often has been a sense of mutual respect for each others strength of character & spirit. And sexual vitality, at another level. Few Leo connections aside from my father who was a strong but in many ways forgettable influence. Though aside from him there have been a couple brief connections with people born during Leo sun, which often seemed to have a sexuality to them.

        A few strong virgo connections, often noticeably associated with for some reason their being attracted to me more than friends with a similarly curious charge to it that felt to me as being more suited to something other than sexual intimacy like helping each other out in some other way.

        Provided they have matured past a highly evolved sense of airy arrogance & disconnection from recognizing aloof does not equal superior, I've enjoyed a number of Aquarian connections. A mutual appreciation for each others independence has notably marked these connections.

        The water sign personally involved connections have been too few for my feeling & interest. Though very deep, fulfilling & enjoyable at some level. A number of strong family connections who were born with Sun in Pisces. And a couple other Pisces friends, who at an energetic level I've enjoyed a feeling of rapport with. Yet with some of them a propensity for being dishonest, not communicating what they really mean to the point of being passive aggressive or outright fickle friends sometimes. Tend to call usually when they want something and ignore friends much of the rest of the time, say they "have your back" to friends but really don't unless it's quite convenient, even to friends who have stood up for them against the judgments & challenges of others and life even when it made our lives more difficult in ways. Of course that was simply how they chose to express themselves and perhaps their piscean energies, as many pisces born people are true & loyal friends.
        Scorpio, aside from myself being my own friend, I've only experienced a few, very short personal encounters with. And they have been some of the most intriguing, emotionally / psychically / energetically attractive ( fluctuating between Cancer & Pisces ) connections I have experienced. One of my first sexual experiences, perhaps my first actually, was with a girl I knew in high school in Oregon who was also born during Scorpio sun. We had mutual friends and I ended up at her condo she lived in with her dad. He was gone somewhere, we were visiting then ended up in one of the most sensual sexual experiences I've had sense at a feeling level. Felt somehow very naturally harmonious & at a similar frequency yet still subtly electrically charged. Due to my life situation we were only together that one time.

        Then about a year later while still in high school a friend was going out with a girl who was friends with another girl, Jennifer, who I had noticed and met a few times. I'd always felt a certain appreciation for the way she was & expressed herself, as well as her more physical attractiveness & energetic sexual appeal.
        Eventually while hanging out with my friend, his girlfriend and Jennifer she admitted to being attracted to me, and while hanging out at night in a park we kissed & enjoyed each others company without being more overtly sexual than that. However the next time we got together we were with her parents in their car when she told me that she had another, primary, boyfriend and hoped I would still want to be with her. At that time I was not comfortable with that at all, and was also feeling awkward as we both lived with our parents, well she with hers and me with my mother.
        Which would have been fine except my parent was, well a friend once told me she thought that maybe my mother had some kind of subconscious sexual attachment to me and whether that was the case or not, she tended to be oddly possessive and interfering or controlling in ways which made my experiencing & exploring relationships awkward while living with her.
        So I told Jennifer I was not comfortable with that and the start of that relationship ended abruptly.
        I figuratively ran into her about two years later, and we met up a couple times. At the time I was living at the school of my kung fu & tai chi teacher, working and practicing a lot, and she lived in an apartment just a couple blocks nearby with her boyfriend. She was still with the same boyfriend i think, in an open relationship. If I remember accurately she was spending chunks of time in another country through peaceworks or a similar peace activist group. Frankly, I felt too immature in some relational ways compared to her, at the time to be comfortable dealing with an open relationship of that type. Not that that is more mature innately, but does require a different type of growth & comfort to relate that way than I had much experience with.

        I have wished at times that my life had been a bit different, more supportive & free, growing up as a child & teenager and that I had felt comfortable enough to have remained open & involved with her. From what little I knew of her, she felt like a creative, loving & generally very good person. Of course we all have quirks & our own issues, so I don't bother with idolization. Just a feeling of appreciation and respect for her and for qualities & life experiences she was born into that I would like to have experienced as basic from birth as well.
        I only visited with her a couple times then never saw her again.

        There have been a number of other powerful yet curiously brief or mis-connecting Scorpio experiences since then. One was @ early 2000 with a young woman I often met and briefly talked with while she was working as a cashier at a natural foods store called Oasis & Wild Oats in Eugene. One day I asked her if she would like to share some company and talk with each other outside of the store which she apparently wanted to. She shared that her dad was an astrologer, and she was a Scorpio in western astrology. She said she felt more connected to herself as scorpio like than the vedic astrology interpretation which would have considered her a libra. We spent a little time together, she offered herself for me to practice massage on, as I was in another massage class at the time. I had the feeling she would have been pretty open to being more intimate but for some reasons I did not go in that direction with her. Partly because I wanted to take it kind of slow, let a friendship develop.
        But I lost her #, then did not see her at the store and I ended up moving down here to the bay area. Which incidentally she had mentioned wanting to move here as well at some point. Not sure if she ever did? There have been a few other connections with Scorpios of similarly enigmatic, short-lived evolutions. Some where we related longer yet she had a boyfriend, and though we felt to share an affectionate appreciation for each other that was an everpresent awareness which prevented us from opening up more.

        Wow. Yack, yack yack. Or is it Yak? Short attention span moments may inspire simply skimming that. May be the most I have shared about my personal life here yet.? Hopefully something in that will be of interest, empathy or inspiration for someone else's heartful explorations and life experiences?. As can sometimes happen when hearing of others life stories.
        • Re: what sun signs do you attract?

          Fri, June 27, 2008 - 8:24 AM
          I pretty much attract all the wrong ones lol. I have been involved with Aries, Sag, Capricorn, Gemini, Taurus. I thought the Taurus and I would be compatible but he was too stubborn for me. Would you believe I have NEVER ever even come across a cancer or scorpio? Not romantically at least. I think I'm missing out big time :(

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